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and spicy questions supposedly. Mh. Of that I
kin up. From therapy, Jeff. Thank you, Therapy,
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Okay.
Who I think that's it? I think that's
all there is. I think
I think that's plenty.
Okay. So... More than a mouthful. You're well,
then you.
App probe nothing. Let's get into these questions.
Okay. So the questions are once again from
therapy Jeff.
I
like therapy Jeff's style. I only ever see
him through my Instagram reels when I'm scrolling,
But I like his style enough. That
in a moment of, I was feeling very
optimistic about my attention span, and the time
I have. I subscribed to 1 of his
podcast. He's got a couple.
This one's more therapy
focus. He's got 1 on dating. I'm not
interested in that side. And and didn't do
that. But I like Therapy, Jeff. I like,
you know, I like how he presents information.
And I like I like his philosophies as
I have figured them out. He's very, you
know, from what I want. Yeah. Hard things
against camping, and I fucking love that. But
in a... Just like he's
from very non assuming and very nonchalant
about ways.
And I feel like he is inclusive or
he tree trying to be inclusive his I'm
sure he's in imperfect at it as we
all are. But, yeah, I like him. Now
the link to the real, I'm sure it
was a tech talk to I watch rails.
Yeah. Is in the places because we are
not answering all of them. There's 10 questions
on gonna and answer a. 1 question was
so weird that Jb went.
No.
I like
no.
And 1, I think I can't remember. Think
I pulled 1 out, so it should be
8. Okay. But we all know I'm really
bad with numbers for all I know it
could be 73.
I don't know.
I just think it's 8.
Now, these questions originally and and by and
large are about sex and sexual attraction.
Kin and sex are not automatically inter for
everybody health. For peep... We get turned on
by our kinks and for us, they're not
always inter.
So where I could? I tried to kin
up the question in case you wanna borrow
these for conversations of your own later. But
also just remember just because weird might be
talking about sex and, you know,
sexual arousal,
that does not mean that all kin is
inherently about sexual arousal for every body. Right.
Okay Okay. I just like to... Correct. Like
to put those caveats out there. Okay.
Now they wanna know what the weird question.
If you click on the real and go
to like, well, when you can listen it.
Yeah. But if you wanna get to a
faster go read the caption minutes it's left
yeah. Yeah.
It was a it was a little out
there for me. I just went know, I
we can't do this. Okay. Well, even for
me to go what the fuck? I have
that the best. Part. Like, if I had...
If I thought I had an answer to
that question, it would be here. Even if
Jb didn't wanna answer it, I would answer.
I but I don't have an answer for
that question.
Okay. So we're gonna do this like we've
done in the past.
I'll ask it. For you to answer, and
then I'll answer it as if you were
asking me. So the first 1.
Describe the first time you really felt attracted
to me slack the first time you wanted
to dominate 8.
And I'm... I'm... I'm fine if you wanna
pick the domination part instead of the attraction
part. Yeah.
Mean, you saw my tits on the Internet
before you ever saw my face.
True crew crew.
When when when?
Let's see.
I would have to say it probably
started...
To head in that direction for me,
I would say probably about a month after,
So would've been January something. Yeah. It it
would have been some time around in January?
On then And what were we talking about?
Were we still... Had we gotten to 20
quest via text yet.
Were we there yet? That was a thing
we did when was getting no 1 another.
Maybe be on my lunch break. And it
be text I don't I don't remember. What's
your favorite kind of dessert? Yeah What's your
favorite color?
Yeah.
Yeah. I I don't see I I don't
remember... So was it, like an, a subtle
little urge or was it like a, like
a a big urge? You were like, oh.
You know. It it was it was like
a
a spark,
an Em.
God it was glowing, and then
turned into a flame. Yep. Podcast. Listeners you
cannot see him Josh if he is raising
up, sim to the forest of the
The rest of the animals.
I
oh my god.
Visualization in my brain was very strong. The
ability to describe them verbally, not so much.
Okay. So the first time,
I felt very attracted to you to slash
wanted to submit to you.
I
I've hate.
I hate that I'm gonna say this because
I
it feels wrong. U u...
But it also is probably kind... It's... Yeah.
So
I didn't wanna submit you when we were
talking through our blog comments. Like, I wasn't...
I wasn't whatever. Right.
But once we started emailing at the very
end of December.
It wasn't that I wanted to just, like,
call you, Sir, and Neil for you whatever.
It was sort of that thing because you
you were coming across very
self controlled very,
you know, you are a very solid stable
human being.
It's it's a very comforting thing to people
like me when we feel very out of
control and like, oh, I don't know what
the fuck Doing. And I was very much
a... I don't know what the fuck I'm
doing part of life. Mh. And you
just...
I mean, it that's... That was early, But
it was it was like you had the
feeling of it was an em It wasn't,
like, I was ready to... I wasn't ready
for anything. I was still nursing or everywhere
Were. You you you didn't jump out of
the frying pan into the fire put your...
And I don't have to go back because,
yes, we do still have all of those
emails. Yeah. From 20 12. Yep.
But
we'd there would be... You would just, like,
be having a conversation with me and suggest
that I do things not in a big
d just like, and, I'm having a conversation
with other. Human being way. Mh. And my...
Like, the, oh, 0, that's what he suggested
I do. I should go do that like
human
And, yet, there... Was no conscious thought of
I am submitting to him. It was just
a I felt.
Comfortable with you. Okay. And
I
didn't trust where we talked about this for
years. I didn't trust right away, but I
felt comfortable
enough
and you were
calm and level headed and to sort of
stable seeming and
not like, I didn't know about your life
at that point, but in your temperament,
you to me have always come across as
a very...
And when I say soft spoken, I don't
mean shy or Jam, I mean, like, you
don't feel the need to raise your voice
to get your point across that quiet confidence.
Mh. That has always come through our conversations
even in the blog comment but it became
a lot more personal and private once we
were emailing.
And so, yeah, that... That's when that happened.
Okay. That's what that happened.
Okay.
What's a move
I've made in sex or in a scene?
That you're really impressed by.
Wow.
It's okay if there's nothing because I am
a participant.
I am following a lead. All I'm doing
it. And that... That's kind of it because,
yeah, you really don't.
Well, we've talked about this a million times,
so I'm good up throw it out there.
What about the first time I was pure
baby girl in a scene?
Or the first time I called you daddy.
Went was during kinky. That that was during
kinky sex. That was
well, that was funny as hell.
Which
Well, I was not fun. For the record,
it was not funny at the time. Went
super supercharged in the dick down. I was
getting okay. Like, that was like,
we went from, like, a nice solid, like,
highway speed to the cops are chasing us
faster. Didn't we end up on the floor?
We... I was on the floor,
but I was being driven off the of
bad
blood rushing to my head because it was
now up eye down.
God. I couldn't do that if I wanna
to know. Neither
Oh my god. There's a part of me
that's like, man. If we really like focused
on our fitness,
maybe? Maybe.
Yeah. I think means it's... Yeah. I am
very much... I'm not passive, but I'm very
much following your lead. It's very strange for
me to just strike out on my own
in the middle of anything.
I mean, that's done little things, but I
don't think they were,
you know, giving you a blow job at
not the most surprising thing. I I might
didn't.
Being the 1 to do it without being
told or asked.
Maybe No That's not like, not a big...
That big of a deal.
What? It look like you were having a
memory over there
It's okay. If you wanna share. Go ahead.
Great.
Moves you've made
I mean, Oh, this is gonna be scary.
So you make moves during sexy, you make
moves during king scenes.
I'll say the 1 that
real...
I don't know impressed is the right word.
Like, I don't I don't know, but the...
The 1 of the times that really sticks
with me if for a kin scene
was
the first and so far only time.
You allowed somebody to c top with you.
And it was impact, and it was so
fucking sexy, but it was... Yep. It was
1 of those things that We did not
have an explicit
negotiated
conversation about it. It was very much a
vibes thing. Mh. But we had been together
long enough. And also if I had been
uncomfortable I could have just said immediately. And
that person with somebody that we knew from
Right. And they were checking and going. Are
you okay with us? Yeah. Yeah. We're good.
But the fact that that just sort of
happened kind of organically
was
I was surprising in a very good way.
Sex. I mean, it's always good Even if
we're at a stage in life where it's
very relaxed and very
very low these days.
Because the stars have to align for both
of us, yeah. At the same time. But
Yeah. I mean, you...
I've I've always... I'm always impressed that you
never forget that a go to you got
2 go to moves during sex if you
want to feel the cli on your own
dick, and that is pull my hair real
hard. Mh.
Or smack me in the face. Yeah Oh,
yeah. Oh, god. That's so good.
See, I'll take both of those and I
even need the sex. I guess,
in context.
Context. The hair pulling yes is is definitely
a go to,
and and the face slap.
Oh, man... That's like, freaking icing on the
cake. Mh.
Yeah. Yeah. I can always tell when my
body has... In voluntarily reacted because you gas.
I'm like, oh, okay.
Squeezed down all tighter there. Okay. Get it
out. Get know. Didn't
was not conscious of.
Okay.
This 1, I don't know if either Russell
have an answer, but it's okay. What's a
subtle move or thing I do
outside of the bedroom that really turns you
on.
I will be shocked. If you have an
answer for this.
I wouldn't say...
That it turns me on. Okay.
Okay.
And and a lot of the times, it
it happens
when at the end of the day when
we're in bed
and and you start
at touching me in ways just to get
a reaction.
It's so much fun.
Not sexual. It's not kinky. It is. Arm
my or my fingertips cold enough. That he
will
scream? Okay. Can I find the spot where
he cannot contain the tickle tick giggles anymore
that Okay?
Will I make him gasp and bite his
lip? I will do that 1 too those
involve balls. Okay? Just saying those are the
balls. If if anybody needs that tip. But...
Yeah, it it's it's great because,
you know, you you start doing that because
you want that reaction.
And I... I put everything on a lockdown
down, man. No. I I just try harder.
I and you do And you try harder,
and that's... A part that I'm immune he's
way.
I mean, I
dog with a boat. I I give you
a need for effort, man, you know, the
You you really go out it. You put
give it your all. But, yeah. It's it's...
I mean, it's not
kinky. It's not... No. Maybe, but, you know,
yeah. It's it's an intimacy shirt. Yeah. Because.
Yeah. We're laying in bed. We're both exhausted.
I'll get my night nighttime zoom.
This is sometimes right as this is the
build up to the Zoom means
and why it's happening.
So a subtle move or thing you do
out. The bedroom that really turns me on.
I cannot pinpoint an exact time, but every
time it happens.
It is when you go big d dump
by when we're out, like, when it's not
in bedroom in c like,
we're,
you know, at a restaurant and you're... You
know, quietly
on the, like,
subtly,
give it me big d voice or the
big d lung or,
In this, I know this is not a
kin thing and people in all kinds of
relationships do this. But if we're out and
you're got your hand on my lower back.
Guiding me?
Yes.
Fucking love that shit.
Especially if I've purposely tried to make myself,
like, like, dress up and, like, look like
I'm am not in my Adam sandler period,
which I absolutely am. But, yeah, which I
have a brand new dress. We have don't
have a a we haven't had to to
go out for me to wear it. And
it... That's 1 of those... That would be
1 of those times or if you were
being that way in doing that kind of
stuff, god, just being melting all over the
fucking place.
Okay. Then.
You look like you had a thought? Did
you have a thought? Okay.
Okay.
That's. This is the silly 1. Okay. And
I'm gonna preface my answer with I am
not trying to kin shame
anybody when I give my answer. And I'm
assuming probably you too. Yeah.
Would you rather
the I, kayla lords.
Suck on your toes, or your fingers. Fingers.
Okay.
Don't suck on nothing mine because I'm not
suck I'm only sucking on 1 thing of
yours or and in ain't toes and then
8 fingers.
Of the 2
fingers.
I mean, you... So I have absolutely sucked
on your fingers. I should not act like
I haven't. You've done that thing we're, like,
oh my favorite sex acquisitions is Doggy. And
you'll be behind me, and your your finger
get my mouth or we'll be spoon and
fucking mh. And
you'll put your finger... Or when I could
knee back in the day, put your finger
And I'm I'm here for it. I'm here
we've done it with role play of you're
talking dirty, like, imagine in. I'm a mad.
Mh. Love having a good imagination.
So, yes, I will. I'm not gonna just
walk up to you though and shove 1
your fingers in my mouth, imagining That's not
happening.
And
no. Your toes my mouth will never
meet. You can... That's quite alright. Play that
down. Also I don't want anybody sucking on
my toes.
I just don't Know It's not your... Yeah.
You stop my jam. You don't want your
You don't want your feet touch. Not really.
No. Unless I've paid you good money to
give me a pedicure ear, then that's fine.
Yeah.
And my fingers no.
So my thing with fingers
would be... It's not like a a aversion.
It's a I don't like when my fingers
are wet. Or sticky or just not how
I think they're supposed to feel. I cannot
be in the kitchen and cook anything even
though basic thing without running my
fingers under the tap. Multiple times to get
them clean.
So somebody's sucking on my fingers I'm gonna
be, like, do you have a wet wipe
where is your bathroom sink. I have to
wash my hands.
And it's not a germ thing. It's a
sensory thing. I don't like it.
Okay.
I think I know the answer to part
of this, but Okay. We're we're asking anyway.
It's the whole point of the thing.
If we can only do 1 sex position
or 1 kin scene or bun. Mh. For
the rest, lives together, What would it be?
Okay.
Her
Going with sex. Okay.
And it would be doggy.
Yeah. Let me tell you how I would
get on a fitness
regimen.
Just for that to be
better for both of us. Because both of
us are like these knees can't think of
can
Az there a king scene?
Or a king activity.
I I think in that regard, it would
definitely have to be
it would involve a vlogger and and a
S saint Andrews cross. Oh god. Yep. See.
Oh, It's been so long, And I have
to say I don't... Have anything to add
because the... Yes.
If we were... We
fuck
in a spoof position. Have because it's better
on your back.
Mh. And probably your knees too at this
point. Yeah.
And we make it good and it... Works
for us, but
the absolute fucking. Yes. I know. Doggy. Yep.
And, yeah, if I works
yeah. Flo in Saint Andres cross as a
as the scene. Mh. I... We haven't not
done that so long. No. And I missed
that... Soma
in long time.
Okay.
I'm gonna caveat this question
that the
second part of it doesn't have to be
true. Okay. What's your favorite spicy memory of
us that instantly turns you on. But it
doesn't have to what's your favorite spicy Memory.
I would have to say
that would be
the first time we played in a dungeon.
Oh god.
First time I took you to Phoenix club.
Yeah. I was so scared.
I was... Wide Eyed watching others They can...
And I I was I was nervous
too. Mh. That night.
And
Yeah. It was kind of funny because I
I kept telling telling you. Well, gonna wait
for the right moment for us to play.
Right moment. Right moment, and then you're finally
like, come on But still. Like, that's. The
day I learned... I don't have a,
v
bone in my box.
Like And
we did. We we ended up. We were
upstairs.
Yes.
We we we we were able to get...
The cross and on the upstairs on in
loft,
and we played up there and we had
a really, really good time. Mh.
So
to answer.
My favorite is the second time we went
to the club because the time. We were
on the main floor. Yes. On the Saint
Andrew's cross. Mh. And we have people come
watching us specifically and then came up to
us afterwards to comment on the energy. Yeah.
I mean, not only was it a good
impacting? It because totally was, but my exhibition
is heart was just grew 3 sizes back.
It was so delightful
And now on the the rare occasion we
have any form of public play, my brain
will just pretend like there's people. We could
be alone in a room. My brain will
go, pretend people are watching, and I just...
The my energy just shifts. Awesome, so if
we're gonna
Okay.
This is the last 1. Okay.
And I... We could say teased in a
sexual way or a king way here, but
what's your favorite way to be teased and
how long could I tease you before you
just couldn't take it anymore.
Would you even, like let me tease you?
Couldn't for more than 30 seconds, I mean.
And you know that... That's the thing as
Because, like, part of it the part of
the reason I don't think this question cut
works for us is the whole dynamic is,
oh, I'll tease you for 30 seconds, but
then you're ticket control, and we're both like
hot damn. This... What we're here for. Yeah.
And that... Yeah. So I guess the time
limit is 30 seconds. Right?
So
do you have a favorite way that I
I tease.
I I would have to say it it
would be a couple things looking at.
You know, when when you nose my neck.
Okay. Mh.
Alright? That... That's a a very
Yeah. Spot for me.
And,
oh, God. I had a brain fart now.
When you when you
scratch your rum nails done? Yes. Is it
your... Is it any part of your body
or just your back or would it matter?
I think I've done it to your legs
before. It it it doesn't matter, but the
back.
Definitely gets the biggest reaction. Yeah Yeah.
So
every
moment of our lives together you're teasing me
in some way.
Sounds ways Yeah. Way.
So
where the the question doesn't work for us
is
I don't get a say in how long
I'm teased unless I say word out. Right?
Like,
depending on his mood, if I beg for
the teasing to stop,
the sad will just laugh at me and
keep going as long as I'm not, like,
giving all of the indicators shirt
indicators that it... I'm serious and easy to
stop. So the the there is no sentiment.
I have
consensual given up control over them. The teasing...
So it depends on the moment. If we're
in...
A kin scene moment, and it's not purposely
sexual or even necessarily erotic even though it's
always kind of a little erotic for me.
Anytime you've just got
bear hand on ass, not
smacking. But because you do this and it's
it's 1 of your things for impact is
you'll smack Max mac with whatever implement, and
then your hand
will touch my butt. Rub my butt. I
mean, I think I've made it clear over
all these years I feel about a butt
rub.
So, like, when you're... But I always know
you're checking the temperature of my body.
You're giving me a moment to breathe, and
you're also waiting for me to relax
because you're like, okay. Show relax, and then
I'd come in with someone. Hard again. Get
your guard down. Right. Thank you. That's what
I was thinking. I. Mh.
So in
insane hard
me. That's not about... Does sex in it.
That is... Yes. Please tease me with the
drugs.
Sometimes it's also a little bit like, a
little reward for having endured whatever
impact hell you just put me through on
I'm like, look Okay.
And I'll wiggle my ass for more.
Sexually, it is...
Anything
where
when it's a pleasant feeling to have my
clip touched.
Lately, I... We've had to we've had to
modify.
Yeah.
What we use lots more lube than we
used to. Now for penetration, we've been using
lube, we've had to for years.
But even for, like,
not
touch,
lube is required or it's painful,
which a little bit sucks because I love
when you will wake me up by just
gently like, tapping the clip. I'm like, I'm
fucking here for this shit.
So I I enjoy it when it's a
gentle tease. Yeah.
The sad will sometimes try to go hard,
and I've gotta go yellow. This is not
working for me. Yeah. But, yeah. The gentle
ts
how long until I'm crying
practically begging to... To get off, You know?
Or Yeah. To do the next thing or
whatever whatever. Lola agrees,
she thankfully has never been in the room
with us when it got kinky or sexy.
No. I don't know if she would make
eye contact. Of this after.
The cat has been there for a couple
bullet moments, Onyx, the cat. Ellen not so
much, but Onex has looked at us from
across the room.
Like, what are you be doing like...
But... Yeah, like,
stimulation, gentle,
stimulation. Actually is my favorite tease.
Butt rubs. Yeah. My favorite king ts.
And for how long?
As long as
long as you decide.
July say you've had enough. Exactly. The the
thing that works is I... There are times,
especially when we were playing more heavily and
sex was a much more frequent thing.
For us at the, you know, a few
years ago,
is you would... It would feel like
Yep.
Sorry. Alright. I know. I know I know
who has your heart.
And that's lonely that that that had nothing
doing it. I was...
She she's sitting with her. I know. She's
fake face to us, not looking at it
us Looking at. I know. Face in in
the in the
shelving. I know I.
Yeah. Yeah.
So as I was saying,
Okay. Anyway. The thing that when we were
more doing more King and sexual stuff.
I... It would feel like the teasing was
going on for ever, Like, can I even
endure this? But the reason I would
endure it as long as it felt like
it was going is because you all... You've
never,
like Think early days we played with
denial. Yeah. But we stopped... A certain point
that that did not work well. And so
I always knew I was... Gotta get it.
It was just a
matter of when. So then I could endure
the teasing because I knew Yeah. The reward
was coming. Mh. And so was.
So ultimately
that's like matt. In due course.
And
those... Are all.
Okay. Of our questions.
Because I left 1 out and... Because, nope,
went answering that. Mh.
If anybody follows the link and looks at
that question, and you have an answer for
it great. Feel free to share.
You'll know it when it's... Question 10. Y'all.
I just wouldn't know. I can't. Lola is
still
a woo wing
into the shelf. Yes. Oh, she's given total
side eye right now? Oh, yeah. Yeah. She's
like, I know you heard me over here
And what are you going to do about
it? Yes Not a damn thing. Not a
damn thing.
So,
nope.
Yeah. No. She does... She... We're not giving
her what she wants. So therefore,
she is not going to give us what
we want. No.
So, yeah, That... It. For the cute spicy
questions.
I'll give you a spoiler alert. I've already
decided next week's episode. We're doing a reddit
response. That's percent. So, yay, for that.
The brains... The mutually, the brains needed to
break. I was like, I need somebody to
tell me what we're talking about it. The
are way around.
You,
silence I read question 10. I wish I
hadn't.
See. I don't say we tried to warn
y'all Know. Yeah. Just go go look about
it.
At your own peril.
And if you are part of the
religious group that that question comes from?
I mean, I'm gonna need you to, like,
send me some info.
About that.
Anyway,
So we will...
What do you know? Try to play kate
Lola as we go into a bonus section.
So
are we good? I don't know. No I
don't... No I'm not even gonna try to
know.
Keep the.
And we'll see you next week.
Todd.
Yes, baby girl.
Can we talk to the crickets? Yeah.
Go ahead.
I can report that, as of this coming
Saturday,
the 18 year old?
Comes the 19 year old. Yep. Have you
reached out to the person we found on
Facebook marketplace?
No. For the gift, we want to get
him? No. Okay. But you'll do that
Okay. Yeah.
We looked at I... And I said, hey.
Good with this price range. You'll take care
of this for me and you went, yep.
Okay.
See, I walk a fine line in the
relationship between trying to help fully remind,
but not na.
So
I will... I try to give it plenty
of time, but we're on we're on a
deadline here because Child's birthday Saturday.
He wants a mini fridge.
I was like, I'm I'm not paying full
price for a brand new mini fridge. There's
only gonna hold this child's like her
energy drinks. Yeah. So we're on Facebook marketplace.
Thank you very much. Mh.
Jess asked where do I read read question
10.
If you follow the link
to
where we got the question terms Instagram link.
You can go request 10 and and have
your own thoughts about it.
For anybody who didn't catch that at the
beginning.
What else?
We're...
For the king, the king dot com. Mh.
We are going to be releasing
the resin dagger later this week. I am,
work like, nose to grinds stone this week
trying to get it all. You have been...
Together. But... You you've been
You've been going at it, hot and heavy.
Had to put stuff aside to try to
work on it And I still...
I've spent... I spent...
4,
5 hours yesterday working on it that yesterday
being Tuesday.
I spent...
God.
4 and a half hours today.
I'm hoping I just need a couple more
hours tomorrow,
and then it all be done.
Because it's... Had to take the pictures. I
had to finish the products make sure they
were like, they look good. Then I had
to organize them so I knew what the
hell Had. Then I had to take pictures
of them that had edit those pictures,
then I had to start creating the listings
on the king, the k dot com.
If you are on the Kin inquiries email
list, you will know about the resin dagger
being available
before anybody else.
Kin
I wish Could see Jb walking around here
mud into his dog with his hands on
his hips.
So
she looks she was given... Oh, she's she's
cut definite
attitude. She is pissed that she's not getting
her walk. Yeah, She is. Is it raining
out there? Or did it finally stop raining.
We have 1 window that we have covered
with a thing, so it always looks dark
out that window.
But it is not raining.
Andre asked if our candles are still selling
well. They are, but I have not been
able to restock them. That's what I desperately
need to do. I'm hoping when I do
a restock, I can add the last few
colors and then we have the whole rainbow.
Know, situation. Mh.
So... Yeah. Right. Every,
Everybody's going to and live chat. They're in
the live chat, they're they're going to look
at the question and then wishing they...
I liked how therapy Jeff asked the question
like, to hear him ask it. Yeah. And
watches his facial expression or, like, hear his
tone. Mh. It
is a little less jarring than just reading
it, but the quickest way is just to
read it. Right. You know.
Yeah.
But... Yeah... So that's been the focus for
me this week Yeah. I I'd had kind
of a, like, oh, maybe I'll have it
all done by Wednesday. No. Not if you
wanted to have a podcast that's
stop at a certain point.
So, yeah. I'm hoping... I... Well, the plan
is I'm definitely finishing it tomorrow.
But is it a... I'll finish it by,
like, 2 or 3 in the hour afternoon
versus I'm still working on it at 10:00
tomorrow night. I don't know We shall see.
But, yeah.
And then
what else has been going on?
Let's see. What else has been going on?
Lola is doing pretty good. Yeah. She goes
to the vet next week. She goes back.
Goes back to the vet. Next week.
She's
she's been doing her
whole deal with the with the medication she's
on.
We are
monitoring her food
with a fine freaking tooth comb.
Right now.
And
hopefully, we see
some
change
next week yeah on the scale.
You know, yeah. I I have been
walking her. And she's very po because she's
not getting walk walk right now.
And, you know, she she is she
since started back with with walking her,
she's been rather...
Fond of it.
Yeah. She's not taking it for granted. No.
No.
You know, even
even with the heat we've been having, but
I've been trying doing my best to go
towards the very end of the day, you
know, and the sun is almost down. So,
you, know, pavement not too hot, and in
some of the walking and
you know, considering
her weight at this point, you know
she has been good. I let her walk
till she feels it's time to turn around.
Which has been
pretty good. Mh. Pretty good with her.
So
you know, she's she's been as you could
hear,
She's she's getting back to herself. And she
knows she's being talked about, y'all, what, you
cannot see it. She has literally 1 ear.
Straight up and cock to the side like.
Yeah. I know you're talking about me back
there. You She's waiting for us to say
the WAL
hayward. Right. Let me tell you about Jb
and the love he has for his dog.
Few days ago, I don't remember exactly when,
but it's Reese's.
He says, I'm not I'm not walking there.
Tonight, I need a night off. I'm exhausted
Yeah. It's hottest as fuck out there. I'm
not doing it, And I went...
Okay.
She knew.
He's like, no. Really, I'm like, look.
We know.
Who has who wrapped around their little pinky
paw in this
relationship. Mh. And we know it's not you.
Okay.
I said you are. She's... Got you
wrapped.
She's gonna a woo, and you're gonna walk,
and he went, no I'm not. I'm I'm
staying firm with. I am not. I'm need
a day off. She'll be fine without 1
hour. Okay.
And then
it started
in the kitchen. I think while making dinner
or clean from dinner. She's just... She would
sit there not move and just make the
gold literal puppy doll eyes, Adam. She's walking
by. And he's looking at and he's looking
at me he's walking by. And then she
moved in technically into the living room, but
by the front door, and she laid there,
and she looked at him. Every time he
walked by, and he's looking at me. And
finally, he goes,
fine. I'm taking her for a walk. I
was like,
I believe I called it. I believe I
knew how this was gonna end.
Yep.
Yeah.
So, you know, yeah. That's...
That's that's been that. But, you know, she's...
She's been doing well.
Just need to, you know, hopefully see now
this coming week, whether her weight. That's is
starting to drop.
And
you know, I've been working,
working chop, the heat,
has been just absolutely
wonderful.
Well, we finally
sat down and had a conversation to help...
Keep your morale and spirits and energy up,
but partly because of the heat, partly because
the other stuff.
This is the first summer. We kind of
have the luxury that Jb does not have
to be in the shop 5 days a
week.
We're caught up enough that he take extra
time off. So we had this conversation. I
was like, why Don't you take long weekends,
and, you know, I'll let you know when
deadlines are coming out 1 here. There will
be things I have to have at some
points but we can maneuver all of this
and he was Like maybe I will, and
then he did. I was very proud of
him. Yeah. So...
I'm looking forward to it.
I worked today I work tomorrow.
Like and then
you take that friday off. Good for you.
I may... I may do yard work
on Friday. I'm I know I'm you. He
keeps doing solo yard work. Yeah. So I
may do yard work on Friday. So I'm
gonna have to do it over the actual
weekend, especially when the oldest is home. Yeah.
Oh, that was cute. So the oldest birthday
is Saturday, and I had asked... You, we'd
thrown out ideas,
for him, Like, how how... What do wanna
do you wanna come home for the weekend?
Do you want us to come there? We'll
just take you out to dinner? Like, we
can keep it low. We can we can
do it you want. He calls me
yesterday Tuesday. Yeah. And he goes, okay. I
don't still don't quite know. It exactly what
I want for my birthday, but here's what
I'm sure of. It's like, I wanna sleep
in my bed. And by my bed, I
mean the full size bed in my apartment
at the temperature. I like to sleep.
And not the twin 1 at your house.
I was like, fair. So He's like, but
I'd also
like to get a haircut
at home meaning here that I can drive
myself to in a car.
He was like, and I don't know how
to get both of those. I was like,
oh, I got you. Pick up in the
morning on Saturday I come home.
Spend the day,
take you back to your apartment Saturday evening
anyway.
Okay.
And III get it. He has his
motorcycle is not like a motorcycle. The thing
is not topping 45
miles per hour. It's a little it's a
little commuter bike. Right. And so... It's a
step above a scooter. Exactly. And so
if it's raining, if it's overly hot, It's
like, sometimes he's like I just... I just
wish I'm was driving car and I'm like,
not... You're not taking my car to college
town
with, you know, for just any reason, but
you come and drive my car all over
town. I don't care.
So
he's like, but also could you pay for
my haircut?
Like, happy birthday to you.
We just paid half his rent this month.
What's the hell?
Is so...
Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. I yeah.
But... Yeah.
And it's July, So it's July birthday is
left right and center last week was your
birthday this week is his birthday.
Not next week, but the following week is
my aunt's birthday,
and then we get a break
youngest birthday in September, but then we start
a a little over with the shenanigans in
October when everybody has a birthday. And 2
wedding anniversaries in October. So
we know how to, you know,
live large.
So
But yeah.
So that's... And also, we have to be
careful. We don't wanna talk about 2 d
how much because we got the film live
Friday night. That's true. Like, I want to
talk about what we've been watching on Tv,
but that is a Friday Night Friday.
Yeah. Yeah. Now will there be
adult beverages?
Maybe not. I have to drive gainesville next
morning. Yeah. I don't want them... I don't
get hung over. I don't drink enough to
get hung over, but I I can't even
have a gummy without waking up a little
groggy the next day. I am the ultimate
fucking lightweight these days. So
I don't know.
I But... Yeah. So we have to hold
some bang for you. That's right. Friday. Friday
night.
It will probably be of a party. I'm
pretty sure I will not be wearing a
bra. I certainly will not be wearing makeup,
and it will be Pj pjs that I'm
I'm wearing. If you're wandering away is I'm
finishing up though, Are we gonna finish... Yeah.
I was like, closing it down. Okay.
Running it away from the microphone.
Sorry, but you know, sometimes...
I know. Okay. I know. So all that
being said now that I got them back
to the phone. Okay. Hopefully, we will see
everybody on Friday. Yes. And thank you for
sticking with us to the bitter end and
indeed... If the questions...
We're anything we hope they were entertaining. Mh
And
we will see y'all later. Mh Bye.