1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,280 How do you know when a guy is 2 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:04,000 flirting with you? What's his body language when 3 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:04,500 flirting? 4 00:00:05,279 --> 00:00:05,779 Understanding 5 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:09,220 body language flirting is essential for Christian singles. 6 00:00:09,759 --> 00:00:12,435 What exactly is alpha male body language 7 00:00:13,075 --> 00:00:15,315 flirting? It's basically a collection of all the 8 00:00:15,315 --> 00:00:17,394 nonverbal clues a guy, whether he be a 9 00:00:17,394 --> 00:00:19,954 Christian or not, gives out when he's interested 10 00:00:19,954 --> 00:00:20,614 in a woman. 11 00:00:20,994 --> 00:00:23,475 Just to be clear, not all body language 12 00:00:23,475 --> 00:00:23,675 flirting is a conscious decision on the part 13 00:00:23,675 --> 00:00:23,875 of the single guy, but may in fact 14 00:00:23,875 --> 00:00:25,890 be a conscious decision on the part of 15 00:00:25,890 --> 00:00:28,050 the single guy, but may in fact be 16 00:00:28,050 --> 00:00:30,230 a subconscious behavior. Therefore, 17 00:00:30,690 --> 00:00:32,369 the more a woman knows how a guy 18 00:00:32,369 --> 00:00:33,829 flirts with body language, 19 00:00:34,289 --> 00:00:36,370 the greater her chances of picking up when 20 00:00:36,370 --> 00:00:38,390 a guy is actually interested in her. 21 00:00:38,850 --> 00:00:40,695 Of course, knowing how to tell when a 22 00:00:40,695 --> 00:00:42,695 guy is flirting is an important skill to 23 00:00:42,695 --> 00:00:43,195 have, 24 00:00:43,655 --> 00:00:45,594 especially if there is mutual attraction. 25 00:00:47,254 --> 00:00:49,835 Top body language flirting signs. 26 00:00:51,094 --> 00:00:53,814 Of course, none of these body language flirting 27 00:00:53,814 --> 00:00:55,920 signs will be applicable if you are using 28 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:57,859 an online site like Christian Mingle. 29 00:00:58,479 --> 00:01:00,559 But let's say you're at a Christian singles 30 00:01:00,559 --> 00:01:02,399 group gathering and there are a bunch of 31 00:01:02,399 --> 00:01:05,040 cute guys, hey, we can dream, right, in 32 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:05,700 the room. 33 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:08,715 Here are some body language flirting signs to 34 00:01:08,715 --> 00:01:09,454 look for. 35 00:01:10,875 --> 00:01:14,174 Body language flirting sign number one, smiling. 36 00:01:15,275 --> 00:01:17,674 When a guy flashes you those pearly whites, 37 00:01:17,674 --> 00:01:19,295 well, we hope they're white, 38 00:01:19,594 --> 00:01:21,915 that usually means he's pleased to have you 39 00:01:21,915 --> 00:01:22,680 in his company. 40 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,879 Just make sure he's smiling at you and 41 00:01:25,879 --> 00:01:28,120 not the girl behind you. Have you ever 42 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:28,939 done that before? 43 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,260 Body language flirting sign number two, 44 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:34,140 modeling. 45 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:35,020 What? 46 00:01:35,719 --> 00:01:39,055 Well, behavioral scientists say when someone is body 47 00:01:39,055 --> 00:01:40,034 language flirting, 48 00:01:40,494 --> 00:01:41,155 they subconsciously 49 00:01:41,694 --> 00:01:44,494 model or line up with the behavior of 50 00:01:44,494 --> 00:01:45,634 the person of interest. 51 00:01:46,575 --> 00:01:48,814 Examples here could be having their feet pointed 52 00:01:48,814 --> 00:01:49,795 in the same direction, 53 00:01:50,659 --> 00:01:52,680 crossing or uncrossing their legs, 54 00:01:53,299 --> 00:01:55,400 blinking, cracking knuckles, etcetera. 55 00:01:56,979 --> 00:02:00,599 Body language flirting sign number three, making frequent 56 00:02:00,819 --> 00:02:01,560 eye contact. 57 00:02:02,625 --> 00:02:05,664 Two simple points here. First, all guys, including 58 00:02:05,664 --> 00:02:06,644 Christian guys, 59 00:02:06,944 --> 00:02:09,745 are attracted by sight and have a healthy 60 00:02:09,745 --> 00:02:11,685 appreciation for the female attributes, 61 00:02:12,144 --> 00:02:14,324 including a woman's eyes, face, and figure. 62 00:02:14,979 --> 00:02:16,739 If a guy denies this fact, he's a 63 00:02:16,739 --> 00:02:17,239 liar 64 00:02:17,539 --> 00:02:19,379 and probably not the kind of guy you 65 00:02:19,379 --> 00:02:20,439 want around anyway. 66 00:02:20,819 --> 00:02:21,319 Secondly, 67 00:02:21,860 --> 00:02:24,120 the eyes often give away the heart's intentions. 68 00:02:24,900 --> 00:02:26,900 There are different types of eye contact you 69 00:02:26,900 --> 00:02:29,094 should look out for depending on the personality 70 00:02:29,314 --> 00:02:29,974 of the guy. 71 00:02:30,754 --> 00:02:32,354 If you have a sweet, shy guy on 72 00:02:32,354 --> 00:02:33,954 your hands, he may attempt to sneak a 73 00:02:33,954 --> 00:02:35,974 peek at you without you realizing it. 74 00:02:36,435 --> 00:02:38,194 Then when you turn in his direction, he 75 00:02:38,194 --> 00:02:40,034 may get red faced or quickly look in 76 00:02:40,034 --> 00:02:40,935 a different direction. 77 00:02:42,319 --> 00:02:44,319 The second kind of eye contact is the 78 00:02:44,319 --> 00:02:46,800 kind of guy with confidence and boldness will 79 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:47,300 practice. 80 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,960 He has no problem making extended eye to 81 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:51,700 eye contact. 82 00:02:52,159 --> 00:02:53,219 Do you know the type? 83 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,175 Sign number four, grooming self. 84 00:02:56,735 --> 00:02:59,135 This sign includes doing such things as fixing 85 00:02:59,135 --> 00:02:59,635 collars, 86 00:03:00,014 --> 00:03:02,034 pulling up socks, and straightening ties. 87 00:03:02,655 --> 00:03:04,735 This is the male ego's way of preparing 88 00:03:04,735 --> 00:03:05,955 himself for the hunt. 89 00:03:07,294 --> 00:03:10,435 Body language flirting sign number five, strutting. 90 00:03:11,069 --> 00:03:13,629 The guy will stand up straight with shoulders 91 00:03:13,629 --> 00:03:15,090 back and chest out. 92 00:03:15,790 --> 00:03:17,710 Some single gals I know refer to this 93 00:03:17,710 --> 00:03:19,810 ritual as the peacock strut. 94 00:03:20,430 --> 00:03:22,509 Some girls out there are saying, yep. I've 95 00:03:22,509 --> 00:03:23,294 seen that before. 96 00:03:24,414 --> 00:03:26,254 Well, there you have our top five body 97 00:03:26,254 --> 00:03:28,334 language flirting hints that guys will do around 98 00:03:28,334 --> 00:03:29,395 girls they like. 99 00:03:29,854 --> 00:03:31,935 Being aware of these may help any Christian 100 00:03:31,935 --> 00:03:34,175 single girl who is in the market for 101 00:03:34,175 --> 00:03:35,340 a nice Christian guy. 102 00:03:36,139 --> 00:03:38,780 One disclaimer here. If a guy exhibits only 103 00:03:38,780 --> 00:03:41,099 one or two body language hints, don't jump 104 00:03:41,099 --> 00:03:42,239 to hasty conclusions. 105 00:03:42,939 --> 00:03:44,800 Make sure you interpret these cumulatively, 106 00:03:45,419 --> 00:03:46,159 not individually. 107 00:03:47,206 --> 00:03:49,626 Otherwise, you may misinterpret a man's intentions, 108 00:03:50,086 --> 00:03:52,426 which could put you in an embarrassing situation. 109 00:03:53,686 --> 00:03:55,766 Are you a Christian single person with something 110 00:03:55,766 --> 00:03:56,666 to share flirting?