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You're listening to the Loving BDSM podcast episode

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four seventy four. K. The Lord's here with

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the one, the only, the I'm so glad

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you indulge me in some but not all

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of my whims. Although, I wish you did

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indulge me in all of my whims because

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I have great ideas. John Brownstone.

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There is not that much Diet Coke in

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the world to indulge you in your whims.

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I mean, I'm

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I'm fairly,

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the word is wrong because it's

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I don't mean this politically. Do not mean

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this politically. I'm fairly conservative in my whims.

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Okay? I don't really dream big.

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I've been broke too much in my life.

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So I feel like you could safely indulge

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all of my whims. Not all of my

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whims are Diet Coke related.

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Just saying.

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Anyway,

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in a weird way, that's kind of what

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we are doing this week.

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So,

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we,

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a couple days ago, looked at one another

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and went, yeah. We're not cut we're disconnected

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when we don't like that. So we're gonna

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reconnect in

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previous episode

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by answering silly, lighthearted, and or random relationship

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questions we found on IG, where it seems

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this account and the app that it has,

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its entire purpose is to get you to

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answer

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crazy ass questions. So we're gonna do this.

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Some of that.

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Welcome

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to the Loving BDSM podcast. If this is

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your first time listening, glad to have you.

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If you're back for another week, welcome back.

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Loving BDSM is produced every Monday and Friday

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What? How do words work?

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This is where I was supposed to tell

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you to please rate and review.

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I lost my train of thought. JB made

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a noise off to the side, and, like,

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a squirrel. I was like, what?

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For anybody who's new, yeah, it's like this

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all the time. You're back on track, girl.

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Trying.

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Okay. So before,

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we get into

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this week's episode,

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last few days for YouTube folk

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though I wanna laugh at JB so hard.

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I understand what he's doing and why, but

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that is the one announcement. We're gonna get

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Flamingo card.

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I forgot to link it in YouTube, and

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it will be linked, for podcast listeners by

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the time you can hear this.

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getting people who have the app to have

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deep or fun or whatever conversations with their

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or their friends. And so part of their

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promotion for their app is they post questions

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randomly at some point. They don't know we

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exist.

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I found it and thought, I like this.

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me up. I was like, I wonder what

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JB would say.

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kind of a hectic couple of weeks. Got

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back from traveling. I I'm almost gonna say

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bit of drop post

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travels. Mhmm.

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was talking to me,

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Sunday into Monday, and,

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basically, how are we doing? And I'm like,

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I am very disconnected to, like, all humanity

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right now. I'm not but especially you, and

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I don't like this disconnection. He's like, I

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don't like disconnection either. And there

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are many things to do to reconnect.

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I thought we would continue on,

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with a thing we've done a few times

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now. But, also, it technically kind of goes

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hand in hand with an old episode, not

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that old, like, several weeks ago, on love

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maps, which is just learning more about your

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partner. And these questions allow us to do

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how well do we know our partner?

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What can we come up with from our

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imagination based on what we know about our

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that's kind of the where this is coming

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from. I wanted to do something lighthearted

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we reconnect faster

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when we're laughing. I mean, we can reconnect

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without laughter. It does happen, but it's quicker

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when we get the giggles. So hopefully, this

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will inspire that.

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Also, speaking of love maps, in the love

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map episode from several weeks ago, I talked

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about kink maps, and that was a little

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bit part of the conversation.

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I made an activity

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for building your air quote kink map. It

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is currently only available through our Patreon at

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the $10 level as a as a digital

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download because that's what $10 folks get access

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to all digital downloads that I create at

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no additional charge. I haven't put it out

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anywhere because I don't quite know how I

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wanna do that yet.

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That's on my list for

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soon ish,

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ideally sometime in 2026.

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the idea of love maps and kink maps,

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this is just

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part of that one. Okay.

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So these questions,

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some are rapid fire, some require discussion. Mhmm.

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The first three are technically

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multiple choice, but I don't always like the

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choices I'm given with multiple choice. So I

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added a pick something else kinda thing. So

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we're gonna answer these for each of each

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other. That's how words Okay.

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What's the first time you ever felt protective

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of me, JB? Was it someone was being

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rude, it was a late night, I was

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sick, I cried, or something else?

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Oh, I gotta think about that one, Nance.

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Do you wanna think? And I'll tell you

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mine. Mhmm.

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It was the first time one of your

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family members was shitty to you.

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I am not a violent woman. I am

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not a confrontational woman, but I could have

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It's probably a good thing you kept them

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away from me or kept I kept myself

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away from them. I don't know which because

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don't worry about I don't think about that

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But I was, yeah, I was ready to

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go toe to toe with your entire ass

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damn family.

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That I I recall that so

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clearly. It's

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not hard because, man, some of your family

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really fucking sucks.

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They do. I I can't easy. I can't

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deny that.

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So Cannot deny that at all. Think of

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a time when you

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felt okay. It's it it's not the first

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time. Okay. I know that for sure. Mhmm.

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But it is the time that sticks

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in my head. Okay.

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The the last time we stayed at a

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certain place in Mississippi. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.

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It was the last time we were allowed

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to, quite frankly. Yeah.

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Yeah. Because it was all directed all that

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rage was directed at me. Like, you were

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there, but it was like, let me put

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you down.

294
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Well, he he did it through me.

295
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Mhmm.

296
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Yeah. He did. But then when he got

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face to face with me, then it was

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yeah. That sucked. Okay. These are not lighthearted

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or silly. Let's Nope. Let's move

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the

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fuck

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on.

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What is my most lovable flaw? Clingy,

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stubborn, dramatic, I did not like this one,

305
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but I put it for accuracy, jealous,

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or something else. I don't think being jealous,

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is

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it's a flaw. Is it lovable? I would

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have to say,

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when you get the zoomies at night before

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we go to sleep.

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So you don't just find that adorable in

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general? It's it's like, oh, it's adorable. But

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also, could you stop? Is that is that

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what I gave her today?

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There we go. There is some night I

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just wanna roll over and go to sleep.

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But I'm not ready. I know, Tracy. I

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know. I know.

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Then I've had to keep it together all

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day.

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This is my moment, and you're not here.

323
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I wanna be with you.

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Okay. So your most lovable flaw?

325
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Oh, dear.

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We all have flaws.

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They're lovable until they're not.

328
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But it is when you're you're polar bear

329
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grumpy grumpy polar bear

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and you still have a sense of humor.

331
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So when you were too in your head

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with your grumpiness,

333
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it's not lovable at all. It is everybody

334
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get the hell away from JB. Yeah. But

335
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when I can tease you about it,

336
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I still don't want you to be grumpy

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with me. Right.

338
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But but it's kind of funny. It's here's

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here's the signal. I'll I'll

340
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here's the signal. I'll I'll say something

341
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about grumpy polar bear, and JB will go,

342
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grasp, grasp, grasp, grasp, grasp.

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Yep. I just

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that would

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Okay. What's

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a little habit of mine you secretly love?

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Here are the options that they gave, but

348
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we'll come up with our own shit. Mhmm.

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Steal your fries, leave voice notes, I don't

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do that shit. Random dances,

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over explaining,

352
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or something

353
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else. Something else.

354
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Actually, there's two of them. Oh, gosh. Okay.

355
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Okay. Mhmm. One is your

356
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random little dances. I just start moving. I

357
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don't even know if I'm doing it. So

358
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I'll be walking by and put this beat.

359
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You know, there's no music playing and nothing.

360
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She's just like bopping.

361
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I've got a song on loop. And you're

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and you're just bopping away.

363
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And what's And and the other one,

364
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I don't think it started

365
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intentionally.

366
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Okay. Okay.

367
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But and it happens mostly again at night

368
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before we're when we're getting ready for bed.

369
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When I finally relax. Yeah.

370
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You

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make that Tina noise.

372
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Stop.

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Okay. If you for anybody doesn't know, Bob's

374
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Bob's Burgers,

375
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we started watching it several months ago. Yeah.

376
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Louise is my favorite character,

377
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but I relate to Tina way too hard.

378
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And sometimes when I'm thinking, especially if I'm

379
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or I'm about to do something I don't

380
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really want to do, but I'm

381
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think I will make a noise. I'll go

382
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and, actually, I do it as as a

383
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little bit of a distress sound. I go,

384
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like that.

385
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But it sounds like the way Tina Belcher

386
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does it in Bob's Burgers. And I'll be

387
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like, okay, Tina.

388
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It is true.

389
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I now actually catch myself doing it and

390
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then go, oh my god. He's gonna call

391
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me Tina, and I stop. But I also

392
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just do it, and I don't think about

393
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it because I've made that kind of noise

394
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my whole

395
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life. Not necessarily where people can hear me

396
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even.

397
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Now I'm reminded why.

398
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Okay. A little habit of yours that I

399
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secretly

400
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love.

401
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I have to think.

402
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You

403
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I hate to say there's a few habits

404
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you have that I don't love. That's what's

405
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coming to mind.

406
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Oh, dear. I'm an only child who never

407
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had to learn how to share. I don't

408
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like it when you steal my fries. Thank

409
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you very much. It really does piss me

410
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off. Yeah.

411
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You know what? I

412
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I laugh my ass off for a multitude

413
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of reasons, but I actually do

414
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kind of secretly love when you are

415
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in the garage, in the shop, mowing the

416
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lawn. You got your noise canceling earbuds in,

417
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and you're listening to I never know what

418
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song it is, but you are singing it

419
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as if you are on stage.

420
00:16:25,554 --> 00:16:27,875
It's like your with your whole chest, you

421
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sang that song. You went for the high

422
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notes. You went for the low notes.

423
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You did backup singing,

424
00:16:35,459 --> 00:16:36,600
the whole neighborhood

425
00:16:36,980 --> 00:16:40,039
knows your singing voice. What can I say?

426
00:16:40,659 --> 00:16:42,019
I'm here to entertain you. I think the

427
00:16:42,019 --> 00:16:43,539
part I like about it is you have

428
00:16:43,539 --> 00:16:45,699
so few fucks. You're like, I don't give

429
00:16:45,699 --> 00:16:48,605
a fuck if all the neighbors, including across

430
00:16:48,605 --> 00:16:50,304
the street, can hear me singing.

431
00:16:51,084 --> 00:16:52,524
It does help that you do not have

432
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a bad singing voice. If it was, like,

433
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me singing,

434
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I don't know that I would find it

435
00:16:57,164 --> 00:16:57,904
so lovable.

436
00:17:00,605 --> 00:17:01,105
Okay.

437
00:17:02,580 --> 00:17:05,539
Okay. So the next questions Mhmm.

438
00:17:06,019 --> 00:17:06,840
Are not,

439
00:17:07,700 --> 00:17:09,080
multiple choice. K.

440
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If you lost me in a supermarket, where's

441
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the first place you'd look?

442
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I would have to say either the deli

443
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or the bakery.

444
00:17:18,994 --> 00:17:20,755
That's probably true. Not sure what I'd be

445
00:17:20,755 --> 00:17:21,954
looking at at the deli well, no. I

446
00:17:21,954 --> 00:17:23,315
probably have the munchies and I'd be looking

447
00:17:23,315 --> 00:17:24,774
at snacks in the deli.

448
00:17:26,274 --> 00:17:28,294
You'd be looking at those rotisserie chickens.

449
00:17:29,075 --> 00:17:30,934
Oh god. I could go for a rotisserie

450
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chicken.

451
00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,080
I know where I'd look for you, and

452
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I'd find you. Mhmm. Bathroom.

453
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If you cannot find JB on any shopping

454
00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:41,720
trip you're on, he's probably Pretty much too.

455
00:17:41,799 --> 00:17:42,460
In that.

456
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Okay. If we had to switch our our

457
00:17:47,755 --> 00:17:49,434
lives for the day Mhmm. I be you,

458
00:17:49,434 --> 00:17:50,414
you be me,

459
00:17:50,875 --> 00:17:52,794
what do you think I'd struggle with the

460
00:17:52,794 --> 00:17:54,494
most trying to be you?

461
00:18:02,340 --> 00:18:04,820
Go ahead. If it's pee standing up, that's

462
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probably true. Probably

463
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the way I just kind of I don't

464
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have

465
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a deep method of doing the things I

466
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do. I just kinda, you know, knock it

467
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out and blow through it. Oh, you would

468
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come back to your body and have so

469
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many to do like this.

470
00:18:20,894 --> 00:18:21,394
Yeah.

471
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You would have an org there'd probably be

472
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a procedural manual for how everything is done

473
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by the time you got back. Yeah.

474
00:18:28,630 --> 00:18:30,630
Okay. So I know what you would struggle

475
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with.

476
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It is keeping

477
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outside of work

478
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all the life stuff organized.

479
00:18:37,589 --> 00:18:39,349
Who has the next appointment? Where do you

480
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need to be? What time do you have

481
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to leave to get there in time? Where

482
00:18:41,944 --> 00:18:44,265
are you going after? What is the routine

483
00:18:44,265 --> 00:18:46,265
so the youngest child who does not handle

484
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the routine not going correctly,

485
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not have a meltdown? Also, when do we

486
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have to be where with what? And what

487
00:18:51,785 --> 00:18:53,545
are we having for dinner? And who's cooking

488
00:18:53,545 --> 00:18:55,944
tonight? Yeah. I'm pretty sure you would lose

489
00:18:55,944 --> 00:18:58,309
your fucking mind. I am, you know,

490
00:18:58,690 --> 00:19:00,950
I have always had a problem with that.

491
00:19:01,490 --> 00:19:03,349
And, you know, calendars

492
00:19:04,289 --> 00:19:06,609
my whole life has been my friend. Mhmm.

493
00:19:06,609 --> 00:19:07,669
Okay? Mhmm.

494
00:19:07,970 --> 00:19:08,450
But,

495
00:19:09,009 --> 00:19:10,069
even with that

496
00:19:10,450 --> 00:19:12,549
Yeah. No. I can't keep up with it.

497
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I

498
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my god. For a while there, I just

499
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me alone was having so many

500
00:19:17,755 --> 00:19:19,914
appointments and then with everybody else's, I kept

501
00:19:19,914 --> 00:19:21,835
getting them all across. I know. That's why

502
00:19:21,835 --> 00:19:23,535
it had me to keep me on track.

503
00:19:23,595 --> 00:19:25,674
Yeah. I would've never been where I needed

504
00:19:25,674 --> 00:19:27,535
to be. They're on on the

505
00:19:28,429 --> 00:19:31,250
heavy weeks, the amount of text message notifications,

506
00:19:31,789 --> 00:19:34,670
reminders I get and or pick this up

507
00:19:34,670 --> 00:19:36,429
and or here's your code for this thing

508
00:19:36,429 --> 00:19:38,210
you had to sign in for and or

509
00:19:38,429 --> 00:19:41,009
yeah. You'd run screaming. I'm pretty sure.

510
00:19:42,109 --> 00:19:42,434
Okay.

511
00:19:44,674 --> 00:19:47,335
If you had to change my legal name,

512
00:19:47,875 --> 00:19:49,095
what would you call me?

513
00:19:52,434 --> 00:19:55,289
Baby girl. Oh, I love that. You're gonna

514
00:19:55,289 --> 00:19:57,230
hate my answer. Oh, boy.

515
00:19:58,250 --> 00:19:58,750
Oh,

516
00:20:00,329 --> 00:20:01,389
dear. Oh, dear.

517
00:20:01,769 --> 00:20:03,369
It'll be GrumpyPolarBear.

518
00:20:03,369 --> 00:20:03,869
Well,

519
00:20:04,490 --> 00:20:05,929
I don't know. I hate that. I own

520
00:20:05,929 --> 00:20:06,429
it.

521
00:20:08,215 --> 00:20:10,134
Grumpy, polar Bear, and ground sound. I grouse

522
00:20:10,134 --> 00:20:11,355
with the best of them.

523
00:20:11,894 --> 00:20:13,674
That's the other one. Grouse.

524
00:20:15,015 --> 00:20:16,075
Grousey McGrowserson.

525
00:20:16,775 --> 00:20:17,275
Yes.

526
00:20:17,575 --> 00:20:18,075
Yes.

527
00:20:20,055 --> 00:20:20,555
Okay.

528
00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,839
If you could ban one thing from my

529
00:20:26,839 --> 00:20:28,059
wardrobe forever,

530
00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:29,500
what would it be?

531
00:20:36,164 --> 00:20:38,184
Try to say it without hurting my feelings.

532
00:20:38,244 --> 00:20:38,744
Okay.

533
00:20:41,845 --> 00:20:43,545
I think maybe your hoodies.

534
00:20:44,565 --> 00:20:46,985
Aw. They're my emotional support hoodies. I know.

535
00:20:49,445 --> 00:20:51,089
They're the easiest way to hide when the

536
00:20:51,089 --> 00:20:53,089
weather gets cool. I know. Actually, only one

537
00:20:53,089 --> 00:20:54,450
or two fit the way I like now,

538
00:20:54,450 --> 00:20:56,130
so it would not be difficult to get

539
00:20:56,130 --> 00:20:57,190
rid of some of my hoodies.

540
00:20:57,730 --> 00:21:00,150
Okay. I'm thinking I'm thinking in your wardrobe.

541
00:21:00,450 --> 00:21:00,950
Mhmm.

542
00:21:02,210 --> 00:21:04,769
You are actually it's pretty impressive. You're pretty

543
00:21:04,769 --> 00:21:05,269
fastidious

544
00:21:06,404 --> 00:21:09,285
based on my experience living with cis men

545
00:21:09,285 --> 00:21:11,225
over my life. Like, you

546
00:21:12,965 --> 00:21:14,505
you don't dress crazy

547
00:21:15,125 --> 00:21:17,785
for the most part. You care about things

548
00:21:18,005 --> 00:21:19,684
coordinated. You didn't know me when I was

549
00:21:19,684 --> 00:21:21,285
in my Hawaiian town. Oh, no. I did

550
00:21:21,285 --> 00:21:23,059
because that's where where I was gonna go.

551
00:21:23,059 --> 00:21:25,619
You don't have them anymore because you phased

552
00:21:25,619 --> 00:21:28,099
them out. But when we first met, you

553
00:21:28,099 --> 00:21:30,980
were still in your Hawaiian church. Where that

554
00:21:30,980 --> 00:21:31,960
at? Yes.

555
00:21:32,340 --> 00:21:34,580
Yes. Because I recall a couple of trips

556
00:21:34,580 --> 00:21:36,664
to, like, Bells and a couple other places.

557
00:21:36,804 --> 00:21:39,365
And you're like, oh, this would look nice.

558
00:21:39,365 --> 00:21:41,365
And I was like, oh, can I steer

559
00:21:41,365 --> 00:21:42,005
him? So

560
00:21:46,005 --> 00:21:47,765
and so I'm glad I don't have to

561
00:21:47,765 --> 00:21:49,140
because you did it for me, but it

562
00:21:49,140 --> 00:21:51,640
would a 100% have been those

563
00:21:52,100 --> 00:21:55,220
Hawaiian shirt, the flowery, the the typical, like,

564
00:21:55,220 --> 00:21:58,759
Florida old guy button down short sleeve shirts.

565
00:21:58,980 --> 00:22:01,595
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I yeah. I'm mhmm. Mhmm.

566
00:22:01,595 --> 00:22:03,035
I'm glad you took care of that for

567
00:22:03,035 --> 00:22:04,095
me. I really appreciate

568
00:22:05,275 --> 00:22:06,015
that. Okay.

569
00:22:06,394 --> 00:22:07,375
Would you rather

570
00:22:07,755 --> 00:22:11,375
lose kissing for a year or cuddling forever?

571
00:22:11,674 --> 00:22:13,650
Kissing for a year. Thank you. Me too.

572
00:22:13,650 --> 00:22:14,630
Mhmm. Mhmm.

573
00:22:15,090 --> 00:22:16,850
I'm I'm not actually a real big kisser

574
00:22:16,850 --> 00:22:18,470
in general. Didn't take me

575
00:22:18,930 --> 00:22:20,769
No. No. I'm gonna I can't have the

576
00:22:20,769 --> 00:22:22,130
Zoomies if I can't cuddle with you. That's

577
00:22:22,130 --> 00:22:23,410
right. And if I'm sad, what am I

578
00:22:23,410 --> 00:22:25,590
gonna do? I gotta cuddle with you. Mhmm.

579
00:22:25,804 --> 00:22:27,644
And if I'm cold, I gotta cuddle with

580
00:22:27,644 --> 00:22:29,724
you. Yeah. I'm not a big kisser in

581
00:22:29,724 --> 00:22:31,565
general. Like, that's not a thing I gravitate

582
00:22:31,565 --> 00:22:32,944
towards. But yeah.

583
00:22:33,724 --> 00:22:35,964
I don't I don't wanna cuddle with every

584
00:22:35,964 --> 00:22:36,865
fucking body.

585
00:22:38,125 --> 00:22:39,884
But if I wanna cuddle with you

586
00:22:40,525 --> 00:22:42,440
yeah. Okay. These

587
00:22:42,899 --> 00:22:44,819
are which of us? Me or you kind

588
00:22:44,819 --> 00:22:46,679
of answer. So we'll kinda answer them together.

589
00:22:47,059 --> 00:22:49,220
Who's more likely to plan a whole date

590
00:22:49,220 --> 00:22:51,399
in their head but say nothing?

591
00:22:52,179 --> 00:22:52,679
Go.

592
00:22:54,019 --> 00:22:55,859
I was kinda going, yeah. I'd probably no.

593
00:22:55,859 --> 00:22:57,505
I would say something. You would. Yeah. I'd

594
00:22:57,505 --> 00:22:59,025
be like, hey. I've had this idea. You

595
00:22:59,025 --> 00:23:00,404
couldn't keep it in there.

596
00:23:01,025 --> 00:23:02,305
I would say it as if it was

597
00:23:02,305 --> 00:23:04,464
spontaneous, but I had definitely mapped it all

598
00:23:04,464 --> 00:23:06,785
out. Me, I'd probably plan it and go

599
00:23:06,785 --> 00:23:08,865
on the date in my head. Well, no.

600
00:23:08,865 --> 00:23:11,345
Here's what you would do. You would plan

601
00:23:11,345 --> 00:23:11,845
it,

602
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,200
and then you would wanna you'd wanna go,

603
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:16,900
but you hadn't given me any,

604
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,680
heads up. And it'd be at a time

605
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,359
where I'm like, I kinda don't really wanna

606
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,700
go anywhere. I'm not feeling sociable right now.

607
00:23:23,759 --> 00:23:25,680
So then you'd be annoyed that I was

608
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:27,375
not keeping up with your mental

609
00:23:29,535 --> 00:23:31,055
plan. But you wouldn't tell me while you're

610
00:23:31,055 --> 00:23:32,734
mad. You'd just be grumpy, and then I'd

611
00:23:32,734 --> 00:23:34,095
be like, I don't know what his problem

612
00:23:34,095 --> 00:23:34,595
is.

613
00:23:35,615 --> 00:23:37,295
Yes. You're right. With you, I cannot keep

614
00:23:37,295 --> 00:23:39,234
something in my head. Mm-mm. Okay.

615
00:23:39,855 --> 00:23:42,575
Who's more likely to panic clean before someone

616
00:23:42,575 --> 00:23:43,259
comes over?

617
00:23:43,740 --> 00:23:44,240
You.

618
00:23:45,180 --> 00:23:47,920
Oh, it's certain people, but yes. Yeah. Yeah.

619
00:23:48,619 --> 00:23:50,960
You help me panic clean though. I do.

620
00:23:51,099 --> 00:23:51,839
And you

621
00:23:52,140 --> 00:23:52,880
you don't

622
00:23:53,180 --> 00:23:55,099
I wouldn't call it panic clean because you

623
00:23:55,099 --> 00:23:57,525
will a few days before somebody's coming, you're

624
00:23:57,525 --> 00:23:59,444
already starting, and I'm like, we got eight

625
00:23:59,444 --> 00:24:02,005
hours. Everybody, go go. I I no. I

626
00:24:02,005 --> 00:24:03,605
start ahead of time. I want that shit

627
00:24:03,605 --> 00:24:04,105
done.

628
00:24:04,565 --> 00:24:07,204
Yeah. I need, I need the pressure of

629
00:24:07,204 --> 00:24:09,210
deadlines to get shit done, especially if it's

630
00:24:09,210 --> 00:24:11,049
stuff I don't wanna do. So I'm gonna

631
00:24:11,049 --> 00:24:11,869
panic clean.

632
00:24:12,569 --> 00:24:14,589
Oh, I know the answer to this one.

633
00:24:15,450 --> 00:24:17,869
Who's more likely to talk to a stranger

634
00:24:17,929 --> 00:24:21,289
like their best friends? Yeah. That's you. It

635
00:24:21,289 --> 00:24:21,789
is.

636
00:24:22,409 --> 00:24:25,585
Now for the record, we both have an

637
00:24:25,664 --> 00:24:27,345
including the youngest, she has this kind of

638
00:24:27,345 --> 00:24:29,184
phase too where total strangers will just look

639
00:24:29,184 --> 00:24:30,465
at us and tell us their whole life

640
00:24:30,465 --> 00:24:31,285
story. Unprompted.

641
00:24:31,664 --> 00:24:33,205
We did not invite them in.

642
00:24:34,144 --> 00:24:35,985
And that is disturbing. And when the three

643
00:24:35,985 --> 00:24:37,745
of us are together out in public, it's

644
00:24:37,745 --> 00:24:40,139
like the the power of that is amplified.

645
00:24:40,139 --> 00:24:41,079
It's just

646
00:24:42,019 --> 00:24:42,519
disturbing.

647
00:24:43,380 --> 00:24:46,339
But you will take the simple polite, hey.

648
00:24:46,339 --> 00:24:48,019
How you doing? And next thing I know,

649
00:24:48,019 --> 00:24:50,200
I have not seen you for thirty minutes.

650
00:24:50,659 --> 00:24:52,179
Couple times I've had to come out of

651
00:24:52,179 --> 00:24:54,554
our house because he's talking to somebody, usually

652
00:24:54,554 --> 00:24:56,394
a neighbor and often somebody we like, but

653
00:24:56,394 --> 00:24:58,794
still not people we socialize with. And I

654
00:24:58,794 --> 00:25:00,315
have to go, hey. You're supposed to be

655
00:25:00,315 --> 00:25:01,754
doing a thing. There was a I think

656
00:25:01,754 --> 00:25:04,794
it was a livestream once. Mhmm. He was

657
00:25:04,794 --> 00:25:06,714
talking to our neighbor, a neighbor we like,

658
00:25:06,714 --> 00:25:08,554
the neighbor who works at the animal shelter,

659
00:25:08,554 --> 00:25:09,329
and that's great. We

660
00:25:10,130 --> 00:25:11,730
love her. But we were supposed to, like,

661
00:25:11,730 --> 00:25:13,509
go live, and I'm like,

662
00:25:14,609 --> 00:25:15,829
hey. Right.

663
00:25:16,130 --> 00:25:18,710
Hate to interrupt your bestie's conversation

664
00:25:19,009 --> 00:25:21,589
over there. Yeah. He's the social one.

665
00:25:21,970 --> 00:25:23,589
Everybody knew that, though. Right?

666
00:25:23,965 --> 00:25:24,465
Okay.

667
00:25:24,924 --> 00:25:26,785
Oh, I know the answer to this one.

668
00:25:27,005 --> 00:25:29,565
Who's more likely to make a playlist just

669
00:25:29,565 --> 00:25:31,105
for a singular mood?

670
00:25:34,924 --> 00:25:37,710
Probably me. Only because you make playlists.

671
00:25:40,429 --> 00:25:42,429
Okay? Well, that's not true. I have okay.

672
00:25:42,429 --> 00:25:43,970
Look. We just switched from

673
00:25:44,589 --> 00:25:45,089
Spotify

674
00:25:45,470 --> 00:25:47,009
to Tidal. Yeah.

675
00:25:48,029 --> 00:25:50,210
And we use the thing to transfer

676
00:25:50,589 --> 00:25:51,329
our playlist.

677
00:25:51,955 --> 00:25:53,715
And JB's telling the whole family, okay. If

678
00:25:53,715 --> 00:25:55,315
you have over a certain amount of songs,

679
00:25:55,315 --> 00:25:56,595
we're gonna have to pay for it, but

680
00:25:56,595 --> 00:25:58,835
you pay for it then cancel the account.

681
00:25:58,835 --> 00:26:01,174
It's fine. It's fine. I had 87 songs.

682
00:26:01,634 --> 00:26:03,414
I'm not oh my god.

683
00:26:04,275 --> 00:26:06,269
My transfer took thirty seconds.

684
00:26:08,830 --> 00:26:11,150
But I I do have two playlists, and

685
00:26:11,150 --> 00:26:13,630
they are mood dependent. I just don't add

686
00:26:13,630 --> 00:26:14,529
music to them.

687
00:26:15,150 --> 00:26:17,009
No. I have three moody playlists.

688
00:26:17,549 --> 00:26:18,049
One

689
00:26:18,509 --> 00:26:20,450
makes me forget I'm in my mid forties.

690
00:26:21,755 --> 00:26:24,075
Two Mhmm. Thick thighs save lives. It's all

691
00:26:24,075 --> 00:26:26,974
my confidence music. K. And then one is

692
00:26:27,115 --> 00:26:31,694
surviving 47. Well, yeah. Bops to survive 47.

693
00:26:32,875 --> 00:26:35,160
But I send you more music for your

694
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,400
version of that playlist You do. So that

695
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,799
you've got, like, lots of songs. Yeah. So,

696
00:26:39,799 --> 00:26:41,559
actually, I think we're both kind of prone

697
00:26:41,559 --> 00:26:43,559
to it just in different ways. Yeah. Yeah.

698
00:26:43,559 --> 00:26:44,059
Yeah.

699
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:45,740
Okay.

700
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:48,840
Who's more likely to forget what they were

701
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,140
mad about mid argument?

702
00:26:53,575 --> 00:26:54,634
It's not you.

703
00:26:58,855 --> 00:27:00,315
Yeah. They're not me.

704
00:27:00,815 --> 00:27:01,315
It

705
00:27:01,815 --> 00:27:02,315
ain't

706
00:27:02,815 --> 00:27:03,315
me.

707
00:27:03,815 --> 00:27:04,259
It ain't me.

708
00:27:06,099 --> 00:27:08,180
It's never gonna be me. Mhmm. Here's the

709
00:27:08,180 --> 00:27:10,660
thing, though. Mhmm. Once we've had the argument

710
00:27:10,660 --> 00:27:12,680
and it's settled, I don't remember it again.

711
00:27:13,299 --> 00:27:15,480
Like It it's really done and over?

712
00:27:15,940 --> 00:27:18,180
Yeah. Like, now that was not true in

713
00:27:18,180 --> 00:27:19,160
previous relationships,

714
00:27:19,539 --> 00:27:22,095
but also we never actually resolved conflict.

715
00:27:22,554 --> 00:27:24,394
We just did a whole recording thing that

716
00:27:24,394 --> 00:27:26,394
is about conflict, but it's super secret. I

717
00:27:26,394 --> 00:27:27,514
can't tell you about it just yet, but

718
00:27:27,514 --> 00:27:29,454
I will. Don't worry. Coming in March.

719
00:27:30,075 --> 00:27:32,234
So that was been top of mind lately,

720
00:27:32,234 --> 00:27:34,315
and I was thinking about it earlier today

721
00:27:34,315 --> 00:27:36,359
before we sat down to record. And I

722
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,359
was like, I know we have conflict. That's

723
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,539
not an issue. And I even know

724
00:27:41,559 --> 00:27:44,039
our main themes of conflict. Right? Like, it's

725
00:27:44,039 --> 00:27:45,900
gonna it used to be about parenting.

726
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,839
Mhmm. It will still forever be about money,

727
00:27:48,839 --> 00:27:50,928
but, thankfully, that's less of a thing. But

728
00:27:50,928 --> 00:27:52,893
I was thinking because I was thinking of

729
00:27:52,893 --> 00:27:54,640
examples that I might cite in the thing,

730
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,386
blah blah blah, which doesn't matter because I'm

731
00:27:56,386 --> 00:27:58,133
a have to cut it out because I'm

732
00:27:58,133 --> 00:27:59,880
under a strict time thing, and I don't

733
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:01,626
know how to record in strict time things.

734
00:28:01,626 --> 00:28:03,591
But, I was thinking of a time where

735
00:28:03,591 --> 00:28:06,370
you said your inside thought out loud, and

736
00:28:06,370 --> 00:28:08,490
it hurt my feelings. Mhmm. And we had

737
00:28:08,490 --> 00:28:09,570
to have a whole thing because I was

738
00:28:09,570 --> 00:28:10,930
like, you could think whatever the hell you

739
00:28:10,930 --> 00:28:12,710
want, but I don't need to hear it.

740
00:28:13,170 --> 00:28:14,690
I could not tell you what that thing

741
00:28:14,690 --> 00:28:15,190
is.

742
00:28:16,224 --> 00:28:17,904
No clue what the fuck you said. I

743
00:28:17,904 --> 00:28:19,524
don't remember either. Because

744
00:28:19,904 --> 00:28:22,644
I remember the I remember the moment. Yes.

745
00:28:22,704 --> 00:28:23,204
So

746
00:28:23,505 --> 00:28:23,664
I

747
00:28:24,384 --> 00:28:26,565
because we resolve our conflicts

748
00:28:27,345 --> 00:28:30,704
in a knock on wood Mhmm. Relatively decent

749
00:28:30,704 --> 00:28:32,680
way Right. Most of the time, I don't

750
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:33,580
remember the details.

751
00:28:34,039 --> 00:28:36,940
But when I was in previous relationships, oh,

752
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,539
I'd remember every detail,

753
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,640
and you would be hearing about it six

754
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,119
months, a year, three years later when it

755
00:28:44,119 --> 00:28:46,464
came up again, which is not healthy, by

756
00:28:46,464 --> 00:28:48,704
the way. That means that conflict was not

757
00:28:48,704 --> 00:28:49,204
resolved.

758
00:28:51,424 --> 00:28:54,224
But yeah. I won't forget midnight. Oh, no.

759
00:28:54,224 --> 00:28:55,664
I have to think about my feelings, think

760
00:28:55,664 --> 00:28:57,744
about what your feelings might be, dissect my

761
00:28:57,744 --> 00:28:59,250
feelings and how I wanna handle it, and

762
00:28:59,250 --> 00:29:00,289
what do I think is right and what

763
00:29:00,289 --> 00:29:01,570
do I think is wrong, and did I

764
00:29:01,570 --> 00:29:03,330
add to this, or am I, like, actually

765
00:29:03,330 --> 00:29:05,170
not at fault this time? And I'm I'm

766
00:29:05,170 --> 00:29:07,490
dissecting in the middle of the moment and

767
00:29:07,490 --> 00:29:10,789
then immediately after. Cannot forget it.

768
00:29:11,650 --> 00:29:12,525
Once it's done,

769
00:29:13,085 --> 00:29:14,065
no fucking clue.

770
00:29:14,445 --> 00:29:14,945
Done.

771
00:29:17,244 --> 00:29:19,345
I know the answer to this one.

772
00:29:20,205 --> 00:29:22,365
Who's more likely to fall asleep during a

773
00:29:22,365 --> 00:29:23,744
movie that they chose?

774
00:29:24,619 --> 00:29:27,039
Hey. I'm a power napper from way back.

775
00:29:27,259 --> 00:29:28,240
Oh my god.

776
00:29:28,619 --> 00:29:30,779
The amount of times I nudge because I

777
00:29:30,779 --> 00:29:32,059
sit on the opposite end of the couch

778
00:29:32,059 --> 00:29:33,580
for him, if Lola lets me because she

779
00:29:33,580 --> 00:29:35,259
likes to sit there too. And I'll nudge

780
00:29:35,259 --> 00:29:37,340
him with my foot. Like, hey. You wanted

781
00:29:37,340 --> 00:29:38,400
to watch this?

782
00:29:39,454 --> 00:29:41,134
You're gonna make me tell you what happened

783
00:29:41,134 --> 00:29:42,434
if you don't wake up.

784
00:29:43,934 --> 00:29:45,855
And I'm like, why are you counting on

785
00:29:45,855 --> 00:29:48,835
me to remember those details? What the hell?

786
00:29:49,214 --> 00:29:50,674
I can't handle that pressure.

787
00:29:53,609 --> 00:29:55,369
Okay. We got only just a few more.

788
00:29:55,369 --> 00:29:55,869
Okay.

789
00:29:56,809 --> 00:29:58,750
Easy breezy episode, I think.

790
00:29:59,130 --> 00:30:01,130
If I got lost in a movie theater,

791
00:30:01,130 --> 00:30:02,970
where would you check for me first? Snack

792
00:30:02,970 --> 00:30:05,625
bar. You are so damn fucking right. Popcorn.

793
00:30:05,845 --> 00:30:08,244
Oh, hell. Yeah. Extra butter thing. Oh, no.

794
00:30:08,244 --> 00:30:09,684
I haven't had that in so long. I

795
00:30:09,684 --> 00:30:11,464
know how you are with movie popcorn.

796
00:30:11,924 --> 00:30:13,765
Oh, and if they are at a Coke

797
00:30:13,765 --> 00:30:15,204
place, not a Pepsi place, so I can

798
00:30:15,204 --> 00:30:16,184
get a Diet Coke.

799
00:30:16,565 --> 00:30:16,804
I would

800
00:30:18,164 --> 00:30:19,839
movies of some way.

801
00:30:20,140 --> 00:30:21,420
I haven't been to a movie theater in

802
00:30:21,420 --> 00:30:21,920
ages.

803
00:30:22,380 --> 00:30:22,880
So

804
00:30:25,180 --> 00:30:26,640
I'm gonna find you.

805
00:30:29,579 --> 00:30:32,755
I'm gonna check the bathroom first. Yeah. Because

806
00:30:32,755 --> 00:30:34,674
if we were sitting and watching the previews

807
00:30:34,674 --> 00:30:36,515
and you had your little drinky drink, you

808
00:30:36,515 --> 00:30:38,134
probably would have to go. But

809
00:30:40,035 --> 00:30:41,954
if I'm wrong or if I know that's

810
00:30:41,954 --> 00:30:43,154
not where you are, I'm just sure of

811
00:30:43,154 --> 00:30:45,474
it, I'm probably gonna be at the snack

812
00:30:45,474 --> 00:30:47,174
bar checking for you too because

813
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:49,579
the only person who can eat

814
00:30:50,119 --> 00:30:51,019
movie popcorn

815
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:51,980
faster

816
00:30:52,519 --> 00:30:55,180
and crazier than I can is you. Yeah.

817
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,400
The it's the only time And then there's

818
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,200
the Junior Mints. It the movies and god,

819
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,244
we have not gone to the movies in

820
00:31:01,724 --> 00:31:03,105
literally years at this point.

821
00:31:03,644 --> 00:31:05,964
But the movies is, like, the only time

822
00:31:05,964 --> 00:31:06,545
I think,

823
00:31:06,924 --> 00:31:08,845
with regards to food, that I've ever seen

824
00:31:08,845 --> 00:31:11,244
you literally stuff your face. Oh, yeah. In

825
00:31:11,244 --> 00:31:13,325
every other situation, even if it's similar food,

826
00:31:13,325 --> 00:31:15,450
we have popcorn at home. Mhmm. Never have

827
00:31:15,450 --> 00:31:17,289
the same response. Yeah. But some of that

828
00:31:17,369 --> 00:31:19,210
that movie theater. But you and I are

829
00:31:19,210 --> 00:31:21,450
both really bad at this. We can finish

830
00:31:21,450 --> 00:31:22,970
off all of our snacks before the previews

831
00:31:22,970 --> 00:31:23,869
are over. Yeah.

832
00:31:24,409 --> 00:31:26,269
Yeah. Fucking hate that shit. Yeah.

833
00:31:26,730 --> 00:31:27,869
Okay. True.

834
00:31:28,250 --> 00:31:28,970
If you had to describe my vibe using

835
00:31:28,970 --> 00:31:29,825
an animal, my

836
00:31:30,605 --> 00:31:31,105
vibe

837
00:31:31,565 --> 00:31:32,384
using an

838
00:31:32,924 --> 00:31:35,024
animal, what is it? Monkey.

839
00:31:35,804 --> 00:31:37,264
You're like, I say black cat?

840
00:31:37,884 --> 00:31:40,065
Monkey. Because you're jumping from thing to thing

841
00:31:40,365 --> 00:31:42,204
all over. I was hoping I was projecting

842
00:31:42,204 --> 00:31:44,840
black cat energy, but fine. I'll take it.

843
00:31:54,595 --> 00:31:56,195
And for I'm gonna take the low hanging

844
00:31:56,195 --> 00:31:57,575
fruit here. Polar bear.

845
00:31:58,434 --> 00:32:01,555
Okay. We say grumpy, but also Mhmm. Like,

846
00:32:01,555 --> 00:32:03,235
polar bears I don't know anything about polar

847
00:32:03,235 --> 00:32:05,394
bears, but from, like, little I pretend to

848
00:32:05,394 --> 00:32:05,894
know,

849
00:32:07,039 --> 00:32:09,519
they are snappish. They are fierce. They're gonna

850
00:32:09,519 --> 00:32:11,200
fight before they're like, that's

851
00:32:12,799 --> 00:32:15,119
you come out hot and swinging sometimes, and

852
00:32:15,119 --> 00:32:17,359
I'm like, look. I'm just trying to decide

853
00:32:17,359 --> 00:32:18,419
dinner. Okay?

854
00:32:20,734 --> 00:32:22,414
Or make a grocery list. But,

855
00:32:24,335 --> 00:32:26,575
we had so much conflict on grocery lists

856
00:32:26,575 --> 00:32:27,855
for a few weeks in a row that

857
00:32:27,855 --> 00:32:30,095
for, like, a month straight, I just made

858
00:32:30,095 --> 00:32:31,934
them and told him what was on it.

859
00:32:31,934 --> 00:32:34,174
That's not how we vibe around here. Usually,

860
00:32:34,174 --> 00:32:36,259
we collaborate on the things that neither of

861
00:32:36,259 --> 00:32:37,779
us wants to deal with. If we both

862
00:32:37,779 --> 00:32:39,380
share the load, it feels less,

863
00:32:39,859 --> 00:32:42,119
but he was so cranky about it

864
00:32:42,500 --> 00:32:44,180
that I just went, I'll just do it.

865
00:32:44,180 --> 00:32:45,619
And I knew he it was one of

866
00:32:45,619 --> 00:32:47,460
those times I knew you would not care

867
00:32:47,460 --> 00:32:49,380
what I selected because all it meant is

868
00:32:49,380 --> 00:32:51,014
you didn't have to make a choice on

869
00:32:51,014 --> 00:32:52,154
it. True.

870
00:32:52,774 --> 00:32:54,615
And then the week I finally was done

871
00:32:54,615 --> 00:32:55,754
with that and I wasn't,

872
00:32:56,375 --> 00:32:57,274
toting that

873
00:32:57,575 --> 00:32:59,274
burden by myself anymore.

874
00:33:00,134 --> 00:33:02,214
There was one time I handed, the piece

875
00:33:02,214 --> 00:33:04,134
of paper we're old fashioned. My list is

876
00:33:04,134 --> 00:33:05,115
pen and paper.

877
00:33:05,700 --> 00:33:07,700
I handed him the paper and the pen

878
00:33:07,700 --> 00:33:09,700
and told him and the youngest, y'all figure

879
00:33:09,700 --> 00:33:11,380
out what we're eating for dinner. I don't

880
00:33:11,380 --> 00:33:12,279
give a fuck.

881
00:33:13,779 --> 00:33:16,099
Yeah. And y'all got it done really quick.

882
00:33:16,099 --> 00:33:17,940
We did. We did. And now

883
00:33:18,579 --> 00:33:20,683
What's that got to do with being a

884
00:33:20,683 --> 00:33:22,875
polar bear? I don't know. Yeah. Can I

885
00:33:22,875 --> 00:33:25,068
close that out? Yeah. You can close it.

886
00:33:25,068 --> 00:33:27,260
Strange things are popping up on our screen

887
00:33:27,260 --> 00:33:29,727
now. Yeah. No. There are part there are

888
00:33:29,727 --> 00:33:32,559
times I wanna say you have golden retriever

889
00:33:32,559 --> 00:33:34,720
energy, but you really don't. You're too fucking

890
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:35,779
grumpy for that.

891
00:33:36,559 --> 00:33:38,880
When you're in the mood, you are so

892
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,119
playful and you are so fun and you're

893
00:33:41,119 --> 00:33:43,279
so open and you're, like, you'll talk to

894
00:33:43,279 --> 00:33:45,375
me and you'll explore, and you're curious. And

895
00:33:45,375 --> 00:33:48,335
it's really cool because that's nothing like me,

896
00:33:48,335 --> 00:33:49,875
and so we need one another.

897
00:33:51,295 --> 00:33:54,095
But when you are not those things, you

898
00:33:54,095 --> 00:33:55,315
are a grumpy

899
00:33:55,615 --> 00:33:56,115
bastard.

900
00:33:58,180 --> 00:33:58,680
Yeah.

901
00:34:00,019 --> 00:34:02,340
Yeah. I I I can't I can't deny

902
00:34:02,340 --> 00:34:04,580
it. You had a couple weeks ago a

903
00:34:04,580 --> 00:34:06,740
procedure where you had to fast prior to

904
00:34:06,740 --> 00:34:08,900
the procedure. Oh, Jesus fucking But instead of

905
00:34:08,900 --> 00:34:11,155
it being like a 6AM procedure, like, we

906
00:34:11,155 --> 00:34:13,074
prefer, it was 10:30 in the morning. The

907
00:34:13,074 --> 00:34:14,434
only one that can give me. And so

908
00:34:14,434 --> 00:34:15,875
it was a whole morning of you had

909
00:34:15,875 --> 00:34:16,775
to get through,

910
00:34:17,074 --> 00:34:18,755
no coffee, no food. No food he can

911
00:34:18,755 --> 00:34:20,914
handle mostly. I mean, he'll be hungry, but

912
00:34:20,914 --> 00:34:23,074
no coffee, that means no caffeine. I had

913
00:34:23,074 --> 00:34:25,255
to warn the youngest. I was like,

914
00:34:25,940 --> 00:34:27,059
I would just and I had to be

915
00:34:27,059 --> 00:34:28,340
careful because I was afraid she took me

916
00:34:28,340 --> 00:34:29,860
too literally, but I was like, do not

917
00:34:29,860 --> 00:34:30,760
make eye contact.

918
00:34:31,460 --> 00:34:33,000
Don't initiate conversation.

919
00:34:33,380 --> 00:34:35,140
If he talks to you, cool. That means

920
00:34:35,140 --> 00:34:36,660
he's in a good mood and is is

921
00:34:37,380 --> 00:34:38,440
he'll be fine.

922
00:34:39,414 --> 00:34:39,914
But

923
00:34:40,454 --> 00:34:42,775
so then while we were traveling this past

924
00:34:42,775 --> 00:34:43,275
weekend,

925
00:34:44,454 --> 00:34:46,214
I didn't think about it because I'm I'm

926
00:34:46,214 --> 00:34:47,815
in my own head with all the travel

927
00:34:47,815 --> 00:34:49,335
stuff and blah blah blah, what we're what

928
00:34:49,335 --> 00:34:50,315
we're there to do.

929
00:34:50,934 --> 00:34:53,440
The hotel had coffee and breakfast. Like, I

930
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,199
picked that hotel because that was all included.

931
00:34:55,199 --> 00:34:55,699
Cool.

932
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,640
I could not understand why JB was so

933
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,840
fun fucking grumpy and grouchy while we're trying

934
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:02,880
to get ready and we're gonna go down

935
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:04,559
to breakfast. And finally, he goes, I haven't

936
00:35:04,559 --> 00:35:06,964
had coffee yet. I'm like, oh, yeah.

937
00:35:07,424 --> 00:35:09,764
Oh, yeah. We're gonna get our asses downstairs.

938
00:35:10,625 --> 00:35:12,304
Once he'd had, like, the first sip of

939
00:35:12,304 --> 00:35:14,545
coffee, did the two of us tease the

940
00:35:14,545 --> 00:35:15,045
absolute

941
00:35:15,344 --> 00:35:17,505
shit out of him? Yeah. Read him for

942
00:35:17,505 --> 00:35:19,380
filth. Yes. A 100%.

943
00:35:19,380 --> 00:35:21,059
Yeah. We did wait till he had that

944
00:35:21,059 --> 00:35:21,559
verse.

945
00:35:22,339 --> 00:35:22,839
Okay.

946
00:35:23,779 --> 00:35:26,039
Oh, god. If you had to warn someone

947
00:35:26,420 --> 00:35:28,279
before they meet me Mhmm.

948
00:35:28,739 --> 00:35:29,719
What are you

949
00:35:30,019 --> 00:35:31,400
gonna warn them about?

950
00:35:31,699 --> 00:35:33,779
Beware if she finds out you're you're her

951
00:35:33,779 --> 00:35:34,279
peoples,

952
00:35:34,844 --> 00:35:36,065
you'll know everything.

953
00:35:36,525 --> 00:35:37,905
You'll have to live with zoomies.

954
00:35:38,364 --> 00:35:39,965
There's so few people on the planet who

955
00:35:39,965 --> 00:35:41,025
are are my vibe.

956
00:35:41,405 --> 00:35:41,804
It's not

957
00:35:43,164 --> 00:35:45,405
it's more like beware. If she does not

958
00:35:45,405 --> 00:35:46,800
vibe with you, you are dead

959
00:35:47,519 --> 00:35:49,219
to her. She does not know you.

960
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,420
Lola in the background giving her opinion.

961
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:55,380
Did you catch what I said?

962
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,239
No. It's more like beware if she doesn't

963
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,079
vibe with you, you're dead to her. Yeah.

964
00:36:00,079 --> 00:36:02,135
That too. I just I don't wanna be

965
00:36:02,135 --> 00:36:03,675
there, and I'm not gonna protect,

966
00:36:04,855 --> 00:36:05,675
which is

967
00:36:06,534 --> 00:36:07,034
awkward.

968
00:36:07,574 --> 00:36:09,335
You're stuck in a room with me, and

969
00:36:09,335 --> 00:36:10,715
I don't vibe with you.

970
00:36:12,054 --> 00:36:13,815
If I had to warn somebody, I'm gonna

971
00:36:13,815 --> 00:36:15,195
sound like a broken record.

972
00:36:16,170 --> 00:36:17,949
Don't talk to him before he's like, caffeine.

973
00:36:18,809 --> 00:36:20,650
He will not fake it, Will. Not you

974
00:36:20,650 --> 00:36:22,329
don't even fake it with other people. You

975
00:36:22,409 --> 00:36:24,730
you're not rude. You didn't get short with

976
00:36:24,730 --> 00:36:26,730
other people. Yeah. But people don't know that.

977
00:36:26,730 --> 00:36:27,230
And,

978
00:36:27,690 --> 00:36:30,224
like, it's it's sort of society I even

979
00:36:30,224 --> 00:36:32,065
have a shirt that says no questions before

980
00:36:32,065 --> 00:36:34,384
coffee. People don't listen to shirts. If they

981
00:36:34,384 --> 00:36:35,904
did, they would not wonder why I'm so

982
00:36:35,904 --> 00:36:37,364
fucking anxious all the time.

983
00:36:39,585 --> 00:36:41,844
No. I mean, you are short with people

984
00:36:41,904 --> 00:36:43,779
when you haven't quite you know, you're not

985
00:36:43,779 --> 00:36:45,880
awake yet or haven't had coffee or whatever.

986
00:36:46,420 --> 00:36:48,500
But in a way that society goes, oh,

987
00:36:48,500 --> 00:36:49,880
that's that's just masculinity

988
00:36:50,259 --> 00:36:51,940
being short like that. Whereas if I do

989
00:36:51,940 --> 00:36:53,480
it, then I'm like a raging bitch.

990
00:36:54,500 --> 00:36:56,739
But you also are a polite adult who's

991
00:36:56,739 --> 00:36:58,259
like, oh, no. I'll show my family and

992
00:36:58,259 --> 00:37:00,315
my loved ones. It's the worst of it,

993
00:37:00,315 --> 00:37:02,255
and I'll hold it together in public

994
00:37:04,315 --> 00:37:05,614
because I feel safe.

995
00:37:06,474 --> 00:37:08,315
As you should. As you should. For sure.

996
00:37:08,315 --> 00:37:08,974
For sure.

997
00:37:10,155 --> 00:37:11,135
Okay. Okay.

998
00:37:15,579 --> 00:37:17,440
If I walk back into a room

999
00:37:18,380 --> 00:37:18,880
smiling,

1000
00:37:19,420 --> 00:37:22,059
I'll even add laughing, chuckling, and I go,

1001
00:37:22,059 --> 00:37:22,880
don't ask.

1002
00:37:23,900 --> 00:37:26,300
What is your assumption of what has happened

1003
00:37:26,300 --> 00:37:27,119
in that room?

1004
00:37:30,284 --> 00:37:32,224
You just finished a really good book.

1005
00:37:32,844 --> 00:37:34,065
A really good book.

1006
00:37:34,605 --> 00:37:37,324
A really good book. The kind where yes.

1007
00:37:37,324 --> 00:37:39,664
I do have my vibrator out.

1008
00:37:40,925 --> 00:37:42,545
That tracks. That tracks.

1009
00:37:44,269 --> 00:37:44,769
Okay.

1010
00:37:45,389 --> 00:37:48,449
So if it's you Mhmm. It's either something

1011
00:37:48,510 --> 00:37:49,809
devious or lecherous

1012
00:37:50,110 --> 00:37:50,849
or both.

1013
00:37:51,389 --> 00:37:51,889
You've

1014
00:37:52,190 --> 00:37:52,690
probably

1015
00:37:52,989 --> 00:37:54,449
used one of your toys

1016
00:37:54,989 --> 00:37:57,170
and are are feeling real fucking good

1017
00:37:57,469 --> 00:37:57,969
slash

1018
00:38:02,505 --> 00:38:04,265
you've probably lit up a little bit and

1019
00:38:04,265 --> 00:38:06,045
are feeling no pain.

1020
00:38:08,744 --> 00:38:09,965
Or it's both.

1021
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,039
Or it's both. Either way, you know, I

1022
00:38:16,039 --> 00:38:18,200
do I do think that says something that

1023
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:19,820
both of us are gonna be like

1024
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,160
we both assume the, the other is having

1025
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:24,380
a similar experience.

1026
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:27,739
We're feeling real fucking good,

1027
00:38:28,724 --> 00:38:31,144
but it's not for polite company to talk.

1028
00:38:37,285 --> 00:38:38,105
Did these

1029
00:38:38,724 --> 00:38:41,065
add any insight for either of us? No.

1030
00:38:41,285 --> 00:38:42,659
We know that I think he is a

1031
00:38:42,739 --> 00:38:45,139
grumpy fucking polar bear. And he's like, she's

1032
00:38:45,139 --> 00:38:46,819
kind of a bitch, y'all. She'll be nice

1033
00:38:46,819 --> 00:38:47,940
to you if she's kind of a bitch,

1034
00:38:47,940 --> 00:38:50,280
y'all. But it was really nice to giggle.

1035
00:38:50,659 --> 00:38:53,559
Yeah. And that's that's that's the thing.

1036
00:38:54,339 --> 00:38:56,195
Sometimes we do these question things and I

1037
00:38:56,195 --> 00:38:58,114
learn something. I'm like, oh, I didn't you

1038
00:38:58,114 --> 00:39:00,434
know? Mhmm. But this time I was like,

1039
00:39:00,434 --> 00:39:03,175
oh, yeah. Oh, yes. Shared experiences.

1040
00:39:03,554 --> 00:39:06,035
Like, if I'm doing a, let's pretend I'm

1041
00:39:06,035 --> 00:39:07,715
trying to educate somebody thing,

1042
00:39:08,515 --> 00:39:11,079
like, what's the fucking point? One, I didn't

1043
00:39:11,079 --> 00:39:12,359
have to use a lot of brainpower, so

1044
00:39:12,359 --> 00:39:14,599
that's that's a good one. But, two, it's

1045
00:39:14,599 --> 00:39:15,659
the the

1046
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:16,940
memories.

1047
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,099
It's the shared experiences.

1048
00:39:19,559 --> 00:39:21,960
Mhmm. It's the knowing each other on very

1049
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,099
silly levels.

1050
00:39:25,085 --> 00:39:27,005
You can clearly tell for me that I

1051
00:39:27,005 --> 00:39:28,065
do think his,

1052
00:39:29,164 --> 00:39:31,264
top personality trait is grumpiness

1053
00:39:32,364 --> 00:39:34,944
because it fucking is. Okay?

1054
00:39:35,804 --> 00:39:37,105
His second personality

1055
00:39:37,484 --> 00:39:39,424
trait is music. Okay?

1056
00:39:45,739 --> 00:39:46,480
Just saying.

1057
00:39:47,500 --> 00:39:49,039
I did while we were traveling.

1058
00:39:49,739 --> 00:39:52,159
Speaking of of seeing your third personality trait,

1059
00:39:52,380 --> 00:39:53,900
which is, like, all your collections and how

1060
00:39:53,900 --> 00:39:54,945
you focus on things you

1061
00:39:59,824 --> 00:40:00,749
really care about. I had him explain the

1062
00:40:00,749 --> 00:40:01,364
phishing database

1063
00:40:01,664 --> 00:40:03,105
that he created years and years ago. And

1064
00:40:03,105 --> 00:40:04,465
we have talked about this in, like, a

1065
00:40:04,545 --> 00:40:06,065
it's either a bonus section or as a

1066
00:40:06,065 --> 00:40:08,164
Friday night livestream, at least a couple times.

1067
00:40:08,385 --> 00:40:11,099
And I was like, look. You, child of

1068
00:40:11,099 --> 00:40:13,760
mine, you're diagnosed. You're a better expert than

1069
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:15,539
I am. And I said said to Jibby,

1070
00:40:15,599 --> 00:40:17,760
go. Tell her. Tell her tell her about

1071
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:18,900
the date database.

1072
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:20,180
And

1073
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,015
she starts and she's like, I don't know

1074
00:40:23,015 --> 00:40:24,855
if you're diagnosable, but I know what you

1075
00:40:24,855 --> 00:40:26,074
are. And I was like,

1076
00:40:26,535 --> 00:40:27,994
same girl. Same.

1077
00:40:30,535 --> 00:40:32,695
Because he was like, yes. I did the

1078
00:40:33,094 --> 00:40:34,535
come on. Do it for folks what the

1079
00:40:34,535 --> 00:40:36,829
database was. Just bullet points. Okay.

1080
00:40:38,010 --> 00:40:38,510
It,

1081
00:40:39,930 --> 00:40:40,590
I charted

1082
00:40:40,969 --> 00:40:43,390
tide flows. I charted moon phase,

1083
00:40:44,010 --> 00:40:45,070
longitude, latitude,

1084
00:40:45,369 --> 00:40:48,170
lures used, fish caught, yada yada. Nope. No.

1085
00:40:48,170 --> 00:40:50,809
Yada yada. Don't don't nope. That makes it

1086
00:40:50,809 --> 00:40:52,045
sound like, oh, it's just this this little

1087
00:40:52,045 --> 00:40:53,505
database. Nope. Keep going.

1088
00:40:56,844 --> 00:40:58,625
I also wrote in reports.

1089
00:41:00,925 --> 00:41:03,485
So I can see what spot produced the

1090
00:41:03,485 --> 00:41:05,824
most fish, what lure caught what fish.

1091
00:41:07,829 --> 00:41:10,070
Yeah. At the tide and the moon and

1092
00:41:10,070 --> 00:41:12,890
the Yeah. All cross reference. Yeah.

1093
00:41:13,750 --> 00:41:15,590
So that's his third personality trait. I don't

1094
00:41:15,590 --> 00:41:17,510
know what to call it. Like, I don't

1095
00:41:17,510 --> 00:41:19,670
wanna be I don't wanna, like, minimize, like,

1096
00:41:19,670 --> 00:41:21,644
actual diagnosis. I don't know what to call

1097
00:41:21,644 --> 00:41:24,704
that, but that's his third personality trait. Because

1098
00:41:25,805 --> 00:41:27,344
anything he does

1099
00:41:28,605 --> 00:41:31,405
with intention and gets seriously interested in, that's

1100
00:41:31,405 --> 00:41:32,864
the level you're gonna get.

1101
00:41:33,324 --> 00:41:34,785
It's your albums.

1102
00:41:35,369 --> 00:41:38,409
Mhmm. Yeah. Your games to some small extent.

1103
00:41:38,409 --> 00:41:40,009
Even the things that you're claiming to do

1104
00:41:40,009 --> 00:41:41,710
to relax yourself, I'm like,

1105
00:41:42,089 --> 00:41:44,329
that's a lot of work for relaxation, but

1106
00:41:44,329 --> 00:41:44,829
okay.

1107
00:41:45,609 --> 00:41:47,609
Mhmm. Yeah. So whatever that is, that is

1108
00:41:47,690 --> 00:41:49,425
yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's the other. Okay.

1109
00:41:50,224 --> 00:41:50,724
Alright.

1110
00:41:51,184 --> 00:41:52,644
So I do feel a little bit better.

1111
00:41:52,945 --> 00:41:54,704
Mhmm. I feel a lot better. I have

1112
00:41:54,704 --> 00:41:56,945
been feeling better day as each day has

1113
00:41:56,945 --> 00:41:58,005
gone. Yes.

1114
00:41:59,105 --> 00:42:01,765
I mentioned in the February behind the scenes

1115
00:42:02,065 --> 00:42:04,239
podcast episode that we do through Patreon, because

1116
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:05,840
we actually got that out early this this

1117
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,300
month. I was very proud of us,

1118
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,480
that my mental health it's like the bad

1119
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:11,840
part of my mental health has been, like,

1120
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,680
right on the surface. And so it was

1121
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:15,119
it was really hard to laugh, and it

1122
00:42:15,119 --> 00:42:16,420
was really hard to, like,

1123
00:42:18,574 --> 00:42:19,234
be optimistic.

1124
00:42:19,534 --> 00:42:20,914
And, like, I was like, ugh.

1125
00:42:21,454 --> 00:42:23,614
But I also think we experienced a bit

1126
00:42:23,614 --> 00:42:24,755
of drop after

1127
00:42:25,295 --> 00:42:26,355
after our travels.

1128
00:42:27,135 --> 00:42:29,534
Oh, I don't yeah. Something. So something. Some

1129
00:42:29,614 --> 00:42:31,775
something like drop, I would say. So

1130
00:42:32,650 --> 00:42:34,250
but I am feeling better, and I am

1131
00:42:34,250 --> 00:42:35,150
feeling reconnected

1132
00:42:35,449 --> 00:42:37,469
Yeah. In different ways. There's still more reconnecting

1133
00:42:37,530 --> 00:42:39,789
to go. Mhmm. But, like, we have plans

1134
00:42:39,929 --> 00:42:40,429
for,

1135
00:42:40,809 --> 00:42:43,289
a Saturday breakfast date Mhmm. And to go

1136
00:42:43,289 --> 00:42:45,130
to a couple stores that we want. And

1137
00:42:45,130 --> 00:42:47,414
I said, and, yes, if you want to

1138
00:42:47,714 --> 00:42:49,094
buy another album,

1139
00:42:49,554 --> 00:42:51,635
you we could do that. That's possible. And

1140
00:42:51,635 --> 00:42:53,335
his whole little face lit up.

1141
00:42:56,034 --> 00:42:58,769
So I bypassed personality trait one and skipped

1142
00:42:58,769 --> 00:42:59,989
straight to two and three.

1143
00:43:04,449 --> 00:43:04,849
So

1144
00:43:06,210 --> 00:43:06,710
Yeah.

1145
00:43:09,650 --> 00:43:11,650
For anybody interested, feel free to use the

1146
00:43:11,650 --> 00:43:13,730
questions. Or for YouTube folks, give me a

1147
00:43:13,730 --> 00:43:14,445
second. I gotta

1148
00:43:15,164 --> 00:43:16,144
put the link, in below.

1149
00:43:16,605 --> 00:43:16,925
But,

1150
00:43:17,485 --> 00:43:19,164
podcast listeners and everybody else, you can go

1151
00:43:19,164 --> 00:43:21,724
to their Instagram profile Mhmm. Or get the

1152
00:43:21,724 --> 00:43:23,965
app if you are so inclined. I don't

1153
00:43:23,965 --> 00:43:25,324
need that. I got plenty of apps on

1154
00:43:25,324 --> 00:43:26,364
my phone. I don't need that kind of

1155
00:43:26,364 --> 00:43:28,385
app, so I'll just use their free content.

1156
00:43:31,199 --> 00:43:33,440
So, yeah, that's it, and we can do

1157
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,219
a bonus section. Cool.

1158
00:43:35,679 --> 00:43:37,380
So are we good? I don't know.

1159
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,159
Keep it kinky, y'all. And we'll see you

1160
00:43:40,159 --> 00:43:40,900
next week.

1161
00:43:49,655 --> 00:43:51,815
Tottie. Yes. Baby girl. Can we talk to

1162
00:43:51,815 --> 00:43:53,195
the crickets? Sure.

1163
00:43:53,894 --> 00:43:55,434
Okay. What do you wanna talk about?

1164
00:43:57,894 --> 00:43:59,255
I don't know. You said we wanna talk

1165
00:43:59,255 --> 00:44:00,855
about our trip. Go talk talk about our

1166
00:44:00,855 --> 00:44:02,750
trip. No. It's me.

1167
00:44:03,610 --> 00:44:03,849
We

1168
00:44:04,730 --> 00:44:07,130
look. I knew when we planned this, it

1169
00:44:07,130 --> 00:44:08,110
was gonna suck.

1170
00:44:09,289 --> 00:44:11,389
I think I underestimated the suckage,

1171
00:44:12,489 --> 00:44:13,550
traveling, flying

1172
00:44:14,394 --> 00:44:16,175
multiple states away and flying home,

1173
00:44:16,875 --> 00:44:19,035
and driving two hours just to get to

1174
00:44:19,035 --> 00:44:21,035
the airport, which that had to be done

1175
00:44:21,035 --> 00:44:23,994
because our closest airport, the tickets were, like,

1176
00:44:23,994 --> 00:44:25,855
double the cost, so that was not feasible.

1177
00:44:26,900 --> 00:44:28,760
That was thirty six hours

1178
00:44:29,140 --> 00:44:30,039
of traveling.

1179
00:44:31,380 --> 00:44:33,960
That shit was rough. That shit was rough.

1180
00:44:34,180 --> 00:44:37,059
The flights were fine. The Mhmm. Virginia was

1181
00:44:37,059 --> 00:44:39,000
great. We found this great coffee shop.

1182
00:44:39,394 --> 00:44:40,914
We, you know, went there with our purpose

1183
00:44:40,914 --> 00:44:42,514
and got shit done, and it worked out

1184
00:44:42,514 --> 00:44:44,355
well. Well, I fell in love with that

1185
00:44:44,355 --> 00:44:46,594
coffee shop. The the the whole that part

1186
00:44:46,594 --> 00:44:47,094
was

1187
00:44:47,474 --> 00:44:48,534
great. Mhmm.

1188
00:44:49,155 --> 00:44:49,655
I

1189
00:44:50,034 --> 00:44:51,014
am not built

1190
00:44:51,315 --> 00:44:53,234
for the amount of long lines I had

1191
00:44:53,234 --> 00:44:54,135
to stand in.

1192
00:44:54,549 --> 00:44:56,069
Yeah. I'm not built for it. I'm not

1193
00:44:56,069 --> 00:44:57,449
built for it. But

1194
00:44:57,750 --> 00:44:59,670
I was in mom mode because we had

1195
00:44:59,670 --> 00:45:01,349
the youngest of us, and so I'm trying

1196
00:45:01,349 --> 00:45:04,389
to keep her relatively calm and help her

1197
00:45:04,389 --> 00:45:05,369
manage her anxiety,

1198
00:45:05,750 --> 00:45:07,429
doing brand new things. So I knew that

1199
00:45:07,429 --> 00:45:08,170
was, like,

1200
00:45:08,630 --> 00:45:10,010
ratcheted up for her.

1201
00:45:10,594 --> 00:45:11,974
So I'm maintaining

1202
00:45:12,275 --> 00:45:13,414
this facade

1203
00:45:13,714 --> 00:45:17,094
of calm, and in the inside, I'm screaming,

1204
00:45:17,315 --> 00:45:18,534
let me out.

1205
00:45:19,154 --> 00:45:20,534
So Orlando Airport,

1206
00:45:21,154 --> 00:45:22,914
I have I I thought I had never

1207
00:45:22,914 --> 00:45:24,434
flown out of there before, but I then

1208
00:45:24,434 --> 00:45:25,954
recalled I had flown out of there years

1209
00:45:25,954 --> 00:45:27,929
ago, like one time. But I had hit

1210
00:45:27,929 --> 00:45:29,530
it on, like, the perfect day, the perfect

1211
00:45:29,530 --> 00:45:32,030
time, and so there was no major wait.

1212
00:45:32,889 --> 00:45:33,710
This one

1213
00:45:34,250 --> 00:45:36,809
was forty five minute wait. Now how much

1214
00:45:36,809 --> 00:45:38,650
of it was it's just Orlando and all

1215
00:45:38,650 --> 00:45:40,570
the tourists were going home, and how much

1216
00:45:40,570 --> 00:45:42,365
of it is the partial DHS,

1217
00:45:42,805 --> 00:45:44,585
shutdown so it affected TSA?

1218
00:45:45,204 --> 00:45:47,285
I don't know. But I do know if

1219
00:45:47,285 --> 00:45:49,684
you are a Florida airport where people can,

1220
00:45:49,684 --> 00:45:51,684
on a on a good day, stand in

1221
00:45:51,684 --> 00:45:53,285
a line for forty five minutes, you need

1222
00:45:53,285 --> 00:45:55,285
to have some ceiling fans. You need to

1223
00:45:55,285 --> 00:45:56,824
have some moving air.

1224
00:45:57,599 --> 00:45:59,940
It was so hot. I was like Yeah.

1225
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:02,559
The line moved pretty, like, pretty steady. That

1226
00:46:02,559 --> 00:46:04,480
was fine. Everybody kinda kept their cool. That

1227
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:05,220
was great.

1228
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:07,039
The people who worked at the airport were

1229
00:46:07,039 --> 00:46:09,039
super helpful when people needed help. They, like,

1230
00:46:09,039 --> 00:46:10,875
did priority stuff for, like, people in wheelchairs

1231
00:46:10,875 --> 00:46:12,554
and the elderly and stuff like that. Fine.

1232
00:46:12,554 --> 00:46:13,215
Fine. Fine.

1233
00:46:14,394 --> 00:46:15,695
But this is Florida.

1234
00:46:16,315 --> 00:46:18,635
We know about heat and humidity and the

1235
00:46:18,635 --> 00:46:19,135
importance

1236
00:46:19,434 --> 00:46:20,175
of airflow,

1237
00:46:20,875 --> 00:46:23,275
how they didn't have something so we were

1238
00:46:23,275 --> 00:46:24,094
not just

1239
00:46:24,630 --> 00:46:25,130
damp.

1240
00:46:26,710 --> 00:46:30,230
The humidity of our everybody's shared breath. I

1241
00:46:30,230 --> 00:46:32,569
don't know. It was so fucking hot.

1242
00:46:33,349 --> 00:46:34,329
What the hell?

1243
00:46:36,069 --> 00:46:38,409
Then I experienced the hell that is

1244
00:46:38,869 --> 00:46:40,175
a CVS pharmacy

1245
00:46:40,635 --> 00:46:41,855
for ninety minutes

1246
00:46:42,954 --> 00:46:45,434
that did not have their AC on either.

1247
00:46:45,434 --> 00:46:47,594
And I understood why that AC was not

1248
00:46:47,594 --> 00:46:49,555
on. It we're in Virginia. The day before

1249
00:46:49,555 --> 00:46:50,875
it had been super cold. A couple days

1250
00:46:50,875 --> 00:46:52,610
later, it was gonna be super cold. I'm

1251
00:46:52,610 --> 00:46:53,969
sure that was not on their system to

1252
00:46:53,969 --> 00:46:55,349
have their AC on.

1253
00:46:57,489 --> 00:46:59,250
That was the point in the trip where

1254
00:46:59,250 --> 00:47:01,170
I was like, if somebody does not get

1255
00:47:01,170 --> 00:47:02,550
me the fuck out of here,

1256
00:47:02,930 --> 00:47:05,010
I will be on the news tonight as

1257
00:47:05,010 --> 00:47:08,515
that crazy lady, Florida woman goes crazy in

1258
00:47:08,515 --> 00:47:11,875
Virginia pharmacy. I was like, I'm gonna lose

1259
00:47:11,875 --> 00:47:13,795
my fucking money. Oh, dear. And the whole

1260
00:47:13,795 --> 00:47:16,275
time I'm I'm keeping on the persona of

1261
00:47:16,275 --> 00:47:17,974
it's fine. Everything's fine.

1262
00:47:18,275 --> 00:47:20,195
I'm gonna talk, you know, I'm not taking

1263
00:47:20,195 --> 00:47:22,400
it out on the employees. I'm watching them

1264
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:24,160
work their ass off. So I'm like, I'm

1265
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:25,519
not the type to do it anyway, but

1266
00:47:25,519 --> 00:47:28,000
also there's no need to. I'm working hard

1267
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:28,980
to keep the

1268
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:30,900
16 year old calm

1269
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,920
and relatively anxiety free. Like, I can't I

1270
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,519
can't stop them having anxiety, but I don't

1271
00:47:35,519 --> 00:47:37,700
have to add to it either. Like,

1272
00:47:39,255 --> 00:47:41,414
when we finally get to the airport after

1273
00:47:41,414 --> 00:47:43,355
the ninety minutes of hell in a CVS,

1274
00:47:45,815 --> 00:47:48,295
they changed our gate no less than 10

1275
00:47:48,295 --> 00:47:48,795
times.

1276
00:47:49,335 --> 00:47:51,150
Yeah. That's right. For the first nine, it

1277
00:47:51,150 --> 00:47:53,010
went back and forth. That out.

1278
00:47:53,630 --> 00:47:56,109
I didn't because I had the JetBlue app,

1279
00:47:56,109 --> 00:47:57,789
and I had the email notification, and I

1280
00:47:57,789 --> 00:47:58,929
had the text notification.

1281
00:47:59,710 --> 00:48:00,210
So

1282
00:48:00,589 --> 00:48:02,510
I, at any given moment, was like, which

1283
00:48:02,510 --> 00:48:04,894
notification am I on? Which gate is it?

1284
00:48:05,835 --> 00:48:08,315
And the first, like, nine notifications, they switch

1285
00:48:08,315 --> 00:48:09,755
between the gate it was supposed to be

1286
00:48:09,755 --> 00:48:10,954
and another one, back and forth, back and

1287
00:48:10,954 --> 00:48:12,474
forth, back and forth. And then finally, they

1288
00:48:12,474 --> 00:48:14,094
put us at a random gate.

1289
00:48:14,635 --> 00:48:16,394
But the person who was trying to announce

1290
00:48:16,394 --> 00:48:17,375
it on the speaker

1291
00:48:18,394 --> 00:48:19,215
couldn't be

1292
00:48:19,590 --> 00:48:20,090
heard

1293
00:48:20,670 --> 00:48:21,170
well.

1294
00:48:21,750 --> 00:48:23,849
But then even when we figured it out,

1295
00:48:24,710 --> 00:48:26,070
she was trying to announce stuff on the

1296
00:48:26,070 --> 00:48:27,670
speaker at the gate we finally did end

1297
00:48:27,670 --> 00:48:29,750
up leaving from, which was not a JetBlue

1298
00:48:29,750 --> 00:48:31,910
gate. It was a spirit gate because it

1299
00:48:31,910 --> 00:48:34,605
was the only available gate on that

1300
00:48:35,164 --> 00:48:36,065
side or whatever.

1301
00:48:37,644 --> 00:48:39,885
There were people who were sitting at our

1302
00:48:39,885 --> 00:48:42,304
gate who were not leaving

1303
00:48:42,605 --> 00:48:44,385
from our gate. They had just

1304
00:48:44,925 --> 00:48:46,144
made camp there,

1305
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,079
and they were the reason I could not

1306
00:48:49,079 --> 00:48:51,420
hear the nice lady who was making announcements

1307
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,039
for a flight whose gate had already changed

1308
00:48:54,039 --> 00:48:56,359
10 times. So anything they wanted to say

1309
00:48:56,359 --> 00:48:58,119
about our flight, we were all we were

1310
00:48:58,119 --> 00:49:00,920
all all ears. What is happening next? And

1311
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:01,420
there,

1312
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:02,894
was like a sports

1313
00:49:09,855 --> 00:49:11,054
gate that wasn't being used, and they were

1314
00:49:11,054 --> 00:49:12,494
like, there's a shit ton of us. We

1315
00:49:12,494 --> 00:49:14,275
should be able to sit here. No problem.

1316
00:49:15,630 --> 00:49:18,109
Except that we, the people who were going

1317
00:49:18,109 --> 00:49:19,710
to leave from this gate, did not have

1318
00:49:19,710 --> 00:49:21,389
places to sit, and we could not hear

1319
00:49:21,389 --> 00:49:22,529
the announcer person.

1320
00:49:23,150 --> 00:49:25,329
They were loud. They were so loud.

1321
00:49:25,710 --> 00:49:27,630
They were so loud. They were so loud.

1322
00:49:27,630 --> 00:49:29,714
They were they were so loud, and they

1323
00:49:29,714 --> 00:49:32,214
were oblivious to everybody around them.

1324
00:49:33,474 --> 00:49:35,014
It was at the airport

1325
00:49:35,554 --> 00:49:36,375
going home

1326
00:49:37,394 --> 00:49:39,795
before we finally got snappy with one another

1327
00:49:39,795 --> 00:49:41,394
as a group, the three of us. We

1328
00:49:41,394 --> 00:49:43,889
held up so well. We had so much

1329
00:49:43,889 --> 00:49:45,269
fun that we did we

1330
00:49:45,730 --> 00:49:48,130
we kind of went on, like, walkabout through

1331
00:49:48,130 --> 00:49:49,109
Downtown Richmond.

1332
00:49:49,569 --> 00:49:50,069
Yeah.

1333
00:49:51,250 --> 00:49:51,750
Experienced

1334
00:49:52,130 --> 00:49:55,670
as Florida people, actual hills. That wasn't fun.

1335
00:49:55,775 --> 00:49:57,295
We made it. It's a story that we

1336
00:49:57,295 --> 00:49:59,055
laugh about. We were having a good time

1337
00:49:59,055 --> 00:50:01,315
of laughing. The youngest was, like, really, like,

1338
00:50:01,855 --> 00:50:04,815
light and open and, like, giggles all the

1339
00:50:04,815 --> 00:50:06,515
way around. It was it was great.

1340
00:50:08,329 --> 00:50:11,050
It was the flight home where we finally

1341
00:50:11,050 --> 00:50:11,789
all cracked.

1342
00:50:13,210 --> 00:50:15,210
So the getting on the plane, the flight

1343
00:50:15,210 --> 00:50:17,610
from Virginia to Orlando, cool. Cool. Cool. Cool.

1344
00:50:17,610 --> 00:50:18,190
Cool. Cool.

1345
00:50:18,570 --> 00:50:19,789
Great. Not a problem.

1346
00:50:20,409 --> 00:50:22,090
My I had stomach pains the whole time,

1347
00:50:22,090 --> 00:50:23,684
but, like, I'm like, well, I'm a person

1348
00:50:23,684 --> 00:50:25,605
who has stomach issues, so this is another

1349
00:50:25,605 --> 00:50:26,105
day.

1350
00:50:27,125 --> 00:50:29,525
Get home get to Orlando Airport, and I

1351
00:50:29,525 --> 00:50:31,445
had we had booked we did not drive

1352
00:50:31,445 --> 00:50:32,184
our decrepit,

1353
00:50:32,805 --> 00:50:35,844
how many years, 13 year old, 14 year

1354
00:50:35,844 --> 00:50:36,664
old car

1355
00:50:37,409 --> 00:50:39,329
to and from Orlando. We didn't wanna pay

1356
00:50:39,329 --> 00:50:41,809
for parking. So we just rented a car

1357
00:50:41,809 --> 00:50:44,069
one way, but it was not terribly expensive,

1358
00:50:44,690 --> 00:50:46,609
and it was a car we felt pretty

1359
00:50:46,609 --> 00:50:48,869
sure could make it to and from. Right?

1360
00:50:49,329 --> 00:50:51,525
So what that meant was I had to

1361
00:50:52,545 --> 00:50:55,585
reserve a car. We do budget Mhmm. To

1362
00:50:55,664 --> 00:50:58,085
for pickup from the Orlando Airport

1363
00:50:58,385 --> 00:51:00,065
To get us home. Right. From our flight.

1364
00:51:00,065 --> 00:51:01,344
And I was like, okay. I'll give it,

1365
00:51:01,344 --> 00:51:03,425
like we didn't have we didn't check baggage,

1366
00:51:03,425 --> 00:51:04,625
so I was like, I'll give it thirty

1367
00:51:04,625 --> 00:51:07,789
minutes after our flight arrives. That should be

1368
00:51:07,789 --> 00:51:09,309
when we should probably pick up. I was

1369
00:51:09,309 --> 00:51:11,309
not we were not, like, precious about that.

1370
00:51:11,309 --> 00:51:12,449
We know shit happens.

1371
00:51:15,789 --> 00:51:16,530
We got

1372
00:51:16,989 --> 00:51:17,890
to the line

1373
00:51:19,164 --> 00:51:20,525
at 11:15,

1374
00:51:20,525 --> 00:51:22,625
11:30 at night for budget.

1375
00:51:23,164 --> 00:51:26,625
We were not in our vehicle to leave

1376
00:51:26,924 --> 00:51:28,525
until 12:30

1377
00:51:28,764 --> 00:51:30,625
Yeah. In the morning.

1378
00:51:31,164 --> 00:51:33,505
And it was not a vehicle we expected

1379
00:51:33,565 --> 00:51:35,280
to get because it didn't matter what I

1380
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:36,800
paid for. I it was a get what

1381
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,320
you get and don't pitch a fit kinda

1382
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:38,820
situation.

1383
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:40,800
And it was an upgrade from what we

1384
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:42,079
had paid for. Yeah. But it was a

1385
00:51:42,079 --> 00:51:42,579
truck.

1386
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:44,559
And it was not a gigantic truck, but

1387
00:51:44,559 --> 00:51:46,160
it was not a small truck. This was

1388
00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:48,255
not a Ford fucking Ranger. Okay? He he

1389
00:51:48,474 --> 00:51:50,234
Called it midsize, but He he asked if

1390
00:51:50,234 --> 00:51:51,534
we wanted a full size

1391
00:51:52,394 --> 00:51:54,554
or mid range, and I said mid. Right.

1392
00:51:54,554 --> 00:51:55,534
And even then,

1393
00:51:56,635 --> 00:51:58,094
getting out of the

1394
00:51:59,275 --> 00:52:02,175
rental parking lot of the airport

1395
00:52:03,179 --> 00:52:04,880
was, for all of us, terrifying.

1396
00:52:05,900 --> 00:52:06,400
Our,

1397
00:52:07,019 --> 00:52:09,099
map I use we usually use Google Maps

1398
00:52:09,099 --> 00:52:11,039
to map to GPS us places.

1399
00:52:11,420 --> 00:52:13,339
Did not want to give us directions to

1400
00:52:13,339 --> 00:52:15,099
the road we needed to be on. I

1401
00:52:15,099 --> 00:52:17,599
I don't know why. This is a problem

1402
00:52:17,659 --> 00:52:18,644
I even experienced when I

1403
00:52:20,244 --> 00:52:23,125
Orlando Mhmm. Once a month to, you know,

1404
00:52:23,125 --> 00:52:23,625
go

1405
00:52:24,804 --> 00:52:26,585
to Rockler and various places.

1406
00:52:29,684 --> 00:52:32,344
GPS got me there Mhmm. Perfectly fine.

1407
00:52:33,059 --> 00:52:35,000
Now, when it comes for the trip home,

1408
00:52:35,940 --> 00:52:37,239
for whatever reason,

1409
00:52:38,099 --> 00:52:39,960
doesn't matter which app you use,

1410
00:52:40,980 --> 00:52:43,140
it wants you to go all the way

1411
00:52:43,140 --> 00:52:44,039
to the South

1412
00:52:44,660 --> 00:52:45,559
Side Of Orlando

1413
00:52:45,965 --> 00:52:47,965
to get back on the Turnpike to go

1414
00:52:47,965 --> 00:52:48,945
to North. North.

1415
00:52:50,045 --> 00:52:52,204
And so we were finally at the end

1416
00:52:52,204 --> 00:52:54,125
of our rope. The adults were having small

1417
00:52:54,125 --> 00:52:56,144
meltdowns over this entire situation.

1418
00:52:56,764 --> 00:52:59,025
Finally get I open up my Apple

1419
00:52:59,630 --> 00:53:00,369
map thing.

1420
00:53:01,150 --> 00:53:02,989
It it gave us directions to the road

1421
00:53:02,989 --> 00:53:04,670
we wanted to be on, but not before

1422
00:53:04,670 --> 00:53:06,269
the youngest in the back had a panic

1423
00:53:06,269 --> 00:53:07,869
attack because the grown ups in the front

1424
00:53:07,869 --> 00:53:10,130
were freaking the fuck out because

1425
00:53:10,590 --> 00:53:12,914
limits were hit by Yeah. By midnight,

1426
00:53:14,835 --> 00:53:17,655
Because thirty six hours back and forth travel,

1427
00:53:18,434 --> 00:53:20,355
we're not built for that. Yeah. No. We're

1428
00:53:20,355 --> 00:53:21,875
not built for that. We're not doing that

1429
00:53:21,875 --> 00:53:23,434
again. And I knew it was gonna be

1430
00:53:23,434 --> 00:53:25,394
a late night. I tried to sleep on

1431
00:53:25,394 --> 00:53:25,974
the flight

1432
00:53:26,390 --> 00:53:28,869
back, and all I couldn't. I I dozed

1433
00:53:28,869 --> 00:53:30,550
here and there, but, you know, I never

1434
00:53:30,550 --> 00:53:32,230
really I was kind of hoping you would,

1435
00:53:32,230 --> 00:53:34,469
like, conk out, and, yeah, you never No.

1436
00:53:34,550 --> 00:53:35,050
Did.

1437
00:53:36,789 --> 00:53:38,949
I never do, but I didn't feel good.

1438
00:53:38,949 --> 00:53:40,390
So that If I could have put the

1439
00:53:40,390 --> 00:53:41,324
seat back, I probably

1440
00:53:42,445 --> 00:53:44,525
Yeah. So it was a good trip. We

1441
00:53:44,525 --> 00:53:46,864
did what we needed to do. Yep. Saturday

1442
00:53:46,925 --> 00:53:47,425
morning,

1443
00:53:47,804 --> 00:53:49,405
you know, on, like, what, five hours of

1444
00:53:49,405 --> 00:53:51,505
sleep, I think. We got up,

1445
00:53:52,364 --> 00:53:54,704
barely made sure that we were not grotesque,

1446
00:53:56,130 --> 00:53:58,069
returned the rental, picked up our dog.

1447
00:53:58,929 --> 00:54:00,710
Lola had a grand old time.

1448
00:54:01,089 --> 00:54:02,769
She was very nervous when we dropped her

1449
00:54:02,769 --> 00:54:04,769
off for boarding, and I was like she's

1450
00:54:04,769 --> 00:54:06,609
gonna not really want to leave by the

1451
00:54:06,609 --> 00:54:08,050
time we get back. She's gonna love everybody

1452
00:54:08,050 --> 00:54:09,434
here because that's how she is. If you

1453
00:54:09,434 --> 00:54:11,554
are not a shit to her, she's your

1454
00:54:11,554 --> 00:54:12,295
best friend.

1455
00:54:12,835 --> 00:54:14,315
When they brought her out, when we came

1456
00:54:14,315 --> 00:54:15,494
to pick her up,

1457
00:54:16,114 --> 00:54:16,614
she

1458
00:54:16,994 --> 00:54:18,594
ran to JB, like, oh my god. I

1459
00:54:18,594 --> 00:54:20,375
thought I'd been abandoned and forsaken.

1460
00:54:20,914 --> 00:54:22,514
She came to me, but then she turned

1461
00:54:22,514 --> 00:54:24,210
around and ran back to the person who

1462
00:54:24,210 --> 00:54:25,489
had her on the lead to bring her

1463
00:54:25,489 --> 00:54:27,329
out, like, hello. You can still love me

1464
00:54:27,329 --> 00:54:29,650
too. I like you, so can I have

1465
00:54:29,650 --> 00:54:31,570
some belly rubs? And it took a minute

1466
00:54:31,570 --> 00:54:33,170
to get her to calm down from wanting

1467
00:54:33,170 --> 00:54:35,250
that person's attention to put her harness on

1468
00:54:35,250 --> 00:54:36,949
her and get her out the damn door.

1469
00:54:39,244 --> 00:54:40,545
So I'm glad that

1470
00:54:41,085 --> 00:54:43,905
went well. Yeah. That all went real well.

1471
00:54:44,285 --> 00:54:46,605
I mean, really, you know, every it did

1472
00:54:46,605 --> 00:54:48,605
go well the whole trip. The whole trip.

1473
00:54:48,605 --> 00:54:49,565
We were just by the end of it,

1474
00:54:49,565 --> 00:54:51,244
we were so exhausted. By the end of

1475
00:54:51,244 --> 00:54:53,405
it, the the exhaustion had kicked in. It

1476
00:54:53,405 --> 00:54:54,179
was you know,

1477
00:54:56,500 --> 00:54:57,880
we did a lot, you know,

1478
00:54:58,260 --> 00:55:00,260
go going up there, doing what we had

1479
00:55:00,260 --> 00:55:02,819
to do, the turnaround and everything. Yeah. It

1480
00:55:02,819 --> 00:55:04,199
was it was exhausting.

1481
00:55:04,500 --> 00:55:05,300
Mhmm. The,

1482
00:55:05,940 --> 00:55:08,039
bed in the hotel wasn't that comfortable.

1483
00:55:09,065 --> 00:55:10,904
I thought I'd gotten us a hotel room

1484
00:55:10,904 --> 00:55:11,804
with two beds.

1485
00:55:12,105 --> 00:55:14,105
The way they made they wrote it up,

1486
00:55:14,105 --> 00:55:15,565
that's what it sounded like.

1487
00:55:15,944 --> 00:55:18,184
No. It was a king-size bed, which I

1488
00:55:18,184 --> 00:55:18,684
love.

1489
00:55:18,984 --> 00:55:20,984
Never get that at home. But the second

1490
00:55:20,984 --> 00:55:23,769
bed was a pullout from the couch. Sleeper

1491
00:55:23,769 --> 00:55:24,989
sofa. Sleeper sofa.

1492
00:55:25,530 --> 00:55:26,030
So

1493
00:55:26,730 --> 00:55:29,609
the youngest has younger bones. Okay? And her

1494
00:55:29,609 --> 00:55:31,369
back's not fucked up yet. So she got

1495
00:55:31,369 --> 00:55:32,670
the two inch mattress

1496
00:55:33,369 --> 00:55:34,269
on the couch.

1497
00:55:34,965 --> 00:55:37,285
And we I desperately want a king-size bed.

1498
00:55:37,285 --> 00:55:38,805
That is, like, my next goal when we

1499
00:55:38,805 --> 00:55:40,325
finally do anything new with our bed, which

1500
00:55:40,325 --> 00:55:41,545
I don't know when that'll be.

1501
00:55:42,405 --> 00:55:44,164
So I really want a king-size bed, but

1502
00:55:44,164 --> 00:55:46,325
I clearly do not want whatever that mattress

1503
00:55:46,325 --> 00:55:48,079
was and and whatever those filters are.

1504
00:55:48,380 --> 00:55:50,700
Well, you know, I I like a firmer

1505
00:55:50,940 --> 00:55:53,519
Yeah. Mattress. It the firmer mattress is

1506
00:55:54,780 --> 00:55:56,700
is nice to my back. Yeah. For sure.

1507
00:55:56,700 --> 00:55:58,720
And that was that was a soft mattress.

1508
00:55:59,099 --> 00:56:02,114
Yeah. Yeah. At least that was my Yeah.

1509
00:56:02,114 --> 00:56:04,114
I couldn't I was like, I don't know

1510
00:56:04,114 --> 00:56:05,555
why this is not as comfortable as it

1511
00:56:05,555 --> 00:56:06,594
should be. I think I would have been

1512
00:56:06,594 --> 00:56:07,574
fine with the mattress,

1513
00:56:07,954 --> 00:56:10,835
but the pillows were the soft squishy. And

1514
00:56:10,835 --> 00:56:12,855
I don't like a soft squishy pillow.

1515
00:56:13,235 --> 00:56:15,239
My neck really doesn't like a soft squishy

1516
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:16,219
pillow. Yeah.

1517
00:56:16,599 --> 00:56:19,159
Did my child inform me the moment my

1518
00:56:19,159 --> 00:56:21,880
eyeballs cracked open, mom, you snore. I'm like,

1519
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:22,699
oh, I'm sorry.

1520
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:25,480
It's not usually a problem because I'm married

1521
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:27,320
to a snore, and I'm asleep for all

1522
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,019
of it. So it doesn't fucking matter.

1523
00:56:30,039 --> 00:56:31,934
Yeah. She was not asleep for for hardly

1524
00:56:31,934 --> 00:56:33,075
any of it. Poor baby.

1525
00:56:33,775 --> 00:56:34,275
So

1526
00:56:34,974 --> 00:56:37,215
we survived. We got home. My mom fed

1527
00:56:37,215 --> 00:56:38,735
the cats for us because she was still

1528
00:56:38,735 --> 00:56:41,394
in town. She just went home on Tuesday.

1529
00:56:42,335 --> 00:56:44,255
My the family member that we were very

1530
00:56:44,255 --> 00:56:46,550
worried about has been released from the hospital.

1531
00:56:46,550 --> 00:56:47,050
They're

1532
00:56:47,750 --> 00:56:50,489
dealing with other stuff, but they're mostly fine.

1533
00:56:50,550 --> 00:56:51,050
Yeah.

1534
00:56:51,590 --> 00:56:52,650
So that's good.

1535
00:56:53,190 --> 00:56:54,550
So but my mom was still in town.

1536
00:56:54,550 --> 00:56:56,230
I was like, hey. Can you come feed

1537
00:56:56,230 --> 00:56:58,164
the cats for us? She was like, yeah.

1538
00:56:58,164 --> 00:56:59,924
Sure. I'll do that. Now did they have

1539
00:56:59,924 --> 00:57:02,484
the a jacked up feeding schedule? Yes. Did

1540
00:57:02,484 --> 00:57:04,405
they let us know that they didn't appreciate

1541
00:57:04,405 --> 00:57:06,164
that? Yes, ma'am. They did. But you know

1542
00:57:06,164 --> 00:57:08,005
what? They got fucking fed and got to

1543
00:57:08,005 --> 00:57:08,744
see a human

1544
00:57:09,204 --> 00:57:11,525
twice a damn day. Right. They're fine. They're

1545
00:57:11,525 --> 00:57:13,550
fine. And they had the whole place The

1546
00:57:13,550 --> 00:57:15,300
whole place. The whole place. That was out.

1547
00:57:16,639 --> 00:57:18,639
I I kinda wish we had cameras sort

1548
00:57:18,639 --> 00:57:20,159
of in our house a little bit because

1549
00:57:20,159 --> 00:57:21,920
I love to see how they were when

1550
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:24,000
nobody else could see them. Because I'm pretty

1551
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:25,679
sure when everybody goes to bed and even

1552
00:57:25,679 --> 00:57:28,465
when Lola's asleep, those two snuggle with one

1553
00:57:28,465 --> 00:57:30,465
another, but they won't show any of us

1554
00:57:30,465 --> 00:57:32,625
that they snuggle with one another. That is

1555
00:57:32,625 --> 00:57:33,364
my personal,

1556
00:57:34,144 --> 00:57:36,625
conspiracy theory is the cats actually cats. Yeah.

1557
00:57:36,704 --> 00:57:38,144
Like each other, but they refuse to let

1558
00:57:38,144 --> 00:57:39,284
us see it. Yeah.

1559
00:57:39,664 --> 00:57:41,204
Mhmm. Mhmm. That's that's where I'm at.

1560
00:57:42,750 --> 00:57:45,250
But I am glad to be home. Yeah.

1561
00:57:45,630 --> 00:57:47,710
It took a few days to, like, get

1562
00:57:47,710 --> 00:57:50,190
back into It did. It was weird for

1563
00:57:50,190 --> 00:57:52,769
such a short trip. Well, I think our

1564
00:57:52,829 --> 00:57:53,804
our rhythm was

1565
00:57:55,324 --> 00:57:56,065
so jacked.

1566
00:57:57,324 --> 00:57:58,605
I'm not built for that kind of back

1567
00:57:58,605 --> 00:58:00,364
and forth. Other people do it. I know

1568
00:58:00,364 --> 00:58:01,804
y'all do it. I'm not built that way.

1569
00:58:01,804 --> 00:58:03,484
I'm not built that way. I used to.

1570
00:58:03,484 --> 00:58:05,724
I I can't I don't bounce back as

1571
00:58:05,724 --> 00:58:07,484
quick as I used to. So, yeah, it

1572
00:58:07,484 --> 00:58:08,224
took me

1573
00:58:10,230 --> 00:58:12,762
it took me a couple days. Mhmm. Mhmm.

1574
00:58:12,918 --> 00:58:13,418
But

1575
00:58:14,230 --> 00:58:14,730
yeah.

1576
00:58:15,910 --> 00:58:16,410
So

1577
00:58:17,030 --> 00:58:19,269
I think we're as back to air quote

1578
00:58:19,269 --> 00:58:21,464
this normal as we can get. Convenient.

1579
00:58:22,005 --> 00:58:23,764
Yeah. As as we get. As we're ever

1580
00:58:23,764 --> 00:58:24,264
gonna

1581
00:58:24,644 --> 00:58:25,945
get. Alright. Lord.

1582
00:58:28,964 --> 00:58:32,324
Yeah. I've that that's us. Mhmm. But something

1583
00:58:32,324 --> 00:58:34,799
about the exhaustion from the trip, and I

1584
00:58:34,799 --> 00:58:36,400
had a lot of anxiety leading up to

1585
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:39,039
leaving because I it's been been pre COVID

1586
00:58:39,039 --> 00:58:41,359
since I've even we've traveled anywhere, certainly by

1587
00:58:41,359 --> 00:58:41,859
plane.

1588
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:44,559
I think that caught up as well, and

1589
00:58:44,559 --> 00:58:45,779
it did. We were disconnected.

1590
00:58:47,715 --> 00:58:49,954
Not because there was strife between the two

1591
00:58:49,954 --> 00:58:51,015
of us. It's just

1592
00:58:51,474 --> 00:58:52,135
too much

1593
00:58:52,675 --> 00:58:53,175
outside

1594
00:58:54,114 --> 00:58:55,735
influence. Interference. Mhmm.

1595
00:58:56,035 --> 00:58:56,535
So,

1596
00:58:56,835 --> 00:58:58,035
yeah, I think we're

1597
00:58:59,155 --> 00:59:01,394
Yeah. We're we're back on track. Mhmm. Mhmm.

1598
00:59:01,394 --> 00:59:02,835
I'm not ready to cry at the drop

1599
00:59:02,835 --> 00:59:05,060
of a hat. So, hey. That's good. Oh,

1600
00:59:05,060 --> 00:59:07,347
speaking speaking of crying at the drop of

1601
00:59:07,347 --> 00:59:09,634
a hat. Why is that the thing that

1602
00:59:09,634 --> 00:59:11,920
was the connection? The oldest had a very

1603
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,207
important recital, kind that he is required to

1604
00:59:14,207 --> 00:59:16,494
do his junior year in order to be

1605
00:59:16,494 --> 00:59:19,215
allowed to graduate with a music degree. We

1606
00:59:19,215 --> 00:59:20,355
were late for it,

1607
00:59:21,135 --> 00:59:23,535
and that was hellacious for me. I did

1608
00:59:23,535 --> 00:59:24,835
not handle that well.

1609
00:59:27,055 --> 00:59:29,215
And I've also got a very clear reminder

1610
00:59:29,215 --> 00:59:30,835
that that child is definitely

1611
00:59:31,375 --> 00:59:33,235
gaining more and more independence

1612
00:59:33,615 --> 00:59:34,115
from

1613
00:59:35,239 --> 00:59:37,480
us because, apparently, he'd had the flu the

1614
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:38,539
week before, and

1615
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:41,079
none of us had a clue. We knew

1616
00:59:41,159 --> 00:59:43,400
didn't know. Yeah. Didn't know a thing. His

1617
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:45,079
girlfriend was like, oh, yeah. He was very

1618
00:59:45,079 --> 00:59:46,519
stressed about this. I said, I bet the

1619
00:59:46,519 --> 00:59:49,000
hell he was. Right. Have a problem like,

1620
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:51,284
he's coughing. You kinda need your lungs when

1621
00:59:51,284 --> 00:59:52,905
you play most musical instruments.

1622
00:59:54,085 --> 00:59:54,585
So

1623
00:59:54,885 --> 00:59:56,605
yeah. But he did amazing. He did amazing.

1624
00:59:56,605 --> 00:59:58,085
He did amazing. It's optional to do it

1625
00:59:58,085 --> 01:00:00,085
his senior year, and he's already decided he's

1626
01:00:00,085 --> 01:00:02,164
doing another one his senior year. It's like,

1627
01:00:02,164 --> 01:00:02,664
okay.

1628
01:00:03,230 --> 01:00:04,690
So yeah. Proud

1629
01:00:05,309 --> 01:00:07,809
proud parenting moments across

1630
01:00:08,510 --> 01:00:10,210
both kids for the weekend.

1631
01:00:11,469 --> 01:00:13,569
Because the youngest, she she really

1632
01:00:14,429 --> 01:00:15,889
handled herself in

1633
01:00:16,394 --> 01:00:18,554
anxious situations very well. Very well. Yeah. Very

1634
01:00:18,554 --> 01:00:19,054
well.

1635
01:00:19,594 --> 01:00:20,094
Mhmm.

1636
01:00:20,635 --> 01:00:21,534
Yep. So

1637
01:00:22,394 --> 01:00:22,894
yeah.

1638
01:00:23,515 --> 01:00:24,815
So that's us. Mhmm.

1639
01:00:26,155 --> 01:00:27,675
I'd love to tell you we'll be back

1640
01:00:27,675 --> 01:00:29,675
to normal next week, but there's nothing normal

1641
01:00:29,675 --> 01:00:30,875
about us. So I don't know what we'll

1642
01:00:30,875 --> 01:00:31,775
be back to, but

1643
01:00:32,180 --> 01:00:34,519
something more regular, something more typical.

1644
01:00:35,059 --> 01:00:36,599
That's that's the plan.

1645
01:00:38,420 --> 01:00:39,800
So I guess we can go.

1646
01:00:40,579 --> 01:00:43,220
I don't for YouTube live chat folks. I

1647
01:00:43,380 --> 01:00:44,900
YouTube live stream folks. I don't know what

1648
01:00:44,900 --> 01:00:45,974
the hell is going on with

1649
01:00:46,535 --> 01:00:47,035
YouTube.

1650
01:00:47,735 --> 01:00:49,595
I'm guessing live chat was not cooperating.

1651
01:00:50,215 --> 01:00:52,295
And I that sucks, and I'm, you know.

1652
01:00:52,295 --> 01:00:54,135
Yeah. Sorry about that. Not that we did

1653
01:00:54,135 --> 01:00:55,974
anything, but, like, sorry it was during our

1654
01:00:55,974 --> 01:00:58,635
stream that we tracked. YouTube's been acting

1655
01:00:59,190 --> 01:01:01,190
kinda funky lately. What was it? Monday or

1656
01:01:01,190 --> 01:01:02,809
Sunday night tried to get into

1657
01:01:03,349 --> 01:01:05,849
something on YouTube, and it didn't even recognize

1658
01:01:05,909 --> 01:01:06,409
who

1659
01:01:06,710 --> 01:01:09,030
I was. Yeah. Yeah. No. I think it

1660
01:01:09,030 --> 01:01:10,789
was late last week. Either way, there was

1661
01:01:10,789 --> 01:01:12,230
a time we literally could not sign in.

1662
01:01:12,230 --> 01:01:13,974
Mhmm. But it was like, everybody was having

1663
01:01:13,974 --> 01:01:15,255
that problem. Right. So at least it wasn't

1664
01:01:15,255 --> 01:01:15,994
just us.

1665
01:01:16,775 --> 01:01:18,934
Anyway, we're gonna go. Yep. Thanks for being

1666
01:01:18,934 --> 01:01:21,655
here. Especially until the bitter end. We appreciate

1667
01:01:21,655 --> 01:01:22,795
you. We do.

1668
01:01:23,255 --> 01:01:24,554
We'll be back next week.

1669
01:01:25,414 --> 01:01:25,893
Okay.

1670
01:01:26,373 --> 01:01:26,873
Bye.