1 00:00:00,078 --> 00:00:03,000 You have exactly 1,440 minutes today. 2 00:00:03,026 --> 00:00:03,365 That's it. 3 00:00:03,547 --> 00:00:04,486 No more, no less. 4 00:00:04,669 --> 00:00:08,686 And what I'm about to tell you will change your time management forever. 5 00:00:08,765 --> 00:00:11,765 Right now, this very second, as you're listening to this, about 6 00:00:11,765 --> 00:00:17,191 51% of those minutes are about to vanish into tasks and add zero value. 7 00:00:17,543 --> 00:00:21,482 To your life, the average person gets interrupted like 60 times a 8 00:00:21,482 --> 00:00:25,473 day, and that is gonna result in about 25 minutes of loss, loss 9 00:00:25,473 --> 00:00:27,769 of focus after each distraction. 10 00:00:27,795 --> 00:00:30,978 Meanwhile, you're gonna be telling yourself that you don't have time 11 00:00:31,134 --> 00:00:34,108 for the gym, you don't have time for your favorite side project. 12 00:00:34,291 --> 00:00:37,343 You don't have time to learn that skill that's gonna elevate your business 13 00:00:37,343 --> 00:00:41,021 or your life, or even you don't have time to have a real conversation. 14 00:00:41,439 --> 00:00:42,352 That's someone you love. 15 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,221 But what if I told you that the problem isn't time? 16 00:00:45,404 --> 00:00:50,439 It's that you have been lied to about how time actually works, your 17 00:00:50,439 --> 00:00:52,630 success, DNA podcast, your success. 18 00:00:52,708 --> 00:00:55,734 Is in your DNA, what is up, what is up, what is up? 19 00:00:55,734 --> 00:00:56,778 My fellow Success Secrets. 20 00:00:56,778 --> 00:01:00,378 Welcome to another episode of Your success, DNA, that podcast for my 21 00:01:00,378 --> 00:01:04,865 aspiring, striving folks out there, entrepreneurs, moms and dads, 22 00:01:04,865 --> 00:01:07,839 nine to five escapees, just folks that wanna elevate their life. 23 00:01:07,839 --> 00:01:09,926 And so if that's you, you have come to the right place. 24 00:01:09,952 --> 00:01:12,900 'cause here each episode is gonna deliver some mindset shifts, some 25 00:01:12,900 --> 00:01:16,004 habit upgrades, all mixed, a little dose of rebellion so that you can 26 00:01:16,004 --> 00:01:17,595 break free from the convention. 27 00:01:18,117 --> 00:01:20,804 Build a life aligned with your version of success. 28 00:01:20,986 --> 00:01:23,830 And if you happen to know someone who dreams of ditching the grind or and 29 00:01:23,830 --> 00:01:26,465 making themselves a little bit better through some self-help, some personal 30 00:01:26,465 --> 00:01:29,256 development, you might want to go ahead and forward this episode to them. 31 00:01:29,308 --> 00:01:29,517 Okay? 32 00:01:29,517 --> 00:01:33,117 So today we're gonna be exposing the biggest slide that you have been told. 33 00:01:33,173 --> 00:01:37,113 About time management, we've, we've all dived into all those time management 34 00:01:37,165 --> 00:01:41,756 books and courses and seminars and whatever, and I'm gonna show you exactly 35 00:01:41,756 --> 00:01:47,000 where your 1,440 daily minutes actually disappear and how you can get them back. 36 00:01:47,182 --> 00:01:50,886 First, I'm gonna reveal the shocking statistics about how the average 37 00:01:50,886 --> 00:01:52,713 person actually spends their day. 38 00:01:52,908 --> 00:01:57,160 Including why you're losing over half of your productive hours in meaningless 39 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,221 activities that someone else out there. 40 00:01:59,843 --> 00:02:01,252 As decided were important. 41 00:02:01,643 --> 00:02:05,008 You'll discover why your brain can only focus for 12 minutes at a time, 42 00:02:05,113 --> 00:02:08,608 and what this means for everything you're out there trying to accomplish. 43 00:02:08,660 --> 00:02:12,391 Second, we're gonna dive into the real reason Warren Buffet's calendar 44 00:02:12,495 --> 00:02:17,008 was almost always empty while Bill Gates was drowning in meetings and 45 00:02:17,008 --> 00:02:21,886 how this one single insight changed Gates' entire approach to success. 46 00:02:22,013 --> 00:02:24,626 And you're gonna learn why the busiest people out there are often. 47 00:02:24,860 --> 00:02:28,173 It's the least productive and how you can flip this script in your own life. 48 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:32,191 And then third, I'm gonna walk you through the exact system that allows you to make 49 00:02:32,191 --> 00:02:34,747 time for everything that actually matters. 50 00:02:35,008 --> 00:02:38,060 Whether that's building a business or getting in shape or finding the 51 00:02:38,060 --> 00:02:40,747 one you love, or if you already found them, spending some time with 52 00:02:40,747 --> 00:02:44,217 them, learning new skills, or just having a little space to think, this 53 00:02:44,217 --> 00:02:45,730 is not another productivity hat. 54 00:02:46,043 --> 00:02:49,095 It is a complete reframe of how time actually works. 55 00:02:49,578 --> 00:02:53,047 Alright, so once again, here's a controversial truth that I 56 00:02:53,047 --> 00:02:56,073 don't think anybody wants to admit or even wants you to know. 57 00:02:56,126 --> 00:02:57,926 You my friend, do not have a time problem. 58 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:02,856 You do, however, have a priority problem that is disguised as a time problem. 59 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,004 Now stick with me here. 60 00:03:04,213 --> 00:03:08,347 Lemme tell you about two of the richest, most successful people on the plant having 61 00:03:08,439 --> 00:03:10,108 a conversation that changed everything. 62 00:03:10,352 --> 00:03:10,873 Warren Buffett. 63 00:03:11,056 --> 00:03:11,369 Yeah. 64 00:03:11,369 --> 00:03:14,421 You know the name and if you don't just research it, you'll learn all about him. 65 00:03:14,630 --> 00:03:18,647 One of the wealthiest men in history once showed Bill Gates' calendar Gates 66 00:03:18,673 --> 00:03:22,691 later recalled be completely shocked because there was nothing on it. 67 00:03:22,873 --> 00:03:25,560 There were like four entries maybe by April. 68 00:03:25,717 --> 00:03:26,708 Buffett said casualty. 69 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:30,047 Meanwhile, bill Gates admitted that he used to pack every single 70 00:03:30,047 --> 00:03:31,795 minute of his schedule sinking. 71 00:03:32,169 --> 00:03:35,847 It showed how serious and how important he was to the world. 72 00:03:36,056 --> 00:03:38,013 His calendar looked like a little game of Tetris. 73 00:03:38,013 --> 00:03:38,952 Every blog was filled. 74 00:03:39,108 --> 00:03:41,847 No space to breathe inside there anywhere. 75 00:03:41,978 --> 00:03:45,917 Buffet told him, look, I can buy anything I want basically, but build. 76 00:03:46,913 --> 00:03:47,930 I cannot buy time. 77 00:03:48,113 --> 00:03:50,904 That conversation hit gates like a lightning bolt. 78 00:03:51,034 --> 00:03:52,652 He realized he'd been confusing. 79 00:03:52,652 --> 00:03:54,530 Being busy with being productive. 80 00:03:54,582 --> 00:03:56,069 You controlled your time. 81 00:03:56,069 --> 00:04:00,791 Gates is later quoted it, saying it's not a proxy of your seriousness that you have 82 00:04:00,791 --> 00:04:01,804 to fill every minute of your schedule. 83 00:04:02,882 --> 00:04:04,213 Yeah, think about that for a second. 84 00:04:04,343 --> 00:04:07,917 Two of the most successful people alive today, one of them had to 85 00:04:07,917 --> 00:04:12,404 teach the other that an empty calendar is not a sign of laziness. 86 00:04:12,456 --> 00:04:14,308 It can be a sign of clarity. 87 00:04:14,491 --> 00:04:16,473 So here's what's really happening in your life right now. 88 00:04:16,630 --> 00:04:20,752 You, my friend, are drowning in other people's urgencies while your 89 00:04:20,804 --> 00:04:22,939 own priorities suffocate alone. 90 00:04:23,417 --> 00:04:26,182 In the corner, you are so busy responding to the world that 91 00:04:26,182 --> 00:04:30,330 you never get a minute to create anything meaningful in that world. 92 00:04:30,513 --> 00:04:30,565 Yeah. 93 00:04:31,165 --> 00:04:34,321 Alright, so let me give you the exact system that you can use to 94 00:04:34,321 --> 00:04:37,165 reclaim 1,440 minutes starting today. 95 00:04:37,704 --> 00:04:41,486 Okay, step number one, let's do a brutal time audit. 96 00:04:41,695 --> 00:04:45,582 In so many of these episodes that I will give you and I have given 97 00:04:45,582 --> 00:04:47,408 you, this is always the first step. 98 00:04:47,486 --> 00:04:50,617 Whether you're trying to build a relationship, find a relationship, build 99 00:04:50,617 --> 00:04:53,982 a business, make yourself better, the first thing you are ever gonna have to do. 100 00:04:54,469 --> 00:04:55,591 Be brutally honest with yourself. 101 00:04:55,591 --> 00:04:59,113 So for the next week, I want you to track every single thing 102 00:04:59,113 --> 00:05:01,069 that you do in 15 minute blocks. 103 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:02,060 I know how it sounds. 104 00:05:02,060 --> 00:05:05,582 It sounds a little obsessive, but you can't manage what you haven't 105 00:05:05,582 --> 00:05:07,252 measured or what you don't measure. 106 00:05:07,304 --> 00:05:11,869 Most people have absolutely zero idea where their time actually goes. 107 00:05:11,973 --> 00:05:14,582 They may have an inkling where they think it goes, but where they think 108 00:05:14,582 --> 00:05:15,600 it goes probably somewhere else. 109 00:05:15,652 --> 00:05:18,000 They think they're working productively for eight hours. 110 00:05:18,247 --> 00:05:21,873 When they're really probably getting in about three hours of meaningful work. 111 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:23,621 Yeah, that's just the reality. 112 00:05:23,621 --> 00:05:26,073 You may be a little different, but track yourself and find out. 113 00:05:26,073 --> 00:05:28,734 Use your phone's, notes, app or a simple notebook. 114 00:05:28,734 --> 00:05:31,760 Grab yourself a journal, whatever it is, and then every 15 minutes 115 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,213 or so write down what you just did. 116 00:05:34,578 --> 00:05:36,717 You should remember the last 15 minutes, right? 117 00:05:36,900 --> 00:05:37,682 Don't judge it. 118 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:39,195 Don't try to optimize it. 119 00:05:39,300 --> 00:05:40,213 Well, not yet anyway. 120 00:05:40,395 --> 00:05:41,621 Just observe. 121 00:05:41,752 --> 00:05:44,673 And let me be honest with you, you are probably gonna be shocked 122 00:05:44,673 --> 00:05:46,213 at what it is you discover. 123 00:05:46,395 --> 00:05:46,682 Okay? 124 00:05:46,891 --> 00:05:49,578 Now that brings us to step number two, and this is the 125 00:05:49,630 --> 00:05:51,143 Eisenhower Matrix reality check. 126 00:05:51,143 --> 00:05:51,221 Yep. 127 00:05:52,330 --> 00:05:53,373 President Eisenhower here. 128 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,686 Okay, so let's take everything from your time audit, and we're gonna 129 00:05:56,686 --> 00:05:59,295 sort that into four categories, okay? 130 00:05:59,295 --> 00:06:01,043 Some of you would be familiar with these categories. 131 00:06:01,147 --> 00:06:03,234 Category number one is the urgent and important. 132 00:06:03,234 --> 00:06:06,469 These are real crisises and deadlines that really matter to you. 133 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,965 Category number two is the important but not so urgent. 134 00:06:09,991 --> 00:06:12,156 These are like your goals, your relationships, your health. 135 00:06:12,604 --> 00:06:12,891 Hello. 136 00:06:13,152 --> 00:06:15,760 Alright, and you're learning still important but not quite as urgent. 137 00:06:15,891 --> 00:06:19,413 And then group number three is gonna be urgent but not important. 138 00:06:19,543 --> 00:06:22,621 These are often things like other people's emergencies, most meetings 139 00:06:22,621 --> 00:06:26,352 that you have to go to and those ever peppering interruptions that you get. 140 00:06:26,430 --> 00:06:27,578 And then group number four. 141 00:06:27,630 --> 00:06:28,960 Yeah, you know where I'm going with this. 142 00:06:29,139 --> 00:06:31,252 It's neither urgent nor important. 143 00:06:31,356 --> 00:06:33,208 These my friends, are your time oysters. 144 00:06:33,208 --> 00:06:37,069 They include mindless scrolling, busy work that you do yourself, whatever it is. 145 00:06:37,069 --> 00:06:37,278 Okay? 146 00:06:37,278 --> 00:06:38,400 There's a whole host of things in here. 147 00:06:38,634 --> 00:06:40,356 Here's a key insight I want you to think about. 148 00:06:40,565 --> 00:06:43,200 You should only work on those first two categories. 149 00:06:43,252 --> 00:06:44,295 Boom, mic drop. 150 00:06:44,295 --> 00:06:47,869 I could end this episode right now, but we're not going to everything else. 151 00:06:48,126 --> 00:06:53,213 Should be delegated automated ai hello or deleted entirely out of your life. 152 00:06:53,291 --> 00:06:54,465 Just get it right outta there. 153 00:06:54,465 --> 00:06:57,126 Don't even worry about it, and open up that space in your mind. 154 00:06:57,386 --> 00:07:00,517 There's a DIS decision making framework, which was originally 155 00:07:00,673 --> 00:07:04,691 developed by President Eisenhower and later popularized by the ever popular 156 00:07:04,691 --> 00:07:07,795 Stephen Covey in his uh, seven Habits for Highly Effective People book, 157 00:07:08,186 --> 00:07:09,882 which I read a couple of times now. 158 00:07:09,908 --> 00:07:12,334 This framework will completely transform. 159 00:07:12,613 --> 00:07:15,169 How you see your tasks and what you do with them. 160 00:07:15,352 --> 00:07:16,917 And here's another key insight I wanna leave you with. 161 00:07:17,178 --> 00:07:20,230 You should only work again in those top two categories. 162 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,152 Everything, every single damn thing should be delegated, 163 00:07:23,152 --> 00:07:24,900 automated, or deleted entirely. 164 00:07:25,134 --> 00:07:26,673 And I know I said that twice. 165 00:07:26,673 --> 00:07:27,926 That's how important it is. 166 00:07:28,134 --> 00:07:31,708 Most people out there are gonna spend 80% of their time in those bottom two 167 00:07:31,708 --> 00:07:35,830 damn categories, and then wonder why they never make any progress on what 168 00:07:35,830 --> 00:07:37,773 actually matters to them and their lives. 169 00:07:38,147 --> 00:07:42,113 I want you to remember Parkinson's law here, work will expand to 170 00:07:42,113 --> 00:07:44,930 fill the time that you have available for its completion. 171 00:07:45,452 --> 00:07:47,826 It will, the work will expand to fill the time that you 172 00:07:47,826 --> 00:07:49,286 have available for completion. 173 00:07:49,495 --> 00:07:51,504 If you say, I've got three weeks to do it, guess what? 174 00:07:51,739 --> 00:07:54,634 It's probably gonna take you two weeks and six days. 175 00:07:54,765 --> 00:07:57,504 Or it might take you three weeks and two days, right? 176 00:07:57,634 --> 00:07:59,460 But if you said, I only have a week to do it, guess what? 177 00:07:59,539 --> 00:08:01,991 You'll probably do it within seven or eight days, maybe even six. 178 00:08:01,991 --> 00:08:02,173 Okay. 179 00:08:02,460 --> 00:08:03,895 So let's go to step number three. 180 00:08:04,408 --> 00:08:06,678 You're gonna do some time blocking, but you're gonna time block 181 00:08:06,678 --> 00:08:08,191 like your life depends on it. 182 00:08:08,452 --> 00:08:10,382 I want you to stop creating a to-do list. 183 00:08:10,434 --> 00:08:12,156 I still have them, but follow me here. 184 00:08:12,234 --> 00:08:16,278 I want you to start scheduling every single minute of your day in advance. 185 00:08:16,434 --> 00:08:17,139 This isn't about being rigid. 186 00:08:17,847 --> 00:08:20,117 No, this is about being intentional. 187 00:08:20,169 --> 00:08:23,586 I want you to sit down, let's say on Sunday, and plan your 188 00:08:23,586 --> 00:08:26,821 entire week Monday through the following Sunday, every evening. 189 00:08:26,821 --> 00:08:31,569 Then plan your next day and block out time for your priorities. 190 00:08:31,700 --> 00:08:35,143 First, you wanna do this first before the rest of the world 191 00:08:35,247 --> 00:08:37,439 starts laying claim on your hours. 192 00:08:37,569 --> 00:08:38,586 If it's not scheduled, guess what? 193 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:40,243 It doesn't even exist. 194 00:08:40,269 --> 00:08:44,756 If you want to work out, block out a time for it and say, I'm gonna work out 195 00:08:44,965 --> 00:08:48,408 Monday, Wednesday, and Friday at 3:00 AM whatever time it is for you, right? 196 00:08:48,486 --> 00:08:51,904 3:00 PM If you wanna learn something new, block out the time. 197 00:08:52,008 --> 00:08:52,426 You know what? 198 00:08:52,426 --> 00:08:56,913 I'm gonna work on learning German on Tuesday and Thursday between 12 and noon. 199 00:08:57,147 --> 00:08:58,191 Okay, now you're there. 200 00:08:58,217 --> 00:09:00,982 If you wanna work on that project, that side hustle, that 201 00:09:00,982 --> 00:09:02,104 personal development project. 202 00:09:02,334 --> 00:09:05,256 Block out the time, like your life depends on it. 203 00:09:05,517 --> 00:09:07,500 That brings us to step number four. 204 00:09:07,786 --> 00:09:12,378 The step number four is the sacred, no short little word, two letters. 205 00:09:12,508 --> 00:09:13,213 Very important. 206 00:09:13,213 --> 00:09:16,526 This is the most important skill you my friends, are ever gonna develop. 207 00:09:16,708 --> 00:09:20,178 Saying no to almost everything, so you can say yes. 208 00:09:20,369 --> 00:09:21,543 To what really matters. 209 00:09:21,569 --> 00:09:26,813 Every yes to one thing is an automatic no to everything else you could be 210 00:09:26,813 --> 00:09:28,900 doing with that same period of time. 211 00:09:29,134 --> 00:09:32,813 You need to start treating your time like it's finite, right? 212 00:09:32,839 --> 00:09:34,430 It's a precious resource. 213 00:09:34,534 --> 00:09:35,500 It really is. 214 00:09:35,578 --> 00:09:35,708 It. 215 00:09:35,891 --> 00:09:37,560 I was sitting at a convention. 216 00:09:37,869 --> 00:09:41,339 A couple of decades ago, and someone kinda laid this out for me, I 217 00:09:41,339 --> 00:09:42,721 can remember who the speaker was. 218 00:09:42,930 --> 00:09:47,704 He said, I don't have 50 years as an example in front of him, he said, let's 219 00:09:47,704 --> 00:09:51,539 say I go and visit my dad once a year, and we go on a hunting trip every year. 220 00:09:51,747 --> 00:09:53,965 Why don't have 50 years ago on hunting trips with my dad? 221 00:09:54,252 --> 00:09:57,721 I have 50 more times available to go hunting. 222 00:09:58,395 --> 00:10:00,847 You almost look at it a little differently that way, don't you? 223 00:10:01,056 --> 00:10:03,795 So you need to start treating your time like it is finite. 224 00:10:03,821 --> 00:10:04,395 'cause it is. 225 00:10:04,656 --> 00:10:07,943 'cause one day you're gonna wake up and go, oh shit, I'm 63 years old. 226 00:10:07,943 --> 00:10:08,439 What the hell? 227 00:10:08,595 --> 00:10:11,308 So I want you to practice saying, well that sounds interesting, 228 00:10:11,465 --> 00:10:12,534 but I'm not available. 229 00:10:12,991 --> 00:10:15,782 Because here's the thing, ladies and gentlemen, you do not owe anyone an 230 00:10:15,782 --> 00:10:18,573 explanation for protecting your own time. 231 00:10:18,756 --> 00:10:19,043 Okay? 232 00:10:19,304 --> 00:10:20,895 And that brings us to our last step here. 233 00:10:20,895 --> 00:10:23,347 Step number five, deep block works. 234 00:10:23,478 --> 00:10:28,669 Here's the thing, research shows that our brains work in roughly 90 minutes cycles. 235 00:10:28,669 --> 00:10:33,208 And this is all brain based off your brain's natural ultra Dion rhythm cycles. 236 00:10:33,313 --> 00:10:33,573 Alright? 237 00:10:33,626 --> 00:10:34,173 This is what. 238 00:10:34,234 --> 00:10:38,721 Productivity experts like, like Cal Newport calls deep work. 239 00:10:38,747 --> 00:10:40,547 We talk about deep work in a previous episode. 240 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:44,591 The this deep work is the ability to focus without distraction on 241 00:10:44,591 --> 00:10:47,095 a cognitively demanding task. 242 00:10:47,621 --> 00:10:48,847 That's how Cal describes it. 243 00:10:48,847 --> 00:10:51,795 So this is where you're gonna spend some really hyper-focused time, 244 00:10:51,952 --> 00:10:53,047 not being distracted by anything. 245 00:10:53,047 --> 00:10:56,517 As your phone is off, you close the door, it's just you and 246 00:10:56,517 --> 00:10:57,560 what it is you're working on. 247 00:10:57,560 --> 00:11:00,665 And this is something that's gonna require your little mental engine 248 00:11:00,795 --> 00:11:02,386 going for a while there, right? 249 00:11:02,647 --> 00:11:06,952 So what you're going to wanna do is schedule two to three deep work blocks per 250 00:11:06,952 --> 00:11:10,239 day where you focus on one important task. 251 00:11:10,839 --> 00:11:12,378 No distractions whatsoever. 252 00:11:12,586 --> 00:11:16,291 Close the door, take the phone off the hook, turn your phone off, whatever it 253 00:11:16,291 --> 00:11:20,204 takes so that you can focus on those Couple of things in those top two 254 00:11:20,204 --> 00:11:21,769 categories we now talked about earlier. 255 00:11:21,821 --> 00:11:25,369 Unlike the Pandero techniques, you know, those 25 minute burst 256 00:11:25,369 --> 00:11:27,743 techniques, deep work requires. 257 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:32,626 A full 90 minute block so that you can achieve a true flow state and 258 00:11:32,626 --> 00:11:34,869 really get shit done in amazing ways. 259 00:11:35,104 --> 00:11:38,886 Those 25 minute block bristles, palm andro techniques, they're great. 260 00:11:38,913 --> 00:11:40,321 They, they do have some benefits. 261 00:11:40,321 --> 00:11:42,878 I'm not gonna slight them, but what I'm saying, and if you really wanna 262 00:11:42,878 --> 00:11:45,304 get into that flow state, you can have to dedicate a little bit of time. 263 00:11:45,304 --> 00:11:45,982 Get on in there. 264 00:11:46,243 --> 00:11:47,026 So if you schedule it. 265 00:11:48,017 --> 00:11:48,278 All right. 266 00:11:48,278 --> 00:11:51,643 Again, turn off those notifications, close the unnecessary tabs on 267 00:11:51,643 --> 00:11:53,886 your computer screen so you're not even, they're not even like 268 00:11:54,147 --> 00:11:55,765 teasing you off on the edge there. 269 00:11:55,869 --> 00:11:57,591 Put your phone in another room. 270 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:58,843 Don't even bother about turning it off. 271 00:11:58,843 --> 00:12:02,339 Just go ahead and put it in another room and then work for 90 minutes. 272 00:12:02,417 --> 00:12:05,352 Once you've done those 90 minutes, give yourself a 15 or 20 minute break. 273 00:12:05,873 --> 00:12:07,621 Just totally step away. 274 00:12:07,726 --> 00:12:09,004 Let your eyes look at something else. 275 00:12:09,004 --> 00:12:10,204 Let your brain see something else. 276 00:12:10,386 --> 00:12:14,560 But during those blocks, trust me, if you do this, you'll accomplish more than most 277 00:12:14,560 --> 00:12:19,191 people do in an entire eight to 12 hour a day of scattered, interrupted work. 278 00:12:19,756 --> 00:12:23,356 Now speaking of making time for things that matter, if this episode is, is 279 00:12:23,356 --> 00:12:26,591 resonating with you even a little bit, you need to get on my newsletter list. 280 00:12:26,695 --> 00:12:30,295 'cause every week I send out insights like this that cut through all the noise 281 00:12:30,295 --> 00:12:32,930 and all the cock on, all the bullshit that's out there to give you some 282 00:12:32,930 --> 00:12:34,756 real strategies for building a life. 283 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:36,578 That actually works the way you want it to. 284 00:12:36,578 --> 00:12:38,430 It's called Unleash Your Success, DNA. 285 00:12:38,560 --> 00:12:41,221 And it's for people who 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00:13:15,186 My friends is the only truly Democratic resource out there. 297 00:13:15,482 --> 00:13:19,500 Rich or poor, young or old, successful or struggling, we all 298 00:13:19,500 --> 00:13:22,343 get the same 1,440 minutes per day. 299 00:13:22,578 --> 00:13:23,256 I don't care where you're at. 300 00:13:23,439 --> 00:13:24,456 So everyone gets it. 301 00:13:24,847 --> 00:13:28,421 It's not like, I don't, I I get $10 and he gets $10,000. 302 00:13:28,421 --> 00:13:28,760 No, no. 303 00:13:28,891 --> 00:13:32,047 I get 1,440 minutes and he gets 1,440 minutes. 304 00:13:32,126 --> 00:13:32,360 Okay? 305 00:13:32,673 --> 00:13:34,317 But here's what most people are gonna miss. 306 00:13:34,421 --> 00:13:36,247 Time is not about productivity. 307 00:13:36,326 --> 00:13:37,265 It's about identity. 308 00:13:37,395 --> 00:13:40,473 How you spend your time is how you spend your life. 309 00:13:40,865 --> 00:13:44,491 And how you spend your life is who you end up becoming. 310 00:13:44,595 --> 00:13:48,821 So when you're constantly reacting to other people's priorities day in and day 311 00:13:48,821 --> 00:13:51,430 out, you're not just being unproductive. 312 00:13:51,613 --> 00:13:55,343 You are literally becoming someone else's version of who you should be. 313 00:13:55,526 --> 00:13:58,917 The bigger paradigm here is it's about reclaiming your. 314 00:13:59,330 --> 00:14:03,739 Agency in a world that has designed itself to steal your attention. 315 00:14:03,791 --> 00:14:07,678 All the apps on this little device right here, all the little tools and techniques 316 00:14:07,678 --> 00:14:12,165 and tricks on your computer, even AI is designed to steal your attention away. 317 00:14:12,191 --> 00:14:15,969 Every app, every notification, every quote, unquote urgent request is 318 00:14:16,143 --> 00:14:19,991 competing for your most valuable asset, and most people are just 319 00:14:19,991 --> 00:14:21,765 giving it away willy-nilly for free. 320 00:14:21,921 --> 00:14:22,208 All just. 321 00:14:22,447 --> 00:14:24,639 Passing it out like candy bars at Halloween. 322 00:14:24,926 --> 00:14:26,700 This isn't just about getting more done. 323 00:14:26,700 --> 00:14:30,352 Like I said earlier, it's about becoming the person who has the 324 00:14:30,352 --> 00:14:34,708 time and the space to think, to create, to connect, and to grow. 325 00:14:34,891 --> 00:14:38,100 It's about designing a life instead of just surviving in one. 326 00:14:38,308 --> 00:14:42,013 Okay, so all that said, let me give you your whisker wisdom for today. 327 00:14:42,247 --> 00:14:43,369 You can't save time. 328 00:14:43,708 --> 00:14:45,013 Nope, but you can't invest it. 329 00:14:45,169 --> 00:14:48,143 Every minute you spend on something that does not align with your 330 00:14:48,143 --> 00:14:52,578 values and your goals is a minute that you will never, ever get back. 331 00:14:52,786 --> 00:14:56,386 However, on the flip side, every minute that you invest in what truly 332 00:14:56,491 --> 00:15:02,386 matters to you, compounds in your life over time, so your specific action 333 00:15:02,386 --> 00:15:05,986 for this week, I want you to pick one thing that's important to you, but 334 00:15:05,986 --> 00:15:07,473 you never seem to have time for it. 335 00:15:07,786 --> 00:15:08,047 Okay. 336 00:15:08,204 --> 00:15:09,143 Maybe it's exercise. 337 00:15:09,378 --> 00:15:10,656 Maybe it's learning a new skill. 338 00:15:10,656 --> 00:15:13,943 Maybe it's just sitting down with that person you hold most dear. 339 00:15:13,943 --> 00:15:17,334 Maybe it's working on a creative project, or maybe it's just having a real 340 00:15:17,334 --> 00:15:20,960 conversation with the people that you love and care about whatever it's, and 341 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,308 then schedule 30 minutes for it tomorrow. 342 00:15:23,791 --> 00:15:25,617 Don't schedule it for when you have time. 343 00:15:25,747 --> 00:15:26,660 Schedule the time. 344 00:15:26,713 --> 00:15:28,278 Say That is the time we're doing it. 345 00:15:28,513 --> 00:15:32,321 Put it on your calendar like it's the most important meeting of your day. 346 00:15:32,556 --> 00:15:33,026 You know what? 347 00:15:33,208 --> 00:15:35,243 It is the most important meeting of your day. 348 00:15:35,504 --> 00:15:36,339 You just decided it. 349 00:15:36,713 --> 00:15:37,547 Boom, there it is. 350 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:39,504 And protect those 30 minutes. 351 00:15:39,608 --> 00:15:43,521 Like your life depends on it, because in a very real sense it does. 352 00:15:43,626 --> 00:15:47,800 Because look, you're gonna get 1,440 minutes tomorrow, whether you plan on 353 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,860 getting them, plan on using them or not. 354 00:15:49,991 --> 00:15:52,626 The question becomes, are you gonna spend them? 355 00:15:53,230 --> 00:15:54,247 Or are you gonna invest them? 356 00:15:54,456 --> 00:15:58,030 The most successful people are not the ones who have more time. 357 00:15:58,265 --> 00:16:02,491 They are the ones who are very intentional with the time they're already given. 358 00:16:02,726 --> 00:16:06,091 They've learned that being busy is not the same as being productive, 359 00:16:06,169 --> 00:16:09,404 and that being productive is not the same as being fulfilled. 360 00:16:09,926 --> 00:16:14,308 You have everything you need to make time for everything you know matters. 361 00:16:14,465 --> 00:16:17,178 You just have to decide that it's worth protecting. 362 00:16:17,465 --> 00:16:21,430 So stop waiting for time to just magically appear out of the air. 363 00:16:21,534 --> 00:16:22,943 You can't pull that rabbit outta the hat. 364 00:16:23,256 --> 00:16:27,743 Start creating it by saying no to what does not matter, and saying yes to what 365 00:16:27,743 --> 00:16:31,395 does the life you want is waiting and it's waiting for you to make time for it. 366 00:16:31,578 --> 00:16:33,952 And with that, I'm gonna leave you as I always do, think 367 00:16:33,952 --> 00:16:35,569 successfully and take action.