1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,560 Ever wonder where to meet Christian single women 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:04,879 or men? I know some lonely Christian single 3 00:00:04,879 --> 00:00:06,480 guys in one of the small groups I 4 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:07,700 lead who sure do. 5 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:10,480 A typical question in our support group goes 6 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:11,539 along these lines. 7 00:00:11,839 --> 00:00:13,359 So how and where do I go about 8 00:00:13,359 --> 00:00:14,925 meeting a nice Christian girl? 9 00:00:16,045 --> 00:00:19,105 Since we were curious ourselves, aren't you guys? 10 00:00:19,405 --> 00:00:21,244 We decided to do some research on the 11 00:00:21,244 --> 00:00:21,744 Internet. 12 00:00:22,125 --> 00:00:23,904 What we found was quite interesting. 13 00:00:24,285 --> 00:00:25,024 For example, 14 00:00:25,564 --> 00:00:26,845 in 2025, 15 00:00:26,845 --> 00:00:27,904 American demographics 16 00:00:28,260 --> 00:00:30,500 surveyed over 1,500 17 00:00:30,500 --> 00:00:31,399 engaged couples 18 00:00:32,020 --> 00:00:33,880 to find out how they found each other. 19 00:00:33,940 --> 00:00:35,000 Here are the results. 20 00:00:35,380 --> 00:00:37,700 Top ways where and how single men and 21 00:00:37,700 --> 00:00:38,600 women meet. 22 00:00:39,299 --> 00:00:42,554 Friends slash relatives, 65%. 23 00:00:42,554 --> 00:00:43,934 Online dating services, 24 00:00:44,234 --> 00:00:45,054 20%. 25 00:00:45,755 --> 00:00:48,015 Common interest activities, 10%. 26 00:00:48,395 --> 00:00:48,895 Other, 27 00:00:49,274 --> 00:00:50,015 5%. 28 00:00:50,634 --> 00:00:52,875 So what are single Christians supposed to do 29 00:00:52,875 --> 00:00:53,774 with these findings? 30 00:00:54,475 --> 00:00:55,409 Start by noticing 31 00:01:01,409 --> 00:01:04,370 Matthew seven, Jesus encourages us to practice a 32 00:01:04,370 --> 00:01:06,629 proactive type of faith when he stated, 33 00:01:07,329 --> 00:01:08,894 ask and it will be given to you. 34 00:01:09,055 --> 00:01:10,354 Seek and you will find. 35 00:01:10,814 --> 00:01:12,834 Knock and the door will be opened to 36 00:01:13,054 --> 00:01:15,155 you. For everyone who asks receives. 37 00:01:15,694 --> 00:01:17,075 He who seeks finds. 38 00:01:17,454 --> 00:01:19,054 And to him who knocks, the door will 39 00:01:19,054 --> 00:01:19,715 be opened. 40 00:01:20,575 --> 00:01:22,494 Of course, our lord could answer a single 41 00:01:22,494 --> 00:01:24,989 Christian simple prayer and supernaturally 42 00:01:25,450 --> 00:01:28,170 drop their perfect match into their laps. That 43 00:01:28,170 --> 00:01:28,989 would be cool. 44 00:01:29,609 --> 00:01:31,450 But more often than not, he wants us 45 00:01:31,450 --> 00:01:33,530 to stretch our faith by putting us into 46 00:01:33,530 --> 00:01:34,590 a position of 47 00:01:34,890 --> 00:01:36,750 prayerful seeking and not. 48 00:01:37,215 --> 00:01:39,295 I realize there are some Christians who feel 49 00:01:39,295 --> 00:01:41,474 that by their inaction, they are being spiritual 50 00:01:41,614 --> 00:01:43,614 and submissive to the lord's will for their 51 00:01:43,614 --> 00:01:44,114 lives. 52 00:01:44,655 --> 00:01:46,334 But our god is a god of action, 53 00:01:46,334 --> 00:01:48,575 and he calls us to imitate him as 54 00:01:48,575 --> 00:01:50,500 long as we do so in faith and 55 00:01:50,500 --> 00:01:51,000 humility. 56 00:01:51,619 --> 00:01:53,879 10 ways to meet other single Christians. 57 00:01:54,899 --> 00:01:57,379 Therefore, in light of the above singles dating 58 00:01:57,379 --> 00:01:58,840 survey, here are some practical, 59 00:01:59,619 --> 00:02:02,500 faith filled steps a Christian singles interested in 60 00:02:02,500 --> 00:02:02,745 dating 61 00:02:03,944 --> 00:02:06,584 could take. Circulate your stock. Let your family 62 00:02:06,584 --> 00:02:07,745 and friends know you are seeking a mate 63 00:02:07,745 --> 00:02:09,064 and ask them to keep an eye open 64 00:02:09,064 --> 00:02:09,564 for 65 00:02:10,104 --> 00:02:12,291 you. Don't be embarrassed, but just step out 66 00:02:12,291 --> 00:02:12,925 in faith. 67 00:02:13,944 --> 00:02:16,025 Unless you express your needs, they can't help 68 00:02:16,025 --> 00:02:16,525 you. 69 00:02:16,985 --> 00:02:18,960 Remember that they know you the best and 70 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,479 may be able to spot a good match 71 00:02:20,479 --> 00:02:23,360 for you. Many local churches host singles groups 72 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,699 that create a community of faith based individuals. 73 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,360 Participate in these groups to make connections and 74 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:30,659 find potential dates. 75 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:32,564 Step out of your comfort zone. 76 00:02:33,125 --> 00:02:35,365 Each year, more and more single Christians are 77 00:02:35,365 --> 00:02:37,465 using online Christian dating services. 78 00:02:38,245 --> 00:02:39,625 Consider doing the same. 79 00:02:40,165 --> 00:02:41,844 On this site, you will find the top 80 00:02:41,844 --> 00:02:44,885 Christian matchmaking sites, most of which offer free 81 00:02:44,885 --> 00:02:45,784 trial memberships. 82 00:02:46,485 --> 00:02:48,699 A neat positive about online dating is that 83 00:02:48,699 --> 00:02:51,099 you can search databases for the exact type 84 00:02:51,099 --> 00:02:53,039 of person you are seeking to meet. 85 00:02:53,739 --> 00:02:56,060 Just make sure you read about online safety 86 00:02:56,060 --> 00:02:56,959 dating tips. 87 00:02:57,419 --> 00:02:59,180 Take time to join in on some fun 88 00:02:59,180 --> 00:03:00,479 activities that you enjoy. 89 00:03:01,019 --> 00:03:02,784 This could be as simple as attending a 90 00:03:02,784 --> 00:03:05,425 church singles group, hobby club, fitness club, or 91 00:03:05,425 --> 00:03:06,324 sporting event. 92 00:03:07,104 --> 00:03:09,344 These are natural ways to meet other singles 93 00:03:09,344 --> 00:03:11,444 in your area of passion and interest. 94 00:03:11,824 --> 00:03:13,685 Don't put all your eggs in one basket. 95 00:03:14,305 --> 00:03:15,199 Divers Remember, 96 00:03:21,367 --> 00:03:21,867 he 97 00:03:28,355 --> 00:03:30,694 Remember, he is in control and knows exactly 98 00:03:30,754 --> 00:03:33,074 what you need and when you need it. 99 00:03:33,074 --> 00:03:34,855 Has he ever failed you in the past? 100 00:03:35,155 --> 00:03:37,735 For younger singles, Christian colleges and universities 101 00:03:38,034 --> 00:03:40,455 often have groups and events geared toward connecting 102 00:03:40,514 --> 00:03:41,014 students. 103 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,520 Engage in these activities to meet potential dating 104 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:45,020 partners. 105 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,439 Participating in Christian travel groups or mission trips 106 00:03:48,439 --> 00:03:50,780 can lead to bonding with like minded individuals. 107 00:03:51,319 --> 00:03:53,560 Working together for a shared cause is a 108 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,319 great way to meet other singles of the 109 00:03:55,319 --> 00:03:56,300 opposite sex. 110 00:03:57,004 --> 00:03:59,165 As noted in the above survey, friends and 111 00:03:59,165 --> 00:04:01,265 family members can be wonderful matchmakers. 112 00:04:02,525 --> 00:04:04,444 Letting them know you are interested in meeting 113 00:04:04,444 --> 00:04:06,865 other Christian singles might lead to an introduction 114 00:04:07,004 --> 00:04:08,064 to someone special. 115 00:04:08,444 --> 00:04:11,585 The rise of online dating platforms designed specifically 116 00:04:11,699 --> 00:04:14,500 for Christians offers a modern approach to finding 117 00:04:14,500 --> 00:04:15,000 love. 118 00:04:15,780 --> 00:04:18,339 Sites like Christian Mingle and Christian Cafe allow 119 00:04:18,339 --> 00:04:20,180 you to search for a partner who shares 120 00:04:20,180 --> 00:04:23,079 your faith. Christian singles often find it challenging 121 00:04:23,139 --> 00:04:25,959 to meet like minded individuals for dating relationships. 122 00:04:27,024 --> 00:04:28,944 The quest for a partner who shares faith 123 00:04:28,944 --> 00:04:31,425 and values doesn't have to be daunting. I 124 00:04:31,425 --> 00:04:33,264 hope the above tips guide will lead you 125 00:04:33,264 --> 00:04:35,904 to explore various avenues to connect with other 126 00:04:35,904 --> 00:04:36,805 Christian singles 127 00:04:37,264 --> 00:04:39,125 who are looking for meaningful relationships. 128 00:04:39,959 --> 00:04:42,199 Are you a Christian single or recently engaged 129 00:04:42,199 --> 00:04:43,959 and want to share where to meet single 130 00:04:43,959 --> 00:04:45,180 women and men tips? 131 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,879 Make your comments about how Christian singles meet 132 00:04:47,879 --> 00:04:50,120 other singles right here. Do you have other 133 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,459 Christian dating tips for single men and women?