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freaking hundred. 400A

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nice

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round number. Yeah. You know how I feel

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about a round number. I've meet too. Yeah.

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Get works here with the 1, the only

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the guy who's been in this with me

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from the beginning in some form of fashion.

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John Browns.

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What a long strange trip it's been.

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And continues to be

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Any Og listeners out there will remember when

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it was just my voice, and we were

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recording in the closet, and then you'll remember

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when it was the 2 of us recording

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in the class it. And then you might

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remember when we got our first

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grown up microphone that.

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Closet it.

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And there were many, many messages of please

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give John Browns stone, his own microphone.

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And here we are. Because I have 1

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of those soft. You really didn't. Hello, dome

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voices. And I I have... Did you just

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Asmr like, the panties off of everybody? I

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mean, you might not wear panties, we might

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wear something else, but they're gone now. Aren't

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they? Yeah. That's all point.

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Actually, for some people, and if it was

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me, I would be cri for some people,

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with. I know. No. No. I was yes.

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You melted their panties off. We. We established

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that. No. For some of us, myself included,

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a whisper makes us just

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want to hide somewhere. Yeah. It's... Oh, so

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for anybody who felt feels that way. We're

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Sorry. Not sorry, though, I think he was

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very proud of himself for whispering into the

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In a way we're here to discuss that

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because we are celebrating Mh. 400 episode, and

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we are doing that with,

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and ask us anything. We took questions off

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a gram. We are time traveling now. So

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I'm gonna say something that may or may

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not be true later in this episode. We

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may take questions from the Youtube live as

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Your your questions.

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We're gonna answer them to celebrate

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400 episodes. 400 freaking fucking episodes. It's holy

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shit. We did it. Yeah. Mh. Yeah. Welcome

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to Loving Bd podcast. This is your first

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time listening. Glad to have you. If you're

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will forever.

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Fucking hate. With the passion

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And I'm turning... You're turning fans. Yeah

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gonna answer questions for this week's episode.

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accepting we are always accepting. It's not still.

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if you have a question that is not

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Submitting it through the link on our website

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place to do it because then you can

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give us all the backstory. You can give

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and then we will make a dedicated video

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slash podcast episode just answering your questions. So

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if you have questions like that,

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especially if you're like, this is a quest

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a Q and A episode, and I had

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answering your questions like that,

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especially when we get the literal paragraphs of

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contacts and back. Yeah. So that is the

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only announcement this week.

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So we're gonna get over in to Instagram.

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I'm gonna get into the meet potatoes here.

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We did not get a lot of questions,

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feelings get hurt because I know how the

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summer is. I Else enough kinda dropped the

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ball by not being around on Instagram as

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much as I had been for a while.

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Mh. It

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comes in waves. Like, for about 6 weeks,

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I'll be Gun h there, like, in it,

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I'm tired. And then I go away again,

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answer the questions that we received. I don't

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see any that we wouldn't answer, and then

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taking questions from the livestream stream? We will

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tell you how to do that when we

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get there. Okay. Here we go. First question,

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have you ever dealt with a power exchange

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breakup. Do you have tips for healing.

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Oh, hell, yeah. I've been 30 Break before.

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Yep. Saying.

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Be kind to yourself and be patient.

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I know those are are are 2 words

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make someone cringe,

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Girl.

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That was wrong with me. And

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you know, lifestyle people who who can... Who

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you, you know, they... It it's it's good

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to have a support system. Yes. This is

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a time that if you have some form

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kent community online or in person,

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people that you are close enough to that

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to friends anytime soon, and that's okay. But

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the kind of friends, will maybe check on

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you. This is a great time to practice

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communication skills and be clear and say, hey,

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okay with that if you are assuming you

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the right time there's no wrong time, but

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on your community. If you do not have

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community once you get through whatever your initial

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grief process is gonna look like where everything

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go find community and make friends. And again,

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be online or in person. So maybe you

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work on reflecting as, you know, a Gangster.

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There's tons of journals and tons of, workbook

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books and tons of like, little things you

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can do online. There's tons of sites that

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will help you do that kind of stuff.

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process of moving through your feelings in a

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breakup. Mh.

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Figuring out more of who you are as

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a kings. This is not a bad time.

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you know, do different social things, like, you

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look for to. Mh. And I'm gonna say

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the thing I say every single time this

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comes up because it does come up a

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lot because a lot of people go through

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it, and that is to allow yourself space

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to grieve. Yeah. Your feelings are valid it.

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I do not care if this relationship was

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2 months, 2 years, 20 years. I don't

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care what the length is. It met meant

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something to you and now it is over.

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breakup. Whether you did or they did or

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something else happen like a ghost situation or

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whatever Mh. I don't care who initiated it.

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You have your feelings and you are allowed

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to feel them. You're not allowed to be

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an asshole with your feelings, but you are

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allowed to feel your feelings. There will come

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a point where, you know,

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somebody might go well, maybe you're wall now,

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maybe it's time to try and move forward.

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That's different for everybody and really only your

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friends will kinda clock that for you.

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if this is a fresh breakup, or you're

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just now kinda dealing with your feelings.

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Just slit self grieve. It it is okay.

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You are not, you know,

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crazy or a weirdo

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pathetic whatever mean thing we can sometimes think

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to say to ourselves when we're in,

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you know, feeling that kind of sadness. You're

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not those things, feel what you feel, as

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you start to come out of it a

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little bit, then start

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finding community, learning more about Kin learning more

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about yourself as a Kingston.

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And, you know, from there, what happens after

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that? Who knows? Maybe you just make a

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whole bunch of friends. Maybe you meet a

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new partner.

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Maybe you just gain confidence as a kingston

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and, you know, whatever.

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But first, just feel your feelings.

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Okay. Next question.

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What made you guys, that's us, want to

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start a podcast about kin.

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That 1 that would be. That will be

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you.

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Because what I said to Jb when I

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started the podcast was don't worry, all I

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need you to do is edit it for

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me. I'll do everything else. I... The very

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beginning I was writing scripts. I was recording

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alone. It was very scripted. That just not...

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What made me want to start a podcast

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about Kin was that I was already blogging?

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belonged I was a huge blogger, like, not

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huge in size, but just, like, the amount

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of words my butt out.

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She was She was certainly writing

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at least 1 post today. So... And there

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were times several. Yeah.

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Partly because writing is how I process what

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I'm feeling and figure out what I feel

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and figure out what I'm thinking and whatever.

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But the

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opinions I was starting to form about

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kin specifically power exchange. And the things I

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was learning,

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writing a blog post did not feel like

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enough space to have

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Nuance

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conversations.

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I am that type of writer in casual

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writing, like my own blog not professionally that

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it's a lot of parent

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because free thought has a side thought to

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go with it to add context,

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and that's... I didn't wanna write 10000 word

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blog post to talk about a single thing

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that I was thinking and to dive into

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the

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details on the nuance of it. I wanted

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to talk about it. And I wanted I

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thought what I was gonna do is just

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do little tidbits because I figured nobody wanted

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to listen to long episodes anyway.

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Well, that didn't last very long. And they

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got longer. And they got longer,

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because

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quite frankly because the the problem with the

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here 5 things to do for your

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kinky relationship now is it's too fucking surface

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level,

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You know?

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The the

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articles

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published by non kin focus sites. It's all

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surface level and it's all the same fucking.

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Advice. King sight, we have to find ways

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to get it across that's more than just

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like a checklist

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situation because checklist actually don't work. It's too

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individualized.

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So I just wanted... I wanted to talk

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about it rather than write about it.

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And very early on, I realized I wanted

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Jb with me, and I don't even remember

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anymore how that started. That is so far

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back in the archive. I don't remember any

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You you came to me

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and said that there was a topic you

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wanted to talk about,

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but you wanted to have my input on

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it. As well.

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Okay.

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That was that was the entry point. And

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that was when I entered the closet with

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you.

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I hope job. Yeah. And podcast podcasting

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you've been stuck with me ever since.

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Quite frankly, it makes for a better.

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Episode. It makes for a better competition because

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it's an actual conversation. You know? Yeah. And

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we are

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we are 2 completely perspectives because Dom sub,

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but also just because we're 2 people. So...

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Yeah. Yeah. But that... That's what made me

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I wanna start it. I just wanted to

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have

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conversations and it was

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I didn't wanna write it. I wanted to

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say it.

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So blame my talk nature,

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and

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my,

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dick

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to context in Nuance.

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Next question, How much has changed

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since we started the podcast?

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I don't do they mean in the podcast?

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Do they mean in our lives? Do they

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mean? I don't know what they mean? So

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we can answer I mean, overall overall lots

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is lots. Everything is changed

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you know, when when Kayla first started this,

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it was with a laptop and no microphone

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just No microphone the built in microphone built

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on the laptop. And the laptop was old.

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When I started using it? Yes.

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Still have that laptop. Yeah. You still use

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it stuff. Actually, before I went into the

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closet, I recorded at the... Kitchen table. I

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think I did 1 episode where I recorded

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at the kitchen table, and I didn't know

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what to do about the sound where we

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lived. We just didn't have good acoustics, and

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I was like, this sound is kinda such

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suck. And I think after that I went

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into the closet because we could at least

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control

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audio. Yeah. But I was... Well, yeah. Because

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at the end, the condo at that time,

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we had the... The bamboo floors. And high

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ceilings. And very high ceilings. Yes. So everything

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echoed echoed.

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Echo.

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The... Yeah. The podcasting whole setup has changed,

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started with that laptop built in microphone. Yeah.

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Went to the closet. The 2 of us

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huddled around a laptop of the built in

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microphone.

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Bought, a single

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microphone. That was that single Usb microphone. Right.

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So we start recording at your desk because

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I didn't have a desk at the time.

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Right.

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And we did it at night after the

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boys went to bed. Right. And we huddled

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around the microphone, and then basically where it

387
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was, like,

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please let Jb have the microphone or get

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him his own microphone. We can't hear Jb.

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And we upgraded to some equipment we kinda

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still have now. Yeah. It's the microphones and

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the sound board,

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we were still in the condo because I

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remember the story we went to.

395
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Yes.

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We got the sound board in the mics,

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which we still... Yes. We still leave it.

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Have.

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While we were in the condo, we started

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doing some of the Youtube, but it was

401
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with the webcam. Mh. Oh, yeah. The quality

402
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was so bad. But because it's not really

403
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meant to take that wide of a shot

404
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Where were like, let's just push you a

405
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little webcam. Yep. See what you're can.

406
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It was it was kinda funny because... Well,

407
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in both cases, went at the condo and

408
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even later,

409
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when we moved to the rental here in

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Oc osaka,

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when we set up for

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the

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the podcast and and doing the livestream stream

414
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at that time. It was a major

415
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to do. Mh. Because we were still using

416
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my computer,

417
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and we had to run all the cables

418
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on the other side of the room,

419
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To the sofa, we had to

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put up the lights and done take the

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lights down,

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do all that, and and we did that

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through.

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After we moved to Oc call.

425
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We bought this house because of the office.

426
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We bought this house because the office. We

427
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got a dedicated computer. Yes. We have more

428
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a setup, which is not as not what

429
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I'd like it to be, but it is

430
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so much better than it was. But it's

431
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like. Oh, yeah. And in all that time.

432
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So the podcast,

433
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Morph. Mh. But in that that time, also,

434
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we got married.

435
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Yep. Oh, yeah. We sold the condo,

436
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moved to this town rented for a year

437
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bought this house specifically for the office that

438
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we now in. And the the shed in

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the back that's where you work to. Mh.

440
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Got a got Lola, Onyx and Ella all

441
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within a few months of moving into this

442
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house.

443
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So, like, everything has... She a few months

444
00:16:30,515 --> 00:16:32,660
after moving into the house, Sa passed away.

445
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I know. And it was after

446
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Sa the dog for somebody who might be

447
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hearing is our dog. Yeah. Arch chill old

448
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dude because he was a senior dog.

449
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Within a a couple months after that, that's

450
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when we started racking up pets.

451
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You

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every month for 3 months,

453
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October

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December

455
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Boom. Mh. Yeah. Onyx came first? Yes. And

456
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then Lola. Then Lola. And then Ella. Ella.

457
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In that time, and in the time of

458
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the podcast,

459
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the oldest is now a grown ass adult

460
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and in college.

461
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Living on his own.

462
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Right. The youngest is went from being, like,

463
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little little and freaking kindergarten to

464
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Now he's about to finish middle school in

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his home school and, like, everything in life

466
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has changed. Like, fundamentally, we are who we

467
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are.

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I think, fundamentally, this podcast is what it

469
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is. It's clearly had changes in shifts And,

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like, whatever over all these years, all these

471
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episodes, but

472
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you know, And then in our... Like our

473
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personal life.

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We are... Again, We are who we are,

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but also everything changed.

476
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Yeah. Yeah. So... Yep, Yep.

477
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Yeah.

478
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Okay.

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Here's a question.

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How are you y'all celebrating pride this year?

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I don't celebrate pride.

482
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Not because I

483
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have any problem. Pride. I your problem. Pride.

484
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A, 1,

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in where we live, there'll be some stuff,

486
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but it'll be very low key because it's

487
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a very good conservative area

488
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2, if we wanted to do pride celebrations,

489
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we would have to travel, not that far.

490
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No. But 3

491
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Gainesville or I'm sure. Yeah. But 3 for

492
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me, personally, the idea of being in the

493
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crowds.

494
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I'd I

495
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and there are many things I would rather

496
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do that are quite violent and would

497
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result in my own bodily

498
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not because I don't wanna celebrate pride, but

499
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because I I don't want to be with

500
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the crowds.

501
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I I you. I wouldn't mind the crowds.

502
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I know you're better frame. Mh.

503
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It... It's just a matter of logistics.

504
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Yeah. Getting there.

505
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At this point.

506
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You know, we were still in the Tampa

507
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bay area.

508
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You can't... I mean, you can't kinda can't

509
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go anywhere without pride being part of, like,

510
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the celebration for a whole month. I mean,

511
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you might not go to a parade. You

512
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might not go to a party. You might

513
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not do that. Mh. But there would then

514
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still... You'd go into a business and it'll

515
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be rainbow boat out. It'd be great.

516
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Yeah. I mean, it's here. It's it's it's

517
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it's kinda sad here, you know, and when

518
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when we live back in the Tampa Bay

519
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area,

520
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you know, you used to see a lot

521
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of people doing doing things for pride,

522
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you know, people would put flags out, you

523
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know, people would decorate,

524
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inside and outside their home. Mh.

525
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Around here, it's sad to say we have

526
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seen a few people fly

527
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a pride flag, and it has never been

528
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for long and out gone. Are across the

529
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street neighbors who are fixtures in this neighborhood.

530
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Yeah. They

531
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no. They're the best place to go If

532
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you wanna know what's going on with this

533
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person down the street and what's happened to

534
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that. They keep their pride

535
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flag it in their bag. Their backyard.

536
00:19:56,338 --> 00:19:58,956
Yeah. So and we'd... You know, we thought

537
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about when we got this house, we thought

538
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about putting up a pride flag,

539
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you know, because 3 of the 4 of

540
00:20:04,133 --> 00:20:05,406
us are not straight,

541
00:20:05,963 --> 00:20:07,634
and all I worried about was the kids.

542
00:20:08,031 --> 00:20:08,531
So

543
00:20:10,039 --> 00:20:11,957
was like, yeah, Maybe maybe not. You know?

544
00:20:12,197 --> 00:20:12,596
Mh.

545
00:20:13,236 --> 00:20:15,633
If they... If if if all the kids

546
00:20:15,633 --> 00:20:17,711
were home and they were legal adults, would

547
00:20:17,711 --> 00:20:19,070
be, like, what do you think and then

548
00:20:19,070 --> 00:20:20,778
we go from there, but while they were,

549
00:20:21,152 --> 00:20:23,458
you know, minors, I was like, yeah. I'm

550
00:20:23,458 --> 00:20:25,524
not I'm not bringing the cra to their

551
00:20:25,524 --> 00:20:28,648
doorstep anymore than I. And I. I believe

552
00:20:29,116 --> 00:20:30,227
speaking of which,

553
00:20:32,211 --> 00:20:34,775
I believe today is the anniversary

554
00:20:35,466 --> 00:20:36,234
of pulse

555
00:20:36,673 --> 00:20:39,546
Really? Oh my gosh. Is it? Yeah. I

556
00:20:39,546 --> 00:20:40,264
believe. Oh,

557
00:20:42,338 --> 00:20:42,838
the

558
00:20:43,455 --> 00:20:43,670
the

559
00:20:44,585 --> 00:20:47,051
in Orlando. I mean, we weren't even connected

560
00:20:47,051 --> 00:20:49,041
to it and it No. Knocked wind out

561
00:20:49,041 --> 00:20:50,075
of me. Yeah. Yeah.

562
00:20:51,918 --> 00:20:52,236
Yeah.

563
00:20:55,646 --> 00:20:57,154
God... I see. I happened to see it,

564
00:20:57,312 --> 00:20:59,313
so I'll answer it. The person who asked

565
00:20:59,313 --> 00:21:00,745
the question and asked have to follow nothing

566
00:21:00,745 --> 00:21:01,938
at home. Oh,

567
00:21:03,450 --> 00:21:05,143
nah. I just... It never

568
00:21:05,453 --> 00:21:08,260
mean, I think for me, 1, I don't

569
00:21:08,715 --> 00:21:11,101
being mostly straight. I don't tend to think

570
00:21:11,101 --> 00:21:13,684
of it, but 2, I think we're both

571
00:21:14,139 --> 00:21:17,162
so old. We remember a pre pride time.

572
00:21:18,196 --> 00:21:20,198
So it just sort of I wear my

573
00:21:20,198 --> 00:21:22,182
pride underwear. You do. You do.

574
00:21:22,738 --> 00:21:24,349
And you are

575
00:21:25,278 --> 00:21:28,216
pans sexual walking around on this planet. So

576
00:21:28,216 --> 00:21:29,129
they're for

577
00:21:29,985 --> 00:21:31,261
get is pride wherever you go.

578
00:21:32,617 --> 00:21:34,292
I know. If you wanted to do something

579
00:21:34,372 --> 00:21:36,286
I would I would happily do something. I

580
00:21:36,286 --> 00:21:37,982
know you would. I just did never

581
00:21:38,534 --> 00:21:39,510
for me personally,

582
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:43,063
you know, it never occurs me. Does do

583
00:21:43,063 --> 00:21:44,970
you think about it? Now Having an existential

584
00:21:44,970 --> 00:21:45,288
crisis?

585
00:21:46,893 --> 00:21:49,041
Should we be doing something You. I don't

586
00:21:49,041 --> 00:21:50,154
know. I don't know.

587
00:21:51,029 --> 00:21:53,018
I... You know I will. I know. I

588
00:21:53,018 --> 00:21:54,051
you I know.

589
00:21:57,729 --> 00:21:59,959
We're good. Okay. We're guys. Check. Maybe I

590
00:21:59,959 --> 00:22:02,189
should ask the the 14 herald. See 1

591
00:22:02,189 --> 00:22:02,428
evening.

592
00:22:03,318 --> 00:22:04,433
I will. No.

593
00:22:05,786 --> 00:22:08,571
I will happily. You. But you're, like, you

594
00:22:08,571 --> 00:22:08,810
know,

595
00:22:09,924 --> 00:22:11,595
you would think if I know in the

596
00:22:11,675 --> 00:22:13,837
Tampa bay area, We walk into a pub

597
00:22:13,837 --> 00:22:15,903
bakery greet. There'd be radio cakes left right

598
00:22:15,903 --> 00:22:17,890
everywhere here. Not here. Not here. Not at

599
00:22:17,890 --> 00:22:20,751
least in our neighborhood. No. So... Yeah, Kinda

600
00:22:20,751 --> 00:22:21,228
sucks.

601
00:22:22,513 --> 00:22:23,624
Okay. Next question.

602
00:22:24,180 --> 00:22:26,585
What are your daily tasks that your dom

603
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,101
expects you to do, consequences if not done,

604
00:22:29,354 --> 00:22:31,187
that 1 is directed me. So my daily

605
00:22:31,187 --> 00:22:32,224
tests are pretty,

606
00:22:33,818 --> 00:22:34,296
simple.

607
00:22:36,847 --> 00:22:38,856
I... So starting... Let me start from the

608
00:22:38,856 --> 00:22:39,494
top of the day down.

609
00:22:40,771 --> 00:22:42,947
First thing in the morning, I am

610
00:22:43,484 --> 00:22:45,214
now 3 days a week. I'm getting up

611
00:22:45,575 --> 00:22:48,454
against my will and following Jb outside because

612
00:22:48,454 --> 00:22:50,134
we're gonna go for a walk, and, yes,

613
00:22:50,694 --> 00:22:52,855
I'm doing that. It's a us thing, but

614
00:22:52,855 --> 00:22:54,227
it is still a thing I'm expected to

615
00:22:54,227 --> 00:22:54,307
do.

616
00:22:55,421 --> 00:22:57,013
I'm gonna make his iced coffee and have

617
00:22:57,013 --> 00:22:57,730
it ready for him.

618
00:22:58,605 --> 00:23:01,153
If we are eating the same thing for

619
00:23:01,153 --> 00:23:01,550
breakfast,

620
00:23:02,043 --> 00:23:03,714
it's not an official task let we negotiate.

621
00:23:03,873 --> 00:23:04,907
This is the thing I do now. I

622
00:23:04,907 --> 00:23:05,384
do make it.

623
00:23:06,180 --> 00:23:08,351
I get his probiotic

624
00:23:08,726 --> 00:23:10,158
ready and available for him.

625
00:23:11,128 --> 00:23:12,718
Was not a negotiated. It was 1 that

626
00:23:12,798 --> 00:23:13,195
I added.

627
00:23:14,229 --> 00:23:14,967
And then

628
00:23:15,342 --> 00:23:17,807
the day is quiet. I just do what

629
00:23:17,807 --> 00:23:19,812
needs to be done as it's... Asked of,

630
00:23:19,971 --> 00:23:21,327
but there's very little in the middle of

631
00:23:21,327 --> 00:23:22,762
the day. Did you make my eyes coffee

632
00:23:22,762 --> 00:23:24,357
yet? Yeah. I was forcing this out. Okay.

633
00:23:24,596 --> 00:23:25,553
And then we get to the end of

634
00:23:25,553 --> 00:23:26,271
the day. Mh.

635
00:23:27,148 --> 00:23:27,648
And

636
00:23:28,438 --> 00:23:30,825
I will get the coffee pot ready for

637
00:23:30,825 --> 00:23:32,416
his hot coffee in the morning, he makes

638
00:23:32,416 --> 00:23:34,086
it himself, but I make it So all

639
00:23:34,086 --> 00:23:35,120
he has to do is push a button.

640
00:23:36,726 --> 00:23:38,714
When we go to bed, I get the

641
00:23:38,714 --> 00:23:40,703
bed ready, and I get the bedroom ready.

642
00:23:40,862 --> 00:23:42,134
So I have to make sure my chair

643
00:23:42,134 --> 00:23:44,777
is tucked in. And at my vanity, and

644
00:23:44,857 --> 00:23:45,894
I have to make sure all the pillows

645
00:23:45,894 --> 00:23:47,730
are set up, and I have to, like,

646
00:23:48,049 --> 00:23:50,124
remind him of, hey, did this happen or

647
00:23:50,124 --> 00:23:51,640
if I see something that's not been done

648
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:52,928
hey And then, of course, I'll usually get

649
00:23:52,928 --> 00:23:54,598
shit because I reminded him something that he

650
00:23:54,598 --> 00:23:56,348
hadn't forgotten. And I'm like, if I hadn't

651
00:23:56,348 --> 00:23:58,495
reminded you, you would have forgotten and then

652
00:23:58,495 --> 00:23:59,927
you'd bet on my case, and we have

653
00:23:59,927 --> 00:24:00,658
those commerce. Patients.

654
00:24:01,453 --> 00:24:02,885
I don't think they're required, but I think

655
00:24:02,885 --> 00:24:03,840
they're good bonuses. Yeah.

656
00:24:07,499 --> 00:24:08,238
And then

657
00:24:09,423 --> 00:24:10,932
He gives me permission to get in the

658
00:24:10,932 --> 00:24:12,997
bed, and that routine is I've bend over

659
00:24:12,997 --> 00:24:14,983
the bed. He rubs my ass, smack my

660
00:24:14,983 --> 00:24:15,721
ass, some

661
00:24:16,095 --> 00:24:17,936
combination of the tube depending on his mood,

662
00:24:19,526 --> 00:24:21,035
and then I can't get in the bed

663
00:24:21,035 --> 00:24:22,068
till so it gives me permission.

664
00:24:23,181 --> 00:24:25,167
And that's kind of it for the the...

665
00:24:25,485 --> 00:24:27,093
Have I missed any thing that's like the

666
00:24:27,093 --> 00:24:29,429
day to day? Well, that that that was

667
00:24:29,647 --> 00:24:31,403
pretty much the day day here at home.

668
00:24:31,563 --> 00:24:34,198
Now if we go out. Yes. It, if

669
00:24:34,198 --> 00:24:34,916
we go out,

670
00:24:35,555 --> 00:24:37,081
Thing meaning that we get in the car

671
00:24:37,081 --> 00:24:38,752
and and had go go somewhere.

672
00:24:41,776 --> 00:24:43,446
Once we are leaving the house,

673
00:24:45,053 --> 00:24:46,728
Kayla is not allowed to touch door handles?

674
00:24:47,047 --> 00:24:47,287
No.

675
00:24:48,164 --> 00:24:50,158
If I if I am touching door handles

676
00:24:50,158 --> 00:24:51,434
it's because he's told me yeah go ahead.

677
00:24:51,673 --> 00:24:51,753
Right.

678
00:24:52,950 --> 00:24:55,119
When we get in the car she will

679
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,936
ask if I want my sunglasses. Yep. And

680
00:24:58,155 --> 00:24:59,993
if so, you will take them out, give

681
00:24:59,993 --> 00:25:02,231
them me and then put away my Mh.

682
00:25:02,550 --> 00:25:05,745
My regular glass. Is. Mh. When we are

683
00:25:05,745 --> 00:25:06,855
walking in the store,

684
00:25:07,569 --> 00:25:09,235
she is to always be on my right

685
00:25:09,235 --> 00:25:10,028
side. Mh.

686
00:25:10,599 --> 00:25:12,349
Also sleep on your right side. Yes. Or

687
00:25:12,349 --> 00:25:14,497
something about the right side. I know. Because

688
00:25:14,497 --> 00:25:16,248
it's the correct side, my dominant hand.

689
00:25:18,493 --> 00:25:20,808
Everything about 2 is dominant day.

690
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:25,838
When we go to a restaurant, we haven't

691
00:25:25,838 --> 00:25:28,008
done this any long time because we don't

692
00:25:28,008 --> 00:25:29,364
lot to eat as often as we too.

693
00:25:29,523 --> 00:25:30,959
But if we go to a restaurant and

694
00:25:30,959 --> 00:25:31,996
he has coffee,

695
00:25:33,192 --> 00:25:34,866
I put his cream and sugar in. Yeah.

696
00:25:35,345 --> 00:25:37,910
I have had many a server, don't kinda

697
00:25:37,910 --> 00:25:39,819
get you wear hug because they'll put his

698
00:25:39,819 --> 00:25:41,092
coffee in front of him and then I

699
00:25:41,092 --> 00:25:43,240
just pull it to me. Yep. And and

700
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,562
I start doctor it. Start doctor it up.

701
00:25:45,721 --> 00:25:46,756
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

702
00:25:47,790 --> 00:25:50,574
So... Yeah. So... That's the, like, the stuff.

703
00:25:50,733 --> 00:25:52,814
If mh. If I don't do it, like,

704
00:25:53,052 --> 00:25:55,355
I can't I know technically, there's a consequence

705
00:25:55,355 --> 00:25:57,420
if I just don't do it.

706
00:25:59,723 --> 00:26:02,927
But I cannot fathom at this point. It's

707
00:26:02,927 --> 00:26:05,325
been. You you have been doing many years.

708
00:26:05,644 --> 00:26:07,242
You have been doing it now for so

709
00:26:07,242 --> 00:26:10,394
many years. It it is like a a

710
00:26:10,533 --> 00:26:11,971
automatic... It's just a part of the routine.

711
00:26:12,131 --> 00:26:14,049
It... It's just a part of your your

712
00:26:14,049 --> 00:26:15,487
your life routine anymore.

713
00:26:17,738 --> 00:26:19,673
In the beginning, there there was

714
00:26:20,527 --> 00:26:21,244
some punishment,

715
00:26:23,395 --> 00:26:23,953
corner time.

716
00:26:24,591 --> 00:26:27,083
Yeah. Mostly in the beginning, some

717
00:26:27,554 --> 00:26:28,294
some writing

718
00:26:28,752 --> 00:26:29,791
lines. Mh.

719
00:26:31,069 --> 00:26:32,028
But now,

720
00:26:32,986 --> 00:26:34,285
the only times

721
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,480
she may miss doing her tasks,

722
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,680
and that is when I tell her, she

723
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,612
is not to do them. Usually you have

724
00:26:42,612 --> 00:26:44,049
sick or... When when you when you have

725
00:26:44,049 --> 00:26:46,123
a migraine when you, you know, sick for

726
00:26:46,123 --> 00:26:47,559
some reason, and

727
00:26:48,198 --> 00:26:48,996
you know, then it's, like,

728
00:26:49,888 --> 00:26:51,326
no. You're off doing. Right.

729
00:26:52,523 --> 00:26:54,700
Not being better. I don't love it, but

730
00:26:54,918 --> 00:26:56,696
that's the thing. At this point in our

731
00:26:56,755 --> 00:26:58,830
relationship, if I can see a reason for

732
00:26:58,830 --> 00:27:00,684
me not to do a task coming from

733
00:27:00,684 --> 00:27:01,565
a mile away,

734
00:27:02,125 --> 00:27:03,345
and there's

735
00:27:03,724 --> 00:27:04,224
0

736
00:27:04,525 --> 00:27:05,724
discomfort with going, hey,

737
00:27:06,445 --> 00:27:08,579
something is going on or or hey, bio

738
00:27:08,699 --> 00:27:09,818
I'm not even gonna be here. How do

739
00:27:09,818 --> 00:27:11,656
you wanna handle this? Or Mh. You know,

740
00:27:11,895 --> 00:27:13,653
those kinds of things. Is just... We've been

741
00:27:13,653 --> 00:27:14,612
doing it today I'm long.

742
00:27:15,971 --> 00:27:17,581
The best chance sir, for me to get

743
00:27:17,581 --> 00:27:18,399
a consequence

744
00:27:18,774 --> 00:27:20,842
for not doing a task, which still has...

745
00:27:21,478 --> 00:27:23,625
I don't think has happened yet or has

746
00:27:23,625 --> 00:27:25,430
not happened since the very early days

747
00:27:25,869 --> 00:27:28,426
is if you assign, you tell me, I

748
00:27:28,426 --> 00:27:30,823
want you to do this thing and by

749
00:27:30,823 --> 00:27:31,323
some

750
00:27:32,021 --> 00:27:32,421
weird,

751
00:27:32,980 --> 00:27:33,300
like,

752
00:27:33,874 --> 00:27:34,853
time warp

753
00:27:35,231 --> 00:27:36,369
alternate universe

754
00:27:36,987 --> 00:27:39,222
situation, I don't get it done with, again,

755
00:27:39,622 --> 00:27:40,122
without

756
00:27:40,500 --> 00:27:42,496
communicating why I'm not getting it done. We're

757
00:27:42,496 --> 00:27:42,996
just

758
00:27:43,309 --> 00:27:43,788
Like, that's...

759
00:27:44,825 --> 00:27:46,981
Yeah. This those consequences would be in place

760
00:27:46,981 --> 00:27:48,917
if I didn't, but

761
00:27:49,615 --> 00:27:49,934
I mean,

762
00:27:51,690 --> 00:27:53,617
I... Think the last time I faced a

763
00:27:53,617 --> 00:27:56,326
consequence for doing something I wasn't supposed to

764
00:27:56,326 --> 00:27:58,955
or not doing something I was. I think

765
00:27:58,955 --> 00:28:00,332
we were still long distance.

766
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,200
I think we were visiting 1 another.

767
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,600
No. No? Nope.

768
00:28:10,563 --> 00:28:12,946
We were in the apartment. Oh, god. That

769
00:28:12,946 --> 00:28:14,615
was the very first year we looked together.

770
00:28:14,853 --> 00:28:16,942
Yes. Still. That was 20 14.

771
00:28:17,649 --> 00:28:19,490
I was 10 years ago. Yeah. I know.

772
00:28:19,809 --> 00:28:22,210
I know. So at this point in our

773
00:28:22,210 --> 00:28:23,649
power exchange, it just...

774
00:28:24,450 --> 00:28:25,829
I can get consequences,

775
00:28:26,369 --> 00:28:27,921
but it tends to be,

776
00:28:28,294 --> 00:28:30,359
you know, what does that mouth do? Smart

777
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:30,914
off? Okay.

778
00:28:31,708 --> 00:28:34,431
That's what the mouth does more than anything.

779
00:28:35,916 --> 00:28:38,075
Tends this Ass is strong today.

780
00:28:38,949 --> 00:28:40,242
Yeah. That mouth

781
00:28:40,934 --> 00:28:41,807
over steps.

782
00:28:43,077 --> 00:28:44,683
If I'm gonna get a cons for anything

783
00:28:44,683 --> 00:28:45,721
it's gonna be for. It's not gonna be

784
00:28:45,721 --> 00:28:47,237
for actions or lack them no that. No.

785
00:28:47,396 --> 00:28:49,891
She not. She she is very, very good

786
00:28:50,029 --> 00:28:53,480
about doing her... Coincidentally her tasks and and

787
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:53,980
taking

788
00:28:54,359 --> 00:28:55,960
care of the things that have been Mh.

789
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:57,159
Been set for her,

790
00:28:59,493 --> 00:29:01,086
you know, even with this new thing with

791
00:29:01,086 --> 00:29:03,636
us going out walking 3 days in in

792
00:29:03,636 --> 00:29:04,273
in the morning,

793
00:29:06,598 --> 00:29:08,507
Yeah. Today was a hard day. It was

794
00:29:08,507 --> 00:29:10,099
a hard day for her, but she did

795
00:29:10,099 --> 00:29:12,247
it. I was only able to do it

796
00:29:12,247 --> 00:29:13,361
because you were up and moving.

797
00:29:13,934 --> 00:29:16,255
And I realized... I don't know how for

798
00:29:16,255 --> 00:29:18,355
how long that will last. I don't know

799
00:29:18,654 --> 00:29:20,575
when the dopamine will wear off for both

800
00:29:20,575 --> 00:29:22,014
of us. I don't know. I don't know

801
00:29:22,014 --> 00:29:24,026
when that time will happen. But for right

802
00:29:24,026 --> 00:29:25,699
now, if he's up, and I know this

803
00:29:25,699 --> 00:29:27,054
is what we're doing. It's an agreement it's

804
00:29:27,054 --> 00:29:29,865
a thing we negotiated. Mh I'm up. Now

805
00:29:30,321 --> 00:29:33,209
was I grumpy about. Yeah.

806
00:29:33,848 --> 00:29:35,386
Here's here's how

807
00:29:36,003 --> 00:29:38,398
as a submissive, I feel my feelings, but

808
00:29:38,398 --> 00:29:39,915
don't get my ass into trouble.

809
00:29:40,649 --> 00:29:41,549
I'm grumpy,

810
00:29:42,088 --> 00:29:44,485
but I'm quiet about it. And yes, I

811
00:29:44,485 --> 00:29:46,963
am capable of that. Just it's pouch. Is

812
00:29:46,963 --> 00:29:48,321
what I do. I walk, like, about half

813
00:29:48,321 --> 00:29:50,493
a foot behind him on this right. And

814
00:29:50,572 --> 00:29:53,538
I just po. Now, the po got stronger

815
00:29:53,595 --> 00:29:56,538
when he lengthen our walk this morning,

816
00:29:57,429 --> 00:29:59,497
thought we were gonna go home, and he

817
00:29:59,497 --> 00:30:02,680
just kept walking straight. And again, I didn't

818
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,306
say anything. Well, you know that out this

819
00:30:05,306 --> 00:30:08,668
morning was... So strong. I was waiting to

820
00:30:08,668 --> 00:30:11,141
see that bottom lip drag the ground. I

821
00:30:11,141 --> 00:30:13,454
wondered if the sheer force of the pallet

822
00:30:13,454 --> 00:30:15,129
would get you to turn around. I I

823
00:30:15,129 --> 00:30:16,325
didn't know if you were in your own

824
00:30:16,325 --> 00:30:18,009
little old be bop down the street or

825
00:30:18,009 --> 00:30:20,790
if you felt the power of my displeasure

826
00:30:20,790 --> 00:30:22,221
behind. I did. And what did it do?

827
00:30:22,380 --> 00:30:23,889
We walked we walked longer.

828
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,640
World No. I didn't start counting till you

829
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,185
passed our driveway and... No. You were pounding

830
00:30:30,185 --> 00:30:31,855
when we'd left the. No. I was I

831
00:30:31,855 --> 00:30:34,002
was tired. Yeah, but I I wasn't.

832
00:30:34,479 --> 00:30:37,220
No. No. It the... It intensified.

833
00:30:37,594 --> 00:30:39,342
I was a perfectly happy place by the

834
00:30:39,342 --> 00:30:41,249
time I got home. I was, like, I'm

835
00:30:41,249 --> 00:30:43,554
tired, but I'm glad we did this you

836
00:30:43,554 --> 00:30:47,262
know, my... Feet hurt. No No. The actual

837
00:30:47,321 --> 00:30:47,821
po,

838
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,477
the legit... The bottom went was hanging was

839
00:30:51,477 --> 00:30:54,035
when you just went right past our driveway.

840
00:30:54,685 --> 00:30:57,301
And I was like, I add 1 I

841
00:30:57,301 --> 00:30:58,887
had asked myself in my head because again,

842
00:30:59,125 --> 00:31:01,106
I was grumpy, so I knew what I

843
00:31:01,106 --> 00:31:02,867
needed to do... Keep my day and mouth

844
00:31:02,867 --> 00:31:03,026
dry.

845
00:31:04,297 --> 00:31:07,156
I had thought to myself. I wonder if

846
00:31:07,156 --> 00:31:09,856
he's gonna try and make this longer because

847
00:31:09,856 --> 00:31:12,597
we're moving faster through this walk. And

848
00:31:14,488 --> 00:31:15,922
maybe not, maybe you'll just make that a

849
00:31:15,922 --> 00:31:17,675
friday thing. No. It was not this the

850
00:31:17,675 --> 00:31:18,175
friday.

851
00:31:19,204 --> 00:31:20,422
Than with the woman. Mh

852
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,114
Again though, here... Here's the thing. The thing

853
00:31:23,114 --> 00:31:24,311
that will get me in trouble where I

854
00:31:24,311 --> 00:31:27,000
will have consequences is not the things I

855
00:31:27,358 --> 00:31:29,432
and not doing the things I'm supposed to

856
00:31:29,432 --> 00:31:31,107
do, or doing things I'm not supposed to.

857
00:31:31,346 --> 00:31:33,818
That's not it for me. It's this mouth.

858
00:31:34,855 --> 00:31:36,052
The lips flap.

859
00:31:38,543 --> 00:31:40,940
I'm not a fan of that. Okay. Thank

860
00:31:40,940 --> 00:31:41,100
you.

861
00:31:42,379 --> 00:31:44,776
I'll tell you why later. Okay. So,

862
00:31:45,895 --> 00:31:46,055
alright.

863
00:31:46,789 --> 00:31:49,264
But, yeah, like, that that's where consequences has

864
00:31:49,264 --> 00:31:51,580
come in for me. Early days when I

865
00:31:51,580 --> 00:31:53,975
was learning the tasks you wanted me to

866
00:31:53,975 --> 00:31:55,571
do, and I was keeping them straight in

867
00:31:55,571 --> 00:31:57,124
my head until a root teen

868
00:31:57,903 --> 00:32:00,240
formed. Yeah. You were pretty

869
00:32:00,859 --> 00:32:02,717
lenient with me in the beginning. Were very

870
00:32:02,856 --> 00:32:04,864
understanding. I mean, it's to me, it is

871
00:32:04,864 --> 00:32:06,611
kind of the difference between some people would

872
00:32:06,611 --> 00:32:08,359
say soft dom versus hard dump. I mean,

873
00:32:08,439 --> 00:32:10,186
we've had that episode Right y'all know how

874
00:32:10,186 --> 00:32:10,822
I feel. Mh.

875
00:32:11,472 --> 00:32:14,036
For me and my experience, it's the difference

876
00:32:14,092 --> 00:32:16,950
between a care giving dom, whether you use

877
00:32:16,950 --> 00:32:18,379
daddy or mommy or some equivalent.

878
00:32:19,109 --> 00:32:19,609
And

879
00:32:20,143 --> 00:32:22,632
not care giving dom because you are

880
00:32:23,086 --> 00:32:23,586
extremely

881
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:24,700
understanding

882
00:32:25,234 --> 00:32:25,734
of

883
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,982
everything else going on. So you watch me,

884
00:32:29,538 --> 00:32:31,205
and I feel like the only time there

885
00:32:31,205 --> 00:32:32,022
was a consequence

886
00:32:32,395 --> 00:32:34,380
for forgetting to do something in those early

887
00:32:34,380 --> 00:32:34,618
days,

888
00:32:35,507 --> 00:32:37,572
was if I really needed to learn the

889
00:32:37,572 --> 00:32:39,797
lesson because I had just forgotten 1 time

890
00:32:39,797 --> 00:32:41,783
too many, and you were like, okay, this

891
00:32:41,783 --> 00:32:43,395
is the only way this is gonna stick

892
00:32:44,737 --> 00:32:46,724
or if it appeared to be will. Like

893
00:32:46,803 --> 00:32:48,393
Right. While I was trying to learn a

894
00:32:48,393 --> 00:32:51,508
routine, you were not punishing me because I

895
00:32:51,508 --> 00:32:53,421
was brand new to a thing. Like, Don't

896
00:32:53,421 --> 00:32:55,493
know were you ever gonna do that. It

897
00:32:55,493 --> 00:32:57,486
didn't seem. You know, there to me, at

898
00:32:57,486 --> 00:32:59,341
least there's... There should be

899
00:32:59,974 --> 00:33:00,775
you know, a...

900
00:33:03,095 --> 00:33:05,494
I guess, like, training period? Yeah. Exactly. Yeah.

901
00:33:05,894 --> 00:33:07,575
Exactly. And as long as I was giving

902
00:33:07,575 --> 00:33:09,345
it a good faith effort. I think you...

903
00:33:09,584 --> 00:33:11,178
There was no no world in which there

904
00:33:11,178 --> 00:33:13,410
was gonna be a consequence. No. No. For

905
00:33:13,410 --> 00:33:15,403
the growing pains of learning. If you were,

906
00:33:15,482 --> 00:33:15,801
you know,

907
00:33:16,454 --> 00:33:17,890
hadn't been putting in an effort, and you

908
00:33:17,890 --> 00:33:20,124
were just s off and out have been

909
00:33:20,124 --> 00:33:23,236
a different story. Right. But, there's not... No.

910
00:33:23,968 --> 00:33:26,116
I have that ability to just, like, dick

911
00:33:26,116 --> 00:33:28,184
around for lack of a... I couldn't think

912
00:33:28,184 --> 00:33:29,536
of another word, but that's the only in

913
00:33:29,536 --> 00:33:29,854
my now.

914
00:33:30,824 --> 00:33:33,048
I have that ability, but when I feel

915
00:33:33,048 --> 00:33:34,422
like something is my responsibility

916
00:33:34,796 --> 00:33:36,568
and or I know there will be consequences,

917
00:33:36,862 --> 00:33:37,521
I just

918
00:33:38,054 --> 00:33:39,007
I just mostly don't.

919
00:33:40,055 --> 00:33:42,439
Okay. We have 1 last question from Instagram.

920
00:33:42,597 --> 00:33:44,345
Okay. So what I'm gonna I'm gonna pause

921
00:33:44,345 --> 00:33:44,583
here.

922
00:33:45,378 --> 00:33:47,364
Live stream folks. If you are watching live

923
00:33:47,364 --> 00:33:48,972
and you have x us to the live

924
00:33:48,972 --> 00:33:49,212
chat.

925
00:33:49,850 --> 00:33:51,287
This would be the time now. If you

926
00:33:51,287 --> 00:33:52,724
have a question, you can ask us anything

927
00:33:52,724 --> 00:33:54,799
about us, you can ask us anything about

928
00:33:54,879 --> 00:33:56,795
Kin Bd and Power change. That's fine.

929
00:33:57,369 --> 00:33:59,766
Couple of things. Please tag us in the

930
00:33:59,766 --> 00:34:01,444
question, we will not see it. Once this

931
00:34:01,444 --> 00:34:03,043
chat gets going. It will light up a

932
00:34:03,043 --> 00:34:05,360
you tag us at loving Bd. It'll light

933
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,208
up. Too. If it requires a lot of

934
00:34:07,208 --> 00:34:08,345
context and backstory.

935
00:34:09,279 --> 00:34:10,553
Okay. This won't be the form for that.

936
00:34:10,713 --> 00:34:12,487
Use that link in our description

937
00:34:12,863 --> 00:34:14,536
box so we can make a whole last

938
00:34:14,536 --> 00:34:16,697
episode about it. But while we're answering this

939
00:34:16,697 --> 00:34:18,367
last question, if you have any questions,

940
00:34:18,844 --> 00:34:21,150
and you're watching the live stream, feel free

941
00:34:21,150 --> 00:34:23,710
to go ahead and ask. Okay. Last question

942
00:34:23,710 --> 00:34:24,427
from Instagram.

943
00:34:25,302 --> 00:34:27,155
What is your opinion on

944
00:34:27,690 --> 00:34:28,906
stealth slash

945
00:34:29,282 --> 00:34:32,147
discreet play either at home or public?

946
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:34,880
And then they say congrats on the milestone.

947
00:34:35,199 --> 00:34:36,159
Thank no. Thank you.

948
00:34:37,839 --> 00:34:40,054
The discreet play of, like, you're getting your

949
00:34:40,174 --> 00:34:42,092
King kong, but nobody fucking know your Okay.

950
00:34:42,651 --> 00:34:43,850
That's how I take it. If it means

951
00:34:43,850 --> 00:34:46,247
don't know. Sorry. What educate me? Okay. Read

952
00:34:46,247 --> 00:34:48,165
the question again. What is your opinion on

953
00:34:48,165 --> 00:34:51,539
stealth slash discreet play either at home or.

954
00:34:53,059 --> 00:34:55,460
As far is at home. Our entire power

955
00:34:55,460 --> 00:34:56,693
exchanges stealth

956
00:34:57,068 --> 00:34:58,022
pretty much. Yeah.

957
00:34:58,658 --> 00:34:58,976
You know,

958
00:35:01,601 --> 00:35:03,986
you do you. You know, if if if

959
00:35:03,986 --> 00:35:06,151
it for you is doing it at home.

960
00:35:07,425 --> 00:35:09,337
You know what? Your your just is kinky

961
00:35:09,337 --> 00:35:11,487
anybody else. And quite frankly, if you have

962
00:35:11,487 --> 00:35:13,810
kids, you kinda have to be. Yeah. As

963
00:35:13,810 --> 00:35:16,034
discreet as possible Right. If you don't want

964
00:35:16,034 --> 00:35:17,782
them up open and your be... Sure. Now

965
00:35:17,782 --> 00:35:20,005
now in, you know, about the public thing,

966
00:35:21,927 --> 00:35:23,700
The public thing, I'm I'm a little

967
00:35:24,632 --> 00:35:26,382
little torn about. I mean, there are people

968
00:35:26,382 --> 00:35:27,813
who do some play in public.

969
00:35:28,624 --> 00:35:30,294
And there are ways to be And and

970
00:35:30,294 --> 00:35:32,044
and there are ways to be discrete about

971
00:35:32,044 --> 00:35:34,033
it, You know, But the thing you really

972
00:35:34,033 --> 00:35:34,590
have to,

973
00:35:35,639 --> 00:35:37,708
you know, think about, especially when you're in

974
00:35:37,708 --> 00:35:38,026
public,

975
00:35:39,140 --> 00:35:40,890
the other folks out there in public did

976
00:35:40,890 --> 00:35:43,515
not consent. Right. It's, you know, it's 1

977
00:35:43,515 --> 00:35:45,838
of those things that Well, to me at

978
00:35:45,838 --> 00:35:47,828
least, before you go play in public as

979
00:35:47,828 --> 00:35:50,772
discreet as can, you have to think through

980
00:35:50,772 --> 00:35:53,001
it and then decide how... You know, what

981
00:35:53,001 --> 00:35:54,844
you're gonna do if you get found out

982
00:35:54,844 --> 00:35:57,147
because a couple of things. 1, you might

983
00:35:57,147 --> 00:35:58,576
get found out and now your banned from

984
00:35:58,576 --> 00:35:59,211
that restaurant.

985
00:36:00,084 --> 00:36:02,069
Your boss was sitting 2 tables over, but

986
00:36:02,069 --> 00:36:02,942
you didn't see them.

987
00:36:03,992 --> 00:36:05,210
Right. Your kids

988
00:36:05,746 --> 00:36:07,820
teacher is in the... Like, who the fuck

989
00:36:07,820 --> 00:36:09,436
no. So there's gonna be consequences

990
00:36:10,212 --> 00:36:12,206
some of the times. Right. If your private

991
00:36:12,206 --> 00:36:15,414
play in public? Book known. So can you

992
00:36:15,414 --> 00:36:17,889
handle those too? Are you taking the precautions

993
00:36:17,889 --> 00:36:19,804
so that that discreet play is really discreet?

994
00:36:20,284 --> 00:36:21,721
I have early days.

995
00:36:22,454 --> 00:36:25,006
10 plus years ago, Bend the person. I

996
00:36:25,006 --> 00:36:27,558
think with you and with another partner who

997
00:36:27,558 --> 00:36:28,994
absolutely was wearing the viper,

998
00:36:29,393 --> 00:36:30,270
yeah, public.

999
00:36:32,679 --> 00:36:35,016
That was not the time to play

1000
00:36:35,475 --> 00:36:38,351
with the high powered vi that was guaranteed

1001
00:36:38,351 --> 00:36:40,602
to have me screaming in an ga.

1002
00:36:42,592 --> 00:36:44,820
That I could not control because then that

1003
00:36:44,820 --> 00:36:47,605
play is no longer discreet. Right. It's very

1004
00:36:47,605 --> 00:36:49,928
public. It was more of a o this

1005
00:36:49,928 --> 00:36:51,922
could get you there. And if it gets

1006
00:36:51,922 --> 00:36:52,560
you there,

1007
00:36:53,438 --> 00:36:55,112
you know, it's gonna be a... It's not

1008
00:36:55,112 --> 00:36:57,665
gonna be the forceful, like, power of the

1009
00:36:57,665 --> 00:36:59,993
magic wand, get you there. It's more like

1010
00:36:59,993 --> 00:37:02,545
the slow burn slow bill. And it's your

1011
00:37:02,545 --> 00:37:03,103
job to, like,

1012
00:37:04,299 --> 00:37:05,836
not make it obvious

1013
00:37:06,452 --> 00:37:08,739
everybody else. That was a fun form of

1014
00:37:08,859 --> 00:37:12,436
play because if I absolutely had to,

1015
00:37:13,787 --> 00:37:15,536
I could, you know, pretend at a stomach

1016
00:37:15,854 --> 00:37:17,380
I could pretend... I wouldn't be screaming. You

1017
00:37:17,380 --> 00:37:18,972
know what I mean? Mh. I wouldn't be,

1018
00:37:19,051 --> 00:37:20,506
like making my

1019
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:21,836
pants wet.

1020
00:37:23,666 --> 00:37:25,754
I'm Like, and wasn't that kind of thing.

1021
00:37:28,546 --> 00:37:30,541
But, I mean, in in general,

1022
00:37:31,431 --> 00:37:33,097
I'm... I'm kind of a... You do you

1023
00:37:33,097 --> 00:37:35,635
wherever, but I agree with you. Mh.

1024
00:37:36,111 --> 00:37:38,253
Be very... My opinion is to be very

1025
00:37:38,253 --> 00:37:38,887
careful of...

1026
00:37:39,538 --> 00:37:43,067
Private play in public because, yeah. It's... And

1027
00:37:43,284 --> 00:37:44,877
there's there's a... There can be a fine

1028
00:37:44,877 --> 00:37:47,442
line. Yeah. Because quite frankly, I mean, I've

1029
00:37:47,442 --> 00:37:48,878
we've seen the articles. We've talked out the

1030
00:37:48,878 --> 00:37:50,791
articles in the past of, you know,

1031
00:37:52,943 --> 00:37:55,746
dumb walks their partner in... I on a

1032
00:37:55,746 --> 00:37:58,125
leash to the grocery store. Okay. The grocery

1033
00:37:58,125 --> 00:38:00,106
store to me would be a no because

1034
00:38:00,106 --> 00:38:01,930
they're gonna be kids there. Now,

1035
00:38:02,723 --> 00:38:04,483
I'm not on saying, oh, no. What about

1036
00:38:04,483 --> 00:38:06,704
the children? They couldn't handle, you know, They'd

1037
00:38:06,704 --> 00:38:08,528
probably be like, oh, are they playing a

1038
00:38:08,528 --> 00:38:10,352
pretend game? You can, like,

1039
00:38:11,399 --> 00:38:12,754
That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking

1040
00:38:12,754 --> 00:38:15,065
about from a Kingston perspective. If I don't

1041
00:38:15,065 --> 00:38:17,217
let my own fucking kids see it. I'm

1042
00:38:17,217 --> 00:38:19,130
not gonna let some strangers kids see it.

1043
00:38:19,860 --> 00:38:21,844
Regardless of what I think about, you know,

1044
00:38:22,161 --> 00:38:22,557
mh.

1045
00:38:23,668 --> 00:38:25,573
You know, think of the children and bullshit

1046
00:38:25,573 --> 00:38:27,318
like that. So like, those are the kinds

1047
00:38:27,318 --> 00:38:29,724
of things, I'm thinking of. There will absolutely

1048
00:38:29,724 --> 00:38:31,478
be people who go, I can do whatever

1049
00:38:31,558 --> 00:38:34,349
I want. Yes. You can. Mh. And there

1050
00:38:34,349 --> 00:38:35,328
might be consequences

1051
00:38:35,706 --> 00:38:37,755
for that. So be prepared to pay the

1052
00:38:37,954 --> 00:38:38,275
cleansers.

1053
00:38:38,835 --> 00:38:41,154
I don't wanna get banned from Walmart or

1054
00:38:41,154 --> 00:38:43,634
target or all these. So I won't be

1055
00:38:43,634 --> 00:38:46,034
playing there in an obvious way.

1056
00:38:46,835 --> 00:38:47,727
So right.

1057
00:38:51,467 --> 00:38:51,706
Yeah.

1058
00:38:52,900 --> 00:38:54,650
I think it's a sticky 1. I think

1059
00:38:54,809 --> 00:38:55,605
I think at home,

1060
00:38:57,290 --> 00:38:57,687
you know,

1061
00:38:58,959 --> 00:38:59,697
you have

1062
00:39:00,230 --> 00:39:00,548
adults,

1063
00:39:01,502 --> 00:39:01,820
you know,

1064
00:39:02,535 --> 00:39:05,078
non kinky friends or family over. Mh. You

1065
00:39:05,078 --> 00:39:07,083
gotta be just street. You got kids. You

1066
00:39:07,083 --> 00:39:07,960
gotta be discreet.

1067
00:39:09,473 --> 00:39:10,827
You know? I mean, a lot a lot

1068
00:39:10,827 --> 00:39:12,818
of us a lot of the normal that

1069
00:39:12,898 --> 00:39:14,092
Kayla does for me.

1070
00:39:14,984 --> 00:39:17,378
Are things that she can do even when

1071
00:39:17,378 --> 00:39:18,416
there's family around.

1072
00:39:19,134 --> 00:39:21,390
Oh, yeah. All those tasks I list around

1073
00:39:21,449 --> 00:39:22,805
previously... Mh. I mean,

1074
00:39:23,619 --> 00:39:25,376
Other than the ones that definitely only have

1075
00:39:25,376 --> 00:39:26,096
behind closed doors,

1076
00:39:27,853 --> 00:39:28,353
nobody

1077
00:39:29,291 --> 00:39:31,144
is gonna clock it unless they know us

1078
00:39:31,144 --> 00:39:33,222
and had that conversation with them. We did

1079
00:39:33,222 --> 00:39:36,179
that own purpose because we moved in together,

1080
00:39:36,658 --> 00:39:38,117
and the boys were

1081
00:39:38,656 --> 00:39:39,795
was 20 14

1082
00:39:41,461 --> 00:39:41,961
So

1083
00:39:42,893 --> 00:39:45,278
when we moved in together, the oldest was

1084
00:39:45,278 --> 00:39:45,676
9,

1085
00:39:46,710 --> 00:39:48,323
and his brother was

1086
00:39:49,175 --> 00:39:49,652
no.

1087
00:39:51,179 --> 00:39:53,487
4 and 8. Yeah. I don't know how

1088
00:39:53,487 --> 00:39:56,273
time works anymore. Yeah. Because he was he

1089
00:39:56,273 --> 00:39:57,967
was still when we first

1090
00:39:58,342 --> 00:39:58,900
moved there,

1091
00:40:02,176 --> 00:40:03,925
He was going... Well, that was during the

1092
00:40:03,925 --> 00:40:06,072
summer, but he was in the... The youngest

1093
00:40:06,072 --> 00:40:08,776
was in k. He was he was in

1094
00:40:08,776 --> 00:40:09,864
pre k when we were in

1095
00:40:10,460 --> 00:40:10,698
the

1096
00:40:12,683 --> 00:40:14,510
in the apartment. When we first moved in

1097
00:40:14,510 --> 00:40:16,257
together. So that's my whole point. We moved

1098
00:40:16,257 --> 00:40:18,498
in together and wanted to be A47

1099
00:40:18,578 --> 00:40:19,615
Power exchange couple.

1100
00:40:20,334 --> 00:40:23,068
And had 2 young kids running around who

1101
00:40:23,207 --> 00:40:25,601
were fully gonna ask fucking questions and they

1102
00:40:25,601 --> 00:40:27,767
saw something. Oh, yeah. So we designed our

1103
00:40:27,767 --> 00:40:30,472
entire power exchange around what could we do

1104
00:40:30,472 --> 00:40:32,858
that was meaningful to us that nobody would

1105
00:40:32,858 --> 00:40:33,097
clock.

1106
00:40:34,069 --> 00:40:35,507
It's why I get strange looks if I

1107
00:40:35,507 --> 00:40:37,584
start fixing this worth coffee because people don't

1108
00:40:37,584 --> 00:40:39,502
expect that, and there I am doing it.

1109
00:40:39,901 --> 00:40:41,040
The kinks side

1110
00:40:41,751 --> 00:40:44,478
the actual fucker. We got very, very lucky

1111
00:40:44,694 --> 00:40:48,090
that in their young years, the kids slept

1112
00:40:48,765 --> 00:40:52,025
hard. Light past out early and hard. Yes.

1113
00:40:52,342 --> 00:40:54,092
Yeah. And slept through the fucking night. Mh.

1114
00:40:54,251 --> 00:40:55,974
I mean, we we still had to be

1115
00:40:56,095 --> 00:40:57,934
quiet. We had to be aware. I mean,

1116
00:40:58,015 --> 00:41:00,095
the nice thing even. Even with the condo,

1117
00:41:00,894 --> 00:41:02,255
you know, 1 of the things we look

1118
00:41:02,255 --> 00:41:03,775
for and we when we bought the place

1119
00:41:03,775 --> 00:41:06,429
and even here was split plan. Mh. You

1120
00:41:06,429 --> 00:41:08,426
know, So the boys were run. And part

1121
00:41:08,426 --> 00:41:10,503
of the search process is 1 of us

1122
00:41:10,503 --> 00:41:12,341
in in the bedroom making as much noise

1123
00:41:12,341 --> 00:41:14,432
as we think we might. And when It

1124
00:41:14,432 --> 00:41:15,948
was in another room going, can I hear

1125
00:41:15,948 --> 00:41:17,305
that? If I hear that do I know

1126
00:41:17,305 --> 00:41:17,864
what I hear?

1127
00:41:18,821 --> 00:41:20,657
Oh, yes. That is part of the the

1128
00:41:20,657 --> 00:41:21,157
property

1129
00:41:22,266 --> 00:41:24,492
owning or renting process and when you have

1130
00:41:24,492 --> 00:41:26,719
choices. Like, I gotta know what can be

1131
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:28,548
heard and what can't. In this house, it's

1132
00:41:28,548 --> 00:41:31,252
a true split. We are completely across the

1133
00:41:31,252 --> 00:41:33,978
way. And up until recently, we had some

1134
00:41:33,978 --> 00:41:35,516
stuff around our door

1135
00:41:35,973 --> 00:41:38,925
that, like, kept out all sound. We could

1136
00:41:38,925 --> 00:41:41,251
do almost anything. I couldn't scream like that

1137
00:41:41,251 --> 00:41:43,243
would be the thing I couldn't do. But,

1138
00:41:43,402 --> 00:41:45,474
you know, I mean, I don't even... My

1139
00:41:45,474 --> 00:41:47,465
brain can't even fathom them when we don't

1140
00:41:47,465 --> 00:41:49,793
have to be discreet. Right. Like, it's just

1141
00:41:49,793 --> 00:41:52,270
it's been too long with having to be.

1142
00:41:52,749 --> 00:41:53,808
But we just

1143
00:41:55,146 --> 00:41:58,350
made our... A kin relationship that discreet from

1144
00:41:58,350 --> 00:41:59,943
the very beginning. So now we can go

1145
00:41:59,943 --> 00:42:02,175
out in public and we're being power exchange

1146
00:42:02,175 --> 00:42:05,782
you, but nobody knows. Mh. Yep. Yep. So

1147
00:42:06,491 --> 00:42:06,889
Yeah.

1148
00:42:09,195 --> 00:42:09,592
Yeah.

1149
00:42:10,308 --> 00:42:12,853
Okay. So what I'm learning is summer q

1150
00:42:12,853 --> 00:42:13,512
and A's

1151
00:42:14,125 --> 00:42:15,715
are not the thing. Are not the thing

1152
00:42:15,715 --> 00:42:17,320
it's great client. But thank you all for

1153
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:18,751
the questions we got. Yep.

1154
00:42:21,215 --> 00:42:23,442
Mister Bot mentioned in the live chat, folks

1155
00:42:23,442 --> 00:42:25,324
seem to forget that freedom of speech slash

1156
00:42:25,443 --> 00:42:28,062
action doesn't mean freedom from consequences. True. Dude

1157
00:42:28,062 --> 00:42:30,387
seem to get real surprised when there's consequences.

1158
00:42:31,712 --> 00:42:33,393
Not to get too the weeds, but here.

1159
00:42:33,710 --> 00:42:35,852
I'm I'm having a little drinking drink, and

1160
00:42:35,931 --> 00:42:37,201
I feel no pain right now.

1161
00:42:39,025 --> 00:42:42,232
Freedom and of speech is the government not

1162
00:42:42,232 --> 00:42:43,910
being allowed to tell you what to say.

1163
00:42:44,630 --> 00:42:46,308
Anybody else gets to say whatever the fuck

1164
00:42:46,308 --> 00:42:48,545
they want in response to you saying whatever

1165
00:42:48,545 --> 00:42:50,795
the fuck you want. So a business can

1166
00:42:50,795 --> 00:42:53,130
tell you you can't be in their establishment

1167
00:42:53,985 --> 00:42:54,863
because you, you know,

1168
00:42:55,581 --> 00:42:56,937
express yourself. Mh.

1169
00:42:58,054 --> 00:42:59,983
A website can tell you you can't be

1170
00:42:59,983 --> 00:43:02,456
there because you expressed yourself. And I know

1171
00:43:02,456 --> 00:43:04,451
that because how many platforms have we been

1172
00:43:04,451 --> 00:43:05,169
kicked off of.

1173
00:43:06,126 --> 00:43:08,860
First of sex and then with podcasting, Like

1174
00:43:08,860 --> 00:43:11,660
plenty of online businesses have full freedom to

1175
00:43:11,660 --> 00:43:13,579
tell you you can't. Have that speech.

1176
00:43:14,472 --> 00:43:17,171
Platform, and that speech is, please communicate with

1177
00:43:17,171 --> 00:43:17,909
your partner

1178
00:43:18,599 --> 00:43:21,139
when you're in a Power exchange. So, yeah.

1179
00:43:21,869 --> 00:43:23,385
But, you know, it... It's funny.

1180
00:43:24,422 --> 00:43:26,438
You know, that you say that because

1181
00:43:26,816 --> 00:43:28,433
I I have noticed

1182
00:43:30,179 --> 00:43:31,850
so much for... And... And I'm I'm not

1183
00:43:31,850 --> 00:43:33,918
gonna say the the social media platform,

1184
00:43:34,555 --> 00:43:35,987
but it's 1 that I am on,

1185
00:43:36,703 --> 00:43:37,419
more than most.

1186
00:43:38,548 --> 00:43:39,048
And,

1187
00:43:39,505 --> 00:43:39,903
you know,

1188
00:43:41,258 --> 00:43:42,635
we are on that platform

1189
00:43:43,092 --> 00:43:45,323
in a number of different ways. Mh. Okay.

1190
00:43:45,802 --> 00:43:49,028
Between Loving Bd and between the can between

1191
00:43:49,166 --> 00:43:52,436
personal pages between, you know... Or vanilla shop

1192
00:43:52,436 --> 00:43:54,908
page Vanilla shop page blah blah blah blah

1193
00:43:54,908 --> 00:43:55,546
blah blah blah.

1194
00:43:56,359 --> 00:43:59,735
And, you know, they they are so opposed

1195
00:44:00,354 --> 00:44:00,854
to

1196
00:44:01,793 --> 00:44:03,630
any sex educators, You know, I have to

1197
00:44:03,630 --> 00:44:06,702
be So careful how... What you say is?

1198
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:08,598
Lord jesus. Okay.

1199
00:44:10,436 --> 00:44:10,755
You know,

1200
00:44:11,409 --> 00:44:13,503
even even with our our

1201
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:15,416
toy business, we have to

1202
00:44:15,952 --> 00:44:18,583
be careful with certain things. Oh, yeah. Alright.

1203
00:44:18,981 --> 00:44:19,220
Yet.

1204
00:44:20,111 --> 00:44:21,544
Yet on that platform.

1205
00:44:22,739 --> 00:44:23,955
I am inundated

1206
00:44:24,808 --> 00:44:26,025
with advertisements

1207
00:44:28,006 --> 00:44:31,418
for e electoral dysfunction. Yes. Because they rewrote

1208
00:44:31,418 --> 00:44:33,164
the rules so that was considered sexual health,

1209
00:44:33,322 --> 00:44:35,623
And it is sexual health. It is. Okay.

1210
00:44:36,671 --> 00:44:37,149
However,

1211
00:44:37,706 --> 00:44:39,400
I I get

1212
00:44:41,048 --> 00:44:41,946
actual ads

1213
00:44:42,322 --> 00:44:45,027
because it says sponsored. Yeah Yeah. Off, 6

1214
00:44:45,027 --> 00:44:45,266
toys.

1215
00:44:46,158 --> 00:44:48,313
That's a new thing. Yeah. That's a very

1216
00:44:48,313 --> 00:44:51,106
new thing. I'm thinking that the the platform

1217
00:44:51,106 --> 00:44:53,420
needed money and realize that the sex people

1218
00:44:53,420 --> 00:44:54,313
have has money.

1219
00:44:55,271 --> 00:44:55,431
Okay.

1220
00:44:56,628 --> 00:44:57,128
And

1221
00:45:00,939 --> 00:45:01,439
inundated

1222
00:45:01,896 --> 00:45:02,796
wit stuff

1223
00:45:03,424 --> 00:45:05,009
regarding hemp and flour.

1224
00:45:05,564 --> 00:45:07,148
Oh, I bet you are. Okay.

1225
00:45:08,257 --> 00:45:08,812
And yet,

1226
00:45:10,334 --> 00:45:11,133
I know. You know?

1227
00:45:12,332 --> 00:45:14,410
I know so... And, yeah, the reason we

1228
00:45:14,410 --> 00:45:16,967
do not have a living bd Tiktok account

1229
00:45:16,967 --> 00:45:19,218
is because you say 1 wrong word, and

1230
00:45:19,218 --> 00:45:20,276
they you're you

1231
00:45:20,652 --> 00:45:23,463
Yeah. Do not have the patients to create

1232
00:45:23,681 --> 00:45:25,911
accounts. Mh. And get booted and have to

1233
00:45:25,911 --> 00:45:28,579
do it again. Y'all. It's been

1234
00:45:30,231 --> 00:45:32,702
8 or 9 years, and I'm still pissed

1235
00:45:32,702 --> 00:45:34,536
about the fucking Instagram handle. Okay?

1236
00:45:35,265 --> 00:45:37,884
No. No. I do not have it in

1237
00:45:37,884 --> 00:45:38,384
me

1238
00:45:39,311 --> 00:45:39,629
to

1239
00:45:40,581 --> 00:45:42,802
get booted off a damn platform multiple times.

1240
00:45:43,375 --> 00:45:44,894
You know, I have people who ask us

1241
00:45:44,894 --> 00:45:46,414
all the time, little things like,

1242
00:45:47,375 --> 00:45:49,135
you know, do you have a do you

1243
00:45:49,135 --> 00:45:50,335
have a thing where I can just send

1244
00:45:50,335 --> 00:45:50,494
you...

1245
00:45:51,869 --> 00:45:52,905
I think it's called coffee.

1246
00:45:53,543 --> 00:45:54,820
I always said c fired. I didn't know

1247
00:45:54,820 --> 00:45:56,255
they were trying to say coffee. Like, buy

1248
00:45:56,255 --> 00:45:57,611
me at coffee or or 1 of those

1249
00:45:57,611 --> 00:45:59,286
kinds of things come Don't know. They booted

1250
00:45:59,286 --> 00:46:00,961
us 8 years ago. I think it was

1251
00:46:00,961 --> 00:46:02,735
yeah. I remember now they san fucking name.

1252
00:46:03,215 --> 00:46:04,494
There's 2. There's a buy me a coffee,

1253
00:46:04,655 --> 00:46:06,335
and then there's the other 1. Right. Both

1254
00:46:06,335 --> 00:46:08,974
booted us. We weren't. That's true. That's selling

1255
00:46:09,704 --> 00:46:12,585
Sexual services or fake. Not that there's anything

1256
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:13,592
fucking wrong with that.

1257
00:46:14,306 --> 00:46:16,369
We were just... We had a little button

1258
00:46:16,369 --> 00:46:18,211
on our site. You people who wanted to,

1259
00:46:18,291 --> 00:46:19,985
like, a 1 time support

1260
00:46:20,361 --> 00:46:20,600
situation.

1261
00:46:22,351 --> 00:46:24,661
I jumped through all of Patreon tubes. I

1262
00:46:24,661 --> 00:46:26,590
mean, I don't blink. Like, people I don't...

1263
00:46:27,150 --> 00:46:29,309
I I like the fact that we talk

1264
00:46:29,309 --> 00:46:29,809
about

1265
00:46:31,150 --> 00:46:31,650
the

1266
00:46:32,110 --> 00:46:34,925
communication and the nuance... Of the relationship side

1267
00:46:34,925 --> 00:46:37,164
of Power exchange. That's where I want to

1268
00:46:37,164 --> 00:46:38,784
play. Mh. But

1269
00:46:39,324 --> 00:46:41,885
I also know that there's... We tried on

1270
00:46:41,885 --> 00:46:43,280
our patreon since do

1271
00:46:43,980 --> 00:46:48,219
fully closed, like, demos and Mh. Like, really

1272
00:46:48,380 --> 00:46:48,880
Pg

1273
00:46:49,260 --> 00:46:49,760
13

1274
00:46:50,553 --> 00:46:54,300
And they who not... Nope And patreon unchanged

1275
00:46:54,300 --> 00:46:55,815
its rules and I went. I'm I'm not

1276
00:46:55,815 --> 00:46:57,648
even gonna try and navigate that part, but

1277
00:46:57,728 --> 00:46:58,765
I'll play by the rest of their role.

1278
00:46:59,258 --> 00:47:01,992
So... So you know, signs in is

1279
00:47:02,608 --> 00:47:04,283
is she on the wrong platform.

1280
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,974
I'm... I I just fell into the dark

1281
00:47:08,112 --> 00:47:08,804
side of the

1282
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:13,090
black. I think it's because all the apps

1283
00:47:13,626 --> 00:47:16,576
and the devices talk to 1 another. Yeah.

1284
00:47:17,069 --> 00:47:18,667
And I know what your search history.

1285
00:47:19,386 --> 00:47:20,425
I know you do. Yeah.

1286
00:47:21,223 --> 00:47:24,273
Yeah. Yeah. But, yeah, like, I just... I

1287
00:47:24,273 --> 00:47:27,301
mean, talk about 400 episodes, thinks shit we've

1288
00:47:27,301 --> 00:47:28,496
seen shit.

1289
00:47:29,293 --> 00:47:29,771
You know?

1290
00:47:30,806 --> 00:47:33,367
We I can't try... And I can't add

1291
00:47:33,367 --> 00:47:36,947
a new thing to podcast to Youtube to

1292
00:47:36,947 --> 00:47:37,742
our website.

1293
00:47:38,314 --> 00:47:39,211
To Patreon

1294
00:47:39,663 --> 00:47:42,203
without reading the all the fine print of

1295
00:47:42,203 --> 00:47:43,631
the terms of service to go, okay. What

1296
00:47:43,631 --> 00:47:45,932
are the what are the chances we'll get

1297
00:47:45,932 --> 00:47:47,378
kicked off of this to the 1 at

1298
00:47:47,378 --> 00:47:48,096
at some point.

1299
00:47:49,054 --> 00:47:51,846
Yeah. Yeah. And we purposely make our content.

1300
00:47:52,005 --> 00:47:53,601
So it's it's all of it even in

1301
00:47:53,601 --> 00:47:55,369
the shop even the King is pg g

1302
00:47:55,369 --> 00:47:56,644
13. Yeah. It's

1303
00:47:57,759 --> 00:47:59,113
it's a balancing act. Mh.

1304
00:47:59,671 --> 00:48:02,140
Mh Mh. It's like walking a high.

1305
00:48:03,017 --> 00:48:03,906
So the Yep.

1306
00:48:05,571 --> 00:48:06,840
But... Yeah. So that's...

1307
00:48:07,632 --> 00:48:09,773
That's our q and A. That's our celebration

1308
00:48:09,773 --> 00:48:10,669
of 400.

1309
00:48:14,154 --> 00:48:15,822
I don't wanna say it's anti anticlimactic because

1310
00:48:15,901 --> 00:48:17,331
I am happy for the people who are

1311
00:48:17,331 --> 00:48:18,523
here and the people who are,

1312
00:48:19,953 --> 00:48:20,906
participated. Man,

1313
00:48:21,557 --> 00:48:24,502
middle of the summer the time Yeah. I

1314
00:48:24,820 --> 00:48:26,969
We know from personal experience of doing this

1315
00:48:26,969 --> 00:48:28,663
for all these years and

1316
00:48:29,053 --> 00:48:30,801
blogger for longer than that, and then the

1317
00:48:30,801 --> 00:48:32,788
shop for hell long with it. The summer

1318
00:48:32,788 --> 00:48:34,377
is on everything guys. People got shit to

1319
00:48:34,377 --> 00:48:37,411
do. Right. That's fine. We're Hey. That's bother.

1320
00:48:37,809 --> 00:48:40,374
Kids out of school. People travel, people know

1321
00:48:40,589 --> 00:48:43,528
house. Yeah. Well, okay. Is that... We're the

1322
00:48:43,528 --> 00:48:44,481
odd? Okay.

1323
00:48:45,686 --> 00:48:47,454
But normal people are,

1324
00:48:48,065 --> 00:48:49,492
you know, the kids are at of school

1325
00:48:49,492 --> 00:48:51,553
seem to be normal. Yeah. No. You know,

1326
00:48:51,711 --> 00:48:51,870
They're...

1327
00:48:52,679 --> 00:48:54,591
Kids are out of school. They're traveling. They're

1328
00:48:54,591 --> 00:48:56,583
they're, you know, doing things. So, you know,

1329
00:48:56,662 --> 00:48:58,415
yeah. I don't blame them. Mh.

1330
00:48:59,052 --> 00:48:59,451
You know,

1331
00:49:00,421 --> 00:49:02,411
wasn't hotter than surface of the sun round

1332
00:49:02,411 --> 00:49:03,765
here. I would go out and do things

1333
00:49:03,765 --> 00:49:04,003
too.

1334
00:49:05,436 --> 00:49:06,391
Yeah. I know. Right.

1335
00:49:08,713 --> 00:49:10,143
I don't know. Silent asked if for sure

1336
00:49:10,143 --> 00:49:11,573
it's not the evening time slot.

1337
00:49:12,527 --> 00:49:14,377
It's hard to say. Our numbers

1338
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:16,936
our equivalent

1339
00:49:17,868 --> 00:49:20,811
midday to evening. Mh. Not necessarily watching live,

1340
00:49:21,050 --> 00:49:21,550
but

1341
00:49:22,974 --> 00:49:25,680
Yeah. Overall. Mh. So, I don't know. Time

1342
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:26,953
change might has something to do with it.

1343
00:49:27,112 --> 00:49:27,669
Like, I'm not...

1344
00:49:28,704 --> 00:49:29,101
U.

1345
00:49:33,650 --> 00:49:35,796
It's fine. We're glad for the questions that

1346
00:49:35,796 --> 00:49:36,274
we gone.

1347
00:49:37,228 --> 00:49:39,057
I know the 1 thing before we go

1348
00:49:39,057 --> 00:49:41,309
into the shoulder bonus section. And this feels

1349
00:49:41,309 --> 00:49:44,190
very bonus section. Bonus bonus eat bonus bonus.

1350
00:49:48,190 --> 00:49:48,589
Okay.

1351
00:49:50,831 --> 00:49:51,331
But

1352
00:49:52,420 --> 00:49:55,438
I know we're gonna take AAA week off

1353
00:49:55,438 --> 00:49:57,239
at some point over the next few weeks

1354
00:49:57,439 --> 00:49:58,715
at this point I have a feeling it's

1355
00:49:58,715 --> 00:50:00,948
gonna be very last minute. Yeah. The feeling

1356
00:50:01,028 --> 00:50:02,543
I'm gonna get a text from my mom

1357
00:50:02,543 --> 00:50:04,319
that just goes I'm getting on the road

1358
00:50:04,378 --> 00:50:07,818
tomorrow. I know. I've I've got I've got

1359
00:50:07,818 --> 00:50:10,360
things that, you know, people are asking me

1360
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,505
about, and I'm like, I I don't know.

1361
00:50:13,141 --> 00:50:14,173
I I don't know.

1362
00:50:14,730 --> 00:50:16,239
I don't know I don't know what to

1363
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:16,477
do.

1364
00:50:18,086 --> 00:50:20,957
So if we just start posting on social

1365
00:50:20,957 --> 00:50:23,211
at some point, hey, we're not we're not

1366
00:50:23,270 --> 00:50:25,025
recording or streaming next week, That's what happened

1367
00:50:25,025 --> 00:50:26,141
my mother's is coming to down. Yeah.

1368
00:50:26,873 --> 00:50:27,193
So...

1369
00:50:28,548 --> 00:50:31,181
Yeah. I am I will say... I'll also

1370
00:50:31,181 --> 00:50:32,536
say about the time change. For when I

1371
00:50:32,536 --> 00:50:33,893
say, I know it's harder for some people

1372
00:50:33,893 --> 00:50:35,887
and. I hate that because I... I want

1373
00:50:35,887 --> 00:50:37,338
the people who want to be here to

1374
00:50:37,338 --> 00:50:39,730
be here. Be able to... Has been so

1375
00:50:39,730 --> 00:50:40,847
amazing for me personally.

1376
00:50:41,644 --> 00:50:43,479
And and and for me too,

1377
00:50:45,393 --> 00:50:45,712
you know,

1378
00:50:47,561 --> 00:50:48,918
while it can still be warm.

1379
00:50:49,875 --> 00:50:51,172
I'm right now?

1380
00:50:51,869 --> 00:50:54,421
It is nowhere near what it is during

1381
00:50:54,421 --> 00:50:56,335
the day with with when the sun because

1382
00:50:56,335 --> 00:50:58,743
this room, the sun beats down on it.

1383
00:50:59,061 --> 00:50:59,221
Sure.

1384
00:51:00,657 --> 00:51:02,172
For... I mean, I don't even... I'm not

1385
00:51:02,172 --> 00:51:04,724
even talking how but temperature I walk around

1386
00:51:04,724 --> 00:51:07,625
hot all the time. So you're you're you're

1387
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:09,608
walking talking breathing.

1388
00:51:11,328 --> 00:51:13,810
I'm talking about... I no longer

1389
00:51:14,119 --> 00:51:15,550
feel like I wake up on a Wednesday

1390
00:51:15,550 --> 00:51:18,674
morning and rushed through my morning to slide

1391
00:51:18,731 --> 00:51:22,866
in, Mh. Tire sq into a noon live

1392
00:51:22,866 --> 00:51:23,184
stream.

1393
00:51:23,741 --> 00:51:24,633
Like, I just...

1394
00:51:25,909 --> 00:51:27,026
I know it's not

1395
00:51:28,861 --> 00:51:30,797
coming off in in how I

1396
00:51:32,146 --> 00:51:34,219
how I present myself, but I am a

1397
00:51:34,219 --> 00:51:35,038
lot calmer

1398
00:51:35,574 --> 00:51:37,407
coming into these live streams, than I am

1399
00:51:37,407 --> 00:51:39,161
at the the 12:00 slot. Yeah.

1400
00:51:39,814 --> 00:51:41,253
I really am I've had a whole day.

1401
00:51:41,492 --> 00:51:44,129
I can pace myself throughout the day. I

1402
00:51:44,129 --> 00:51:46,686
can get some stuff done. I can, like,

1403
00:51:47,659 --> 00:51:49,974
help. We are guaranteed to eat before a

1404
00:51:49,974 --> 00:51:52,050
live now because we have dinner first. Right.

1405
00:51:52,768 --> 00:51:55,642
Yeah. So... Silent, you know, I I own

1406
00:51:55,642 --> 00:51:56,360
it. I'm old.

1407
00:51:57,252 --> 00:51:57,730
Silence said...

1408
00:51:58,843 --> 00:52:00,912
Sounds I like 11PM would be great,

1409
00:52:01,787 --> 00:52:03,617
but we're old. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. We know...

1410
00:52:03,856 --> 00:52:06,261
I'm I assume. You know, most weekends, I'm

1411
00:52:06,261 --> 00:52:07,934
lucky to make it to 11PM.

1412
00:52:08,332 --> 00:52:09,687
Oh, I know. Right aid.

1413
00:52:10,324 --> 00:52:10,723
Same.

1414
00:52:12,077 --> 00:52:12,476
Same.

1415
00:52:13,671 --> 00:52:13,830
Same.

1416
00:52:14,481 --> 00:52:14,719
Yeah.

1417
00:52:15,354 --> 00:52:17,283
And and, you know, I I knew

1418
00:52:18,371 --> 00:52:21,149
changing the time for the for the stream.

1419
00:52:22,117 --> 00:52:23,545
You know, was gonna be a trade off

1420
00:52:23,625 --> 00:52:25,609
There, you know, they're always there there's gonna

1421
00:52:25,609 --> 00:52:27,673
be some people who could make it more

1422
00:52:27,673 --> 00:52:30,054
easily in the evening, you know, and and

1423
00:52:30,054 --> 00:52:32,140
some that you know, during the day, they...

1424
00:52:32,938 --> 00:52:34,373
Like, that's the only time I got. I

1425
00:52:34,373 --> 00:52:36,367
can't do. You know, So it's... Yeah.

1426
00:52:37,005 --> 00:52:38,282
You know, it... It's a trade off.

1427
00:52:39,079 --> 00:52:41,089
I'm I'm well aware of that. But but

1428
00:52:41,089 --> 00:52:42,767
it always was. The sheer amount of people

1429
00:52:42,767 --> 00:52:44,046
who would tell me. I wish I could

1430
00:52:44,046 --> 00:52:46,843
make a midday livestream stream, but I'm at

1431
00:52:46,843 --> 00:52:48,921
work, And it's like, I get it. Totally

1432
00:52:48,921 --> 00:52:49,241
get it.

1433
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:50,574
So

1434
00:52:51,253 --> 00:52:51,413
Yeah.

1435
00:52:52,532 --> 00:52:53,970
You know, to be honest,

1436
00:52:55,648 --> 00:52:57,860
someone said, try 9 instead of

1437
00:52:58,458 --> 00:52:58,698
11.

1438
00:53:00,454 --> 00:53:03,407
That's not Richardson watching time. Farming. I mean,

1439
00:53:03,726 --> 00:53:04,945
I might

1440
00:53:05,323 --> 00:53:06,360
be able, you know,

1441
00:53:07,967 --> 00:53:08,604
maybe 8.

1442
00:53:09,479 --> 00:53:09,979
We.

1443
00:53:10,672 --> 00:53:12,184
We do 09:31

1444
00:53:12,184 --> 00:53:14,109
time a month, and it wreck us for

1445
00:53:14,109 --> 00:53:16,024
2 days. Yeah. We are too fucking old.

1446
00:53:17,141 --> 00:53:19,855
I know. I mean, yeah. When when we

1447
00:53:19,855 --> 00:53:22,090
do the do the Friday night hang out,

1448
00:53:23,302 --> 00:53:23,802
Mh

1449
00:53:24,181 --> 00:53:26,256
And we go to midnight or or something,

1450
00:53:27,055 --> 00:53:27,454
you know,

1451
00:53:30,487 --> 00:53:31,467
Like we did later.

1452
00:53:32,579 --> 00:53:35,059
You know, yeah. We're we we're tired the

1453
00:53:35,059 --> 00:53:35,460
next day.

1454
00:53:36,579 --> 00:53:37,880
Oh, we are robin

1455
00:53:38,179 --> 00:53:40,099
ass the next day. I mean, do we

1456
00:53:40,099 --> 00:53:42,431
get to sleep in? Sure. Do we actually

1457
00:53:42,431 --> 00:53:43,967
sleep it? But do we actually

1458
00:53:44,424 --> 00:53:45,938
sleep in and make up, no. We don't.

1459
00:53:46,257 --> 00:53:47,474
Because we we have

1460
00:53:48,090 --> 00:53:50,976
stuff we're doing. Yeah. You're concerns... Try out.

1461
00:53:52,971 --> 00:53:53,609
Over the cl.

1462
00:53:55,604 --> 00:53:58,431
Because after 400 episodes we are super

1463
00:53:58,965 --> 00:54:02,385
professional. Right. Yeah. Yeah. I'm I'm trying to

1464
00:54:02,385 --> 00:54:03,419
learn how to embrace.

1465
00:54:04,215 --> 00:54:06,139
We some of the chaos because some of

1466
00:54:06,139 --> 00:54:08,048
the chaos is distracting and I know that.

1467
00:54:10,515 --> 00:54:11,015
But

1468
00:54:11,802 --> 00:54:14,107
trying to embrace the fact that this is

1469
00:54:14,107 --> 00:54:15,879
never going to be

1470
00:54:16,412 --> 00:54:17,945
a super professional

1471
00:54:19,590 --> 00:54:20,090
podcast

1472
00:54:20,878 --> 00:54:22,335
stream video whatever,

1473
00:54:22,951 --> 00:54:26,538
where we're kinda scripted and we say exactly,

1474
00:54:26,697 --> 00:54:29,103
like, exactly the right thing. Right? When and

1475
00:54:29,103 --> 00:54:30,617
it's, like, we're point by point like, this

1476
00:54:30,617 --> 00:54:33,087
just... Because it's never been me and god

1477
00:54:33,087 --> 00:54:34,680
love you You're along for the ride at

1478
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,150
this point. You have your opinions. But if

1479
00:54:37,309 --> 00:54:39,880
I was not here shoving a microphone in

1480
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:40,280
your face,

1481
00:54:41,079 --> 00:54:41,579
you

1482
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:44,599
you would not share them the way that

1483
00:54:44,599 --> 00:54:46,519
you share them on The podcast. No. No.

1484
00:54:46,679 --> 00:54:47,400
I would. So,

1485
00:54:47,974 --> 00:54:49,330
it is all my fault.

1486
00:54:52,041 --> 00:54:52,541
But,

1487
00:54:53,876 --> 00:54:56,668
you know, I I continue to believe your

1488
00:54:56,668 --> 00:54:59,158
vibe attracts your tribe. I like the people

1489
00:54:59,158 --> 00:55:01,235
who are hanging out with us. Sure. Sure.

1490
00:55:02,193 --> 00:55:03,871
We are very fortunate.

1491
00:55:04,351 --> 00:55:07,177
I do not read our podcast reviews because

1492
00:55:07,552 --> 00:55:09,563
it... I I am not

1493
00:55:10,177 --> 00:55:12,006
a person who can handle it in a

1494
00:55:12,815 --> 00:55:15,989
in a way that is constructive. Mh. That's

1495
00:55:15,989 --> 00:55:18,845
me knowing myself. I do believe reviews are

1496
00:55:18,845 --> 00:55:20,353
for other people reviews.

1497
00:55:21,084 --> 00:55:23,322
Are to let other people who find us

1498
00:55:23,322 --> 00:55:25,320
have an idea of what they can expect,

1499
00:55:26,679 --> 00:55:28,117
accurately or not. There you go.

1500
00:55:30,768 --> 00:55:33,238
And our comments on Youtube every once in

1501
00:55:33,238 --> 00:55:34,672
a while, like 1 of our videos will

1502
00:55:34,672 --> 00:55:36,505
hit the wrong side of of not the

1503
00:55:36,744 --> 00:55:38,755
Internet, but like, the kin world, and I'll

1504
00:55:38,755 --> 00:55:40,914
get some judge bullshit. But for the most

1505
00:55:40,914 --> 00:55:43,795
part, the folks who follow us and interact

1506
00:55:43,795 --> 00:55:44,434
with this at least,

1507
00:55:45,248 --> 00:55:47,635
are your fucking grown maps. I hope you

1508
00:55:47,635 --> 00:55:49,466
are. If you were under 18 and hear

1509
00:55:49,466 --> 00:55:51,138
the son of my voice. I will round

1510
00:55:51,138 --> 00:55:53,142
your ass. Turn the stamp podcast stuff.

1511
00:55:55,444 --> 00:55:58,302
But you're grown adults who understand that adults

1512
00:55:58,302 --> 00:55:59,040
can have

1513
00:55:59,731 --> 00:56:01,001
a variety of opinions,

1514
00:56:01,889 --> 00:56:03,881
And if you're here it's because you wanna

1515
00:56:03,881 --> 00:56:05,656
be here, and we have, like a really

1516
00:56:05,713 --> 00:56:06,213
kind

1517
00:56:06,590 --> 00:56:08,103
snarky, and I love that about us.

1518
00:56:08,980 --> 00:56:10,926
So sarcastic sassy audience.

1519
00:56:11,778 --> 00:56:14,243
But a you're like, you know, a, we're

1520
00:56:14,243 --> 00:56:16,231
all adults here, and we're just gonna be

1521
00:56:16,231 --> 00:56:17,661
adults, and we don't get a lot of

1522
00:56:17,661 --> 00:56:19,346
the bullshit drama ever. Months a while I'll

1523
00:56:19,346 --> 00:56:20,297
get somebody. Yeah.

1524
00:56:21,012 --> 00:56:22,996
Every once small. And I promise you if

1525
00:56:23,155 --> 00:56:24,742
I get 1 of those kinds of comments

1526
00:56:24,742 --> 00:56:26,408
or whatever. Most of the time I ignore

1527
00:56:26,408 --> 00:56:27,123
it because I'm like,

1528
00:56:27,932 --> 00:56:29,521
No. That's not who I want to be.

1529
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,063
But if if you piss me off enough

1530
00:56:32,063 --> 00:56:33,811
that I respond to you.

1531
00:56:34,447 --> 00:56:36,609
Honey, just log off for the day. Okay.

1532
00:56:36,929 --> 00:56:38,367
I do not respond often,

1533
00:56:39,565 --> 00:56:40,385
but I,

1534
00:56:40,844 --> 00:56:43,241
that's when I actually become assertive. So just

1535
00:56:43,241 --> 00:56:44,280
just go ahead and log off for the

1536
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:45,652
day. Because you have

1537
00:56:46,769 --> 00:56:47,508
you have

1538
00:56:47,886 --> 00:56:48,386
clearly,

1539
00:56:50,519 --> 00:56:52,035
taken 1 step too far over a line.

1540
00:56:52,369 --> 00:56:53,644
Don't know where the line is. Well. I

1541
00:56:53,644 --> 00:56:55,659
know I I know I know for me

1542
00:56:56,036 --> 00:56:56,674
sleeping in.

1543
00:56:57,472 --> 00:56:58,827
And we're back on sleeping in. I was

1544
00:56:58,827 --> 00:57:00,262
ranting. I was giving people what they wanted.

1545
00:57:00,581 --> 00:57:00,661
Right?

1546
00:57:01,554 --> 00:57:02,829
Well I never got to say what I

1547
00:57:02,829 --> 00:57:04,265
wanted to say. Do you ever?

1548
00:57:06,498 --> 00:57:07,934
The podcast is really...

1549
00:57:08,652 --> 00:57:10,806
The real title should be Kayla never lets

1550
00:57:10,965 --> 00:57:11,936
Cha own don't talk.

1551
00:57:17,274 --> 00:57:19,186
No fewer words have ever been uttered.

1552
00:57:21,112 --> 00:57:21,271
No.

1553
00:57:23,892 --> 00:57:25,639
I love you baby. I love you too.

1554
00:57:25,957 --> 00:57:27,887
I love you. I just don't think anybody

1555
00:57:27,943 --> 00:57:30,460
understands how quiet and short this podcast are

1556
00:57:30,579 --> 00:57:32,887
be if jb be lettuce. Okay?

1557
00:57:37,263 --> 00:57:38,710
Yeah. Power changes are great.

1558
00:57:39,822 --> 00:57:41,014
You should talk to 1 another.

1559
00:57:43,715 --> 00:57:44,907
We're gonna have to use a vlogger.

1560
00:57:48,101 --> 00:57:50,090
Okay. Great talk to. Have a good 1.

1561
00:57:52,476 --> 00:57:54,320
You could have done the script did 5

1562
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:56,543
minute thing that I dreamed of doing. All

1563
00:57:56,543 --> 00:57:58,766
those years yeah? Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

1564
00:58:00,195 --> 00:58:00,512
Yes.

1565
00:58:05,231 --> 00:58:07,545
So... But, yeah, no. Sleeping in for me.

1566
00:58:07,705 --> 00:58:09,801
Most most of the time is

1567
00:58:10,994 --> 00:58:11,554
is 7.

1568
00:58:12,994 --> 00:58:13,315
Yeah.

1569
00:58:14,835 --> 00:58:17,474
Lately. Lately, I have been I I have

1570
00:58:17,474 --> 00:58:20,047
been sleeping in a little bit. A little

1571
00:58:20,047 --> 00:58:20,526
bit more.

1572
00:58:24,913 --> 00:58:26,827
Yeah. I have I have been. Because I've

1573
00:58:26,827 --> 00:58:29,061
been actually getting up after you. Yes.

1574
00:58:29,713 --> 00:58:31,940
Because I also... I used to be able

1575
00:58:31,940 --> 00:58:34,168
to sleep in. If I stayed up late,

1576
00:58:34,645 --> 00:58:35,940
I could sleep until

1577
00:58:36,729 --> 00:58:38,168
I was pissed if I was waking up

1578
00:58:38,168 --> 00:58:40,166
at 10AM because that was not late enough.

1579
00:58:40,326 --> 00:58:41,924
There was a time. I could sleep until

1580
00:58:41,924 --> 00:58:42,824
11:30

1581
00:58:43,043 --> 00:58:43,942
Yeah. Noon

1582
00:58:44,721 --> 00:58:45,680
was not long ago.

1583
00:58:46,813 --> 00:58:48,725
That was... That was... Not often, But, yes,

1584
00:58:48,884 --> 00:58:50,478
I still had the ability to do it.

1585
00:58:50,797 --> 00:58:51,297
Then

1586
00:58:51,753 --> 00:58:54,063
I started hitting a point where 9AM

1587
00:58:54,063 --> 00:58:55,099
was late for me.

1588
00:58:55,817 --> 00:58:56,269
And now

1589
00:58:56,864 --> 00:58:59,641
because of the... Whatever... The things that on

1590
00:58:59,641 --> 00:59:01,386
my body that hurt in the middle of

1591
00:59:01,386 --> 00:59:03,527
the night. Yeah. Late for me is about

1592
00:59:03,527 --> 00:59:04,162
07:00.

1593
00:59:04,814 --> 00:59:07,209
And that's that's about as late as I

1594
00:59:07,209 --> 00:59:09,705
can go. Yeah. Now, now a few times

1595
00:59:10,722 --> 00:59:13,436
because we we have 1 young lady here

1596
00:59:13,436 --> 00:59:14,075
in our household.

1597
00:59:15,849 --> 00:59:16,730
Her name is Ella.

1598
00:59:17,449 --> 00:59:18,570
Oh my god.

1599
00:59:18,969 --> 00:59:19,469
And

1600
00:59:20,489 --> 00:59:21,942
at at 6AM.

1601
00:59:22,978 --> 00:59:25,209
She begins singing the song of her people.

1602
00:59:25,448 --> 00:59:27,599
Where she's clearly wasting away. She's starving to

1603
00:59:27,599 --> 00:59:30,626
death. Yep. She's been abandoned. And and Ella,

1604
00:59:31,519 --> 00:59:32,500
has 1 of those

1605
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:33,380
cries

1606
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:35,059
very high pitched

1607
00:59:36,559 --> 00:59:38,800
and and almost grading.

1608
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:42,329
Oh, yeah. Yeah. So, you know, there have

1609
00:59:42,329 --> 00:59:43,606
been sometimes too.

1610
00:59:44,403 --> 00:59:45,542
I have gotten up

1611
00:59:46,398 --> 00:59:47,436
at at that hour.

1612
00:59:48,327 --> 00:59:49,601
Fed all the fur babies.

1613
00:59:51,513 --> 00:59:52,548
Plop down on the couch.

1614
00:59:54,061 --> 00:59:55,416
Gone back to sleep. And gone back to

1615
00:59:55,416 --> 00:59:56,371
sleep. Yeah.

1616
00:59:57,341 --> 00:59:59,090
I'm that person that once I'm awake I'm

1617
00:59:59,090 --> 00:59:59,886
awake once I'm up.

1618
01:00:00,999 --> 01:00:03,249
We are firmly in bonus section

1619
01:00:03,703 --> 01:00:04,680
conversation territory.

1620
01:00:06,023 --> 01:00:08,880
So I think we should officially get there,

1621
01:00:09,277 --> 01:00:10,706
And then we can keep talking about naps.

1622
01:00:10,864 --> 01:00:12,531
If that's what you wanna talk about. Right?

1623
01:00:13,007 --> 01:00:13,642
So we're good.

1624
01:00:14,453 --> 01:00:16,206
No. I would not say that, but we

1625
01:00:16,206 --> 01:00:18,619
did make it through our 400

1626
01:00:18,756 --> 01:00:19,394
episode. So that's.

1627
01:00:20,031 --> 01:00:22,119
So, but I guess we're there. Yeah. If

1628
01:00:22,119 --> 01:00:23,075
it wasn't chaotic,

1629
01:00:24,829 --> 01:00:26,981
would it be us? No. No. K. If

1630
01:00:26,981 --> 01:00:29,213
you wanna know if we've been, like, kidnapped

1631
01:00:29,213 --> 01:00:31,299
and our bodies have been action these are

1632
01:00:31,299 --> 01:00:32,992
impostor. If we're not chaotic,

1633
01:00:33,367 --> 01:00:34,879
it ain't fucking ass. Right. If you ever

1634
01:00:34,879 --> 01:00:37,186
see us being fucking professional with a polished

1635
01:00:37,186 --> 01:00:37,400
set

1636
01:00:38,392 --> 01:00:40,774
you... That that's a call for help. It

1637
01:00:40,774 --> 01:00:42,442
is it is. It really is.

1638
01:00:43,633 --> 01:00:46,650
Alright. Now. Are we good. I don't know.

1639
01:00:48,097 --> 01:00:50,482
Keep it all. We think we'll see you

1640
01:00:50,482 --> 01:00:50,959
next week.

1641
01:01:02,300 --> 01:01:04,835
Yes, babe. Can we continue talking the creek

1642
01:01:05,034 --> 01:01:06,949
about whatever you would like them about talk

1643
01:01:06,949 --> 01:01:08,786
to them about. Okay. Yeah. Go for it.

1644
01:01:11,659 --> 01:01:13,469
Go ahead. You were the 1 talking about

1645
01:01:13,509 --> 01:01:14,885
now. Now I lost My.

1646
01:01:15,657 --> 01:01:18,840
Oh, I Gone now... Gone out. Yeah. I

1647
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:20,056
think that was the whole

1648
01:01:20,844 --> 01:01:22,360
you know, that was where I was heading

1649
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:23,179
for. So

1650
01:01:24,673 --> 01:01:25,949
I'm there. We're there.

1651
01:01:26,746 --> 01:01:27,704
We're there.

1652
01:01:29,857 --> 01:01:31,150
Weird there. Yep.

1653
01:01:33,710 --> 01:01:36,670
I will, for this week, resurrect emoji of

1654
01:01:36,670 --> 01:01:37,710
the week, tissue,

1655
01:01:38,670 --> 01:01:41,724
suggested in access followed, it is the... I

1656
01:01:41,724 --> 01:01:43,804
don't know how to describe that 1. It's

1657
01:01:43,804 --> 01:01:47,164
the celebration emoji, but it's like the... Mh.

1658
01:01:49,659 --> 01:01:52,287
It's like the stream horn looking thing. I

1659
01:01:52,287 --> 01:01:53,880
don't know what that one's called. If somebody

1660
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:56,451
has a word for it. Feel free to

1661
01:01:57,544 --> 01:01:58,181
to give it to me.

1662
01:01:59,713 --> 01:02:01,870
But it's that 1. Yep. So in whatever

1663
01:02:01,870 --> 01:02:04,186
way we are connected online. That 1. In

1664
01:02:04,186 --> 01:02:05,246
the comments

1665
01:02:06,994 --> 01:02:08,531
on social media,

1666
01:02:10,503 --> 01:02:12,199
in a reply to the

1667
01:02:12,576 --> 01:02:13,076
newsletter.

1668
01:02:14,824 --> 01:02:17,538
That's the emoji. It's the party party popper.

1669
01:02:18,017 --> 01:02:21,370
Thank, Si. Party popper. The confetti 1. That's

1670
01:02:21,530 --> 01:02:23,126
I would say mister Scott. Alright.

1671
01:02:24,339 --> 01:02:25,695
If anybody ever like,

1672
01:02:26,572 --> 01:02:28,985
was like, should I go watch the live

1673
01:02:29,123 --> 01:02:29,523
sometimes.

1674
01:02:30,001 --> 01:02:31,675
You just ignore us, you can listen to

1675
01:02:31,675 --> 01:02:34,164
the podcast later, Just like, watch full live.

1676
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:37,357
Could be this too that would work.

1677
01:02:39,034 --> 01:02:40,870
What are you doing? I don't know. Everything

1678
01:02:40,870 --> 01:02:42,786
that's going wonky a here. No. You did

1679
01:02:42,786 --> 01:02:46,072
too sham. Champagne glasses. I got guess. I

1680
01:02:46,072 --> 01:02:48,066
know I did. Okay. Well aware of that.

1681
01:02:48,305 --> 01:02:49,820
But that's not the emoji of the week.

1682
01:02:50,857 --> 01:02:51,336
Really,

1683
01:02:52,612 --> 01:02:53,090
Really.

1684
01:02:55,416 --> 01:02:58,205
I am so glad you told me... I

1685
01:02:58,205 --> 01:03:00,276
didn't explain it howard it's now. You have

1686
01:03:00,276 --> 01:03:01,312
walked around in ignorance.

1687
01:03:02,029 --> 01:03:03,793
This whole time you just wouldn't have been

1688
01:03:03,793 --> 01:03:04,506
knowing stuff.

1689
01:03:08,309 --> 01:03:09,973
Access the short form for the emoji in

1690
01:03:09,973 --> 01:03:12,545
the week. Is on almost every platform is

1691
01:03:12,704 --> 01:03:13,184
Tada off.

1692
01:03:13,905 --> 01:03:14,144
Okay.

1693
01:03:14,704 --> 01:03:15,984
I have to try that. I've never done

1694
01:03:15,984 --> 01:03:17,684
it. I've always started typing

1695
01:03:18,304 --> 01:03:18,465
congratulations.

1696
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,480
Yeah. That does that does work. Yeah. And

1697
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:23,279
it did came up.

1698
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:25,679
There you. Okay. Mh.

1699
01:03:31,050 --> 01:03:32,568
There were some things I was definitely gonna

1700
01:03:32,568 --> 01:03:34,007
talk about in the bonus section, and now

1701
01:03:34,087 --> 01:03:35,206
I can't remember what they were.

1702
01:03:39,290 --> 01:03:40,567
Fascinating. I know.

1703
01:03:41,842 --> 01:03:42,959
I don't remember what.

1704
01:03:44,235 --> 01:03:46,963
Oh, can I complain about At etsy for

1705
01:03:46,963 --> 01:03:47,761
half a minute?

1706
01:03:48,639 --> 01:03:49,597
Go right ahead.

1707
01:03:51,193 --> 01:03:53,587
The Loving Bd Etsy shop. As far as

1708
01:03:53,667 --> 01:03:54,225
I know.

1709
01:03:54,719 --> 01:03:56,634
Is up and running smoothly if you are

1710
01:03:56,634 --> 01:03:57,192
a buyer.

1711
01:03:58,069 --> 01:04:00,781
We encourage you. Go floor. Shop. Have a

1712
01:04:00,781 --> 01:04:01,100
good time.

1713
01:04:01,977 --> 01:04:04,585
But on the gift side. Where I wanna

1714
01:04:04,704 --> 01:04:07,163
add some products and update some products and

1715
01:04:07,163 --> 01:04:07,957
make some changes.

1716
01:04:08,829 --> 01:04:10,893
It's not working. And that, you know, that

1717
01:04:10,893 --> 01:04:11,765
happens. Okay. Fine.

1718
01:04:12,498 --> 01:04:15,289
So I use... I do Etsy support. There's

1719
01:04:15,289 --> 01:04:17,124
no email. Not not for somebody let me

1720
01:04:17,124 --> 01:04:18,320
and And I'm probably not big enough. Maybe

1721
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:19,516
if I had to, like a bigger... We

1722
01:04:19,516 --> 01:04:21,351
had a bigger shop. Maybe I get an

1723
01:04:21,351 --> 01:04:23,605
email to somebody. Know. I can use the

1724
01:04:23,605 --> 01:04:26,644
phone option that's not fucking happening. Mh. Or

1725
01:04:26,804 --> 01:04:28,025
I can use the chat

1726
01:04:28,405 --> 01:04:30,164
function, and I know it's gonna be...

1727
01:04:30,885 --> 01:04:33,048
No It's not gonna be robust in the

1728
01:04:33,048 --> 01:04:34,321
chat function, but I like,

1729
01:04:35,117 --> 01:04:37,584
I like the chat function. I used the

1730
01:04:37,584 --> 01:04:39,891
chat function when I discovered this problem was

1731
01:04:39,891 --> 01:04:40,130
occurring.

1732
01:04:40,702 --> 01:04:42,608
I was given a laundry list of things

1733
01:04:42,608 --> 01:04:43,958
to do that I did not think would

1734
01:04:43,958 --> 01:04:45,786
work, but I was like, I'll try them.

1735
01:04:46,024 --> 01:04:48,566
Mh. I do the laundry list of things.

1736
01:04:49,615 --> 01:04:51,842
I want to go back in to tell

1737
01:04:51,842 --> 01:04:52,342
somebody.

1738
01:04:53,194 --> 01:04:54,467
This is not working,

1739
01:04:55,183 --> 01:04:57,909
but the hat function in my account is

1740
01:04:57,909 --> 01:04:58,946
also stuck.

1741
01:04:59,983 --> 01:05:03,175
And only shows me the last chat I

1742
01:05:03,175 --> 01:05:05,180
had and will not let me connect to

1743
01:05:05,180 --> 01:05:06,237
a new person

1744
01:05:06,612 --> 01:05:07,987
nor does the

1745
01:05:08,521 --> 01:05:09,021
Ai

1746
01:05:09,396 --> 01:05:11,954
or bot or other person, I don't know

1747
01:05:11,954 --> 01:05:13,224
who I was speaking to before.

1748
01:05:14,098 --> 01:05:16,560
Doesn't it let me message them either And

1749
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:19,681
so I am in a support purgatory

1750
01:05:21,420 --> 01:05:23,745
where I can't tell anybody

1751
01:05:24,357 --> 01:05:26,739
electronically at least, that I still have the

1752
01:05:26,739 --> 01:05:27,239
problem

1753
01:05:28,024 --> 01:05:30,575
but also, the problem is not being fixed.

1754
01:05:31,133 --> 01:05:32,727
A week, a week I've gone them like

1755
01:05:32,727 --> 01:05:32,887
this.

1756
01:05:34,321 --> 01:05:35,836
Yeah. And it just seems to be heard.

1757
01:05:36,726 --> 01:05:39,033
Shop my shop. Not a fan. My vanilla

1758
01:05:39,033 --> 01:05:40,862
shop is perfectly fine. I added a whole

1759
01:05:40,862 --> 01:05:42,215
bunch of listings the other day I was

1760
01:05:42,215 --> 01:05:43,248
very proud of myself.

1761
01:05:45,334 --> 01:05:47,192
I wanna add some to the loving Bd

1762
01:05:47,331 --> 01:05:49,089
at Etsy shop. I really not.

1763
01:05:55,500 --> 01:05:57,500
So, yeah. That's my complaint of the week.

1764
01:05:58,300 --> 01:05:58,539
Yeah.

1765
01:05:59,260 --> 01:06:00,719
Yeah. You know, it

1766
01:06:01,594 --> 01:06:02,414
and in

1767
01:06:03,434 --> 01:06:06,635
tissue even said Etsy getting worse. I know.

1768
01:06:06,875 --> 01:06:09,594
My. I know. And understand. It's it to

1769
01:06:09,594 --> 01:06:11,684
me, it ever since they went public.

1770
01:06:12,481 --> 01:06:14,553
That's usually when things go downhill with most

1771
01:06:14,553 --> 01:06:15,031
platforms.

1772
01:06:15,429 --> 01:06:15,589
Yeah.

1773
01:06:18,791 --> 01:06:20,704
And ex, I even brought that up to

1774
01:06:20,704 --> 01:06:23,572
her. Shadow bet with a shadow band. My

1775
01:06:23,572 --> 01:06:25,326
experience with shadow banning is more that you

1776
01:06:25,326 --> 01:06:28,294
are count can't be seen by others, that

1777
01:06:28,294 --> 01:06:29,571
may be true. I don't know.

1778
01:06:30,369 --> 01:06:31,966
But I should at least be able to

1779
01:06:31,966 --> 01:06:34,302
see version. Operate my own

1780
01:06:35,414 --> 01:06:38,937
dashboard no. And I know some features work

1781
01:06:38,994 --> 01:06:40,608
because I clicked on a button

1782
01:06:41,222 --> 01:06:41,722
in

1783
01:06:42,335 --> 01:06:43,767
etsy today where they were like, oh, do

1784
01:06:43,767 --> 01:06:46,974
you wanna update this pricing thing on your

1785
01:06:46,974 --> 01:06:48,411
shop, and I went, I don't even think

1786
01:06:48,411 --> 01:06:50,247
anything's working right now, but I'll click the

1787
01:06:50,247 --> 01:06:51,764
button and see what happens. Click the button.

1788
01:06:52,243 --> 01:06:54,991
We have updated these blog blog listings.

1789
01:06:55,366 --> 01:06:57,991
Yeah. Oh, so you you work for that,

1790
01:06:58,945 --> 01:06:59,764
but not.

1791
01:07:01,666 --> 01:07:03,497
The the 1 thing I think I I

1792
01:07:03,497 --> 01:07:06,681
find funny. I remember a while back at

1793
01:07:06,681 --> 01:07:07,181
etsy

1794
01:07:07,955 --> 01:07:09,724
had said they were going to come out

1795
01:07:09,724 --> 01:07:10,704
with a way

1796
01:07:11,885 --> 01:07:13,344
to compare prices

1797
01:07:14,284 --> 01:07:16,855
for similar items. Oh, and on your dashboard

1798
01:07:16,855 --> 01:07:18,442
as a seller? Yes. Yes. They do have

1799
01:07:18,442 --> 01:07:20,426
that. As a seller. Mh. I haven't used

1800
01:07:20,426 --> 01:07:22,093
it, but... I see... And and I was

1801
01:07:22,093 --> 01:07:22,911
very excited

1802
01:07:23,284 --> 01:07:23,522
about that.

1803
01:07:24,729 --> 01:07:26,796
Okay. Because I really wanted to be able

1804
01:07:26,796 --> 01:07:28,864
to... You know, I I had done some

1805
01:07:28,864 --> 01:07:30,875
of that. I but I do it manually

1806
01:07:31,647 --> 01:07:33,737
Manually too. Yeah. And and looking

1807
01:07:34,049 --> 01:07:36,363
you know, so I was I was very

1808
01:07:36,363 --> 01:07:39,395
excited when when this... When I saw this.

1809
01:07:39,794 --> 01:07:41,311
So when it when it came up,

1810
01:07:42,443 --> 01:07:44,042
I like, oh, I gotta see this. What

1811
01:07:44,042 --> 01:07:46,279
is it? Where's is it telling me? And

1812
01:07:46,279 --> 01:07:46,939
and it

1813
01:07:49,396 --> 01:07:49,896
it

1814
01:07:51,648 --> 01:07:53,246
It it was not very good for me.

1815
01:07:54,844 --> 01:07:56,203
Oh, because it showed you all the mass

1816
01:07:56,203 --> 01:07:58,361
produced shit. It it showed me all the

1817
01:07:58,361 --> 01:07:59,240
mass produced

1818
01:07:59,734 --> 01:08:01,722
Remember you know stuff that was... That was

1819
01:08:02,755 --> 01:08:05,141
you know, coming out of Alibaba or Tam

1820
01:08:05,141 --> 01:08:07,129
or something, whatever the, you know, The drop

1821
01:08:07,129 --> 01:08:09,570
ships. The drop ship stuff, and and that's

1822
01:08:09,689 --> 01:08:11,523
what it was all showing me. And and

1823
01:08:11,523 --> 01:08:12,422
it's comparing

1824
01:08:13,038 --> 01:08:14,176
the price of

1825
01:08:14,793 --> 01:08:15,851
1 of my items

1826
01:08:16,387 --> 01:08:18,221
to that. 2 to a 2 dollar item.

1827
01:08:18,461 --> 01:08:21,659
Right. All, you're overpriced. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah Yeah.

1828
01:08:22,217 --> 01:08:23,968
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So

1829
01:08:24,764 --> 01:08:27,787
since then, I I haven't even no. Bothered

1830
01:08:27,787 --> 01:08:28,027
with it.

1831
01:08:29,319 --> 01:08:31,960
Apparently, Etsy for 4 buyers. This is a

1832
01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:35,159
benefit for buyers and may benefit some sellers.

1833
01:08:35,399 --> 01:08:35,560
Yeah.

1834
01:08:36,450 --> 01:08:38,120
Etsy is going all in on this new

1835
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:40,052
gift kind of feature where

1836
01:08:40,586 --> 01:08:43,210
buyers can look for products that are kinda

1837
01:08:43,210 --> 01:08:45,729
kind of flagged as these are definitely gifts

1838
01:08:45,850 --> 01:08:48,829
so that it is supposed to ideally

1839
01:08:49,609 --> 01:08:51,869
show you as a buyer, the handmade

1840
01:08:52,810 --> 01:08:53,782
unique stuff.

1841
01:08:54,979 --> 01:08:56,893
I have not played it as a buyer,

1842
01:08:57,052 --> 01:08:58,111
so I don't

1843
01:08:58,488 --> 01:09:01,360
know. Mh. If it's actually effective, but I

1844
01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:04,243
do know... Look, we don't watch, a lot

1845
01:09:04,243 --> 01:09:04,743
of

1846
01:09:05,438 --> 01:09:05,938
ad

1847
01:09:07,270 --> 01:09:07,770
supported

1848
01:09:08,305 --> 01:09:10,534
television streaming, whatever and we have what. I

1849
01:09:10,534 --> 01:09:11,353
think 1

1850
01:09:11,981 --> 01:09:14,466
streaming service were fucking hell they're

1851
01:09:14,998 --> 01:09:17,143
shown us ads all the time. And that's

1852
01:09:17,143 --> 01:09:19,230
how I just realized just how heavy

1853
01:09:19,858 --> 01:09:22,001
Etsy was into it because for a couple

1854
01:09:22,001 --> 01:09:24,542
of weeks, like every other ad was Etsy

1855
01:09:24,542 --> 01:09:26,605
gift feature for buyers. So if you're a

1856
01:09:26,605 --> 01:09:28,766
person who Shops on Etsy or wants to

1857
01:09:28,766 --> 01:09:30,913
shop on Etsy It it may benefit offend

1858
01:09:30,913 --> 01:09:33,219
you. I don't know. I haven't tried it

1859
01:09:33,219 --> 01:09:33,458
myself.

1860
01:09:34,094 --> 01:09:36,105
But III

1861
01:09:36,241 --> 01:09:37,298
like Etsy

1862
01:09:38,649 --> 01:09:39,530
for the most part.

1863
01:09:40,570 --> 01:09:42,090
I like that it's a platform I'm not

1864
01:09:42,090 --> 01:09:42,909
building from

1865
01:09:43,369 --> 01:09:45,609
scrap. Right. Do you mean many sites ourselves,

1866
01:09:45,770 --> 01:09:47,541
and it's a lot that Goes to it.

1867
01:09:47,859 --> 01:09:48,017
Yeah.

1868
01:09:49,524 --> 01:09:50,238
You know, it...

1869
01:09:51,667 --> 01:09:53,095
And and Ness just it, you don't have

1870
01:09:53,095 --> 01:09:54,444
to go and build a site from the

1871
01:09:54,444 --> 01:09:56,368
ground up, which is to kinda nice in

1872
01:09:56,368 --> 01:09:57,087
1 aspect.

1873
01:09:57,646 --> 01:09:59,244
You know, you do pay for with the

1874
01:09:59,244 --> 01:10:01,082
with the fees and whatnot. But I know

1875
01:10:01,082 --> 01:10:02,520
how much we paid on the kin group.

1876
01:10:02,694 --> 01:10:05,239
And what we pay in fees etsy dun

1877
01:10:05,319 --> 01:10:07,466
I can compare. Right. Does not even can

1878
01:10:07,466 --> 01:10:07,626
compare.

1879
01:10:08,341 --> 01:10:08,579
No.

1880
01:10:09,296 --> 01:10:09,534
But

1881
01:10:12,171 --> 01:10:13,202
I lost my grain thought.

1882
01:10:14,313 --> 01:10:16,454
Thank you. You're welcome. You like at etsy.

1883
01:10:16,930 --> 01:10:18,938
You know there's steve. But

1884
01:10:19,881 --> 01:10:21,627
You know, yeah. The the thing with the

1885
01:10:21,627 --> 01:10:23,849
with the mass produced stuff has gotten way

1886
01:10:23,849 --> 01:10:25,675
out of Oh, control. For sure for sure.

1887
01:10:26,151 --> 01:10:26,651
And

1888
01:10:27,039 --> 01:10:29,936
And I... As a seller, I'm constantly getting

1889
01:10:30,715 --> 01:10:33,511
surveys. Mh. From them? You know, how do

1890
01:10:33,511 --> 01:10:34,791
you like us? What can we do battery?

1891
01:10:35,030 --> 01:10:37,042
Yada yada? And I always say, you know,

1892
01:10:38,079 --> 01:10:40,554
the mass produced is, you know, thought that

1893
01:10:40,554 --> 01:10:41,990
he was supposed to be a crafter place.

1894
01:10:43,029 --> 01:10:46,234
Mh. And you know, it it it's not.

1895
01:10:47,588 --> 01:10:49,658
So but, you know, yeah, It keeps it

1896
01:10:49,658 --> 01:10:51,809
keeps happening. It it it seems to be

1897
01:10:51,809 --> 01:10:53,583
becoming more and more blatant

1898
01:10:54,375 --> 01:10:55,655
Oh, yeah. From there sure.

1899
01:10:57,414 --> 01:10:58,935
And I know what the answer is, but...

1900
01:10:59,655 --> 01:11:01,255
And, yeah, the times I've wanted to find

1901
01:11:01,255 --> 01:11:02,475
something like genuinely

1902
01:11:02,854 --> 01:11:05,427
unique. Mh. And I didn't... Like, Amazon was

1903
01:11:05,427 --> 01:11:07,185
just not the place. I find it on

1904
01:11:07,426 --> 01:11:08,225
Etsy. Mh.

1905
01:11:08,864 --> 01:11:10,063
So I don't know.

1906
01:11:11,341 --> 01:11:12,699
No, I don't know.

1907
01:11:13,592 --> 01:11:16,775
Know. No. I I was having thoughts of

1908
01:11:16,775 --> 01:11:19,640
does the loving Bd shop need to be

1909
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:20,538
like, shopify.

1910
01:11:21,009 --> 01:11:21,509
Shopify

1911
01:11:21,881 --> 01:11:23,070
not cheap either? Or no.

1912
01:11:24,576 --> 01:11:26,162
I have priced that out because I thought

1913
01:11:26,162 --> 01:11:27,668
about how we do the Kin and have

1914
01:11:27,668 --> 01:11:29,431
been like, do we need to try something

1915
01:11:29,431 --> 01:11:30,944
different noon price wise.

1916
01:11:32,537 --> 01:11:33,413
Stay right where the fuck wait.

1917
01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:36,780
But

1918
01:11:38,449 --> 01:11:39,510
Yeah. So

1919
01:11:40,849 --> 01:11:42,770
buyers get kinda like, fucked over because they

1920
01:11:42,770 --> 01:11:44,689
don't have as much choices they should have

1921
01:11:44,849 --> 01:11:46,210
Right. Or good choices.

1922
01:11:47,983 --> 01:11:50,640
Sellers who are legit, get fucked over because,

1923
01:11:51,019 --> 01:11:53,595
you know, you can't survive if you're selling

1924
01:11:54,385 --> 01:11:56,685
at, you know, drop ship kind of, like,

1925
01:11:56,843 --> 01:11:57,502
2 dollar

1926
01:11:57,875 --> 01:12:00,491
prices because you get... If it cost you

1927
01:12:00,491 --> 01:12:04,237
2 dollars to buy that kin thing, 99.9

1928
01:12:04,237 --> 01:12:05,984
percent of the time, you are getting 2

1929
01:12:05,984 --> 01:12:07,198
dollars of value,

1930
01:12:08,049 --> 01:12:09,717
and that thing will break on you or

1931
01:12:09,717 --> 01:12:11,439
it will like, not work or it will

1932
01:12:11,559 --> 01:12:13,313
soccer. It will not be as advertised.

1933
01:12:14,030 --> 01:12:14,588
Like, yeah.

1934
01:12:16,103 --> 01:12:16,582
I don't know.

1935
01:12:17,378 --> 01:12:18,814
Oh know. It's, you know,

1936
01:12:22,264 --> 01:12:24,104
It's got it's good. It's scott's bad. Just

1937
01:12:24,104 --> 01:12:24,344
oh, yeah.

1938
01:12:25,064 --> 01:12:26,425
Else For sure for sure.

1939
01:12:27,304 --> 01:12:29,716
So... Mh. But, yeah, That's that's my complaint

1940
01:12:29,716 --> 01:12:30,114
this week.

1941
01:12:30,910 --> 01:12:32,365
Fucking etsy. I have

1942
01:12:32,742 --> 01:12:35,212
shirt designs and I have ideas, and I

1943
01:12:35,212 --> 01:12:37,680
can't fucking do what I wanna do.

1944
01:12:38,651 --> 01:12:38,969
Yeah,

1945
01:12:39,844 --> 01:12:41,753
because of because of whatever going on with

1946
01:12:41,753 --> 01:12:42,072
that etsy.

1947
01:12:43,662 --> 01:12:43,901
Sure.

1948
01:12:45,350 --> 01:12:46,550
I want... I can't let that go on

1949
01:12:46,550 --> 01:12:48,390
for too long. If I have to take

1950
01:12:48,390 --> 01:12:51,030
a fucking phone call from fucking activity so

1951
01:12:51,030 --> 01:12:51,350
fast.

1952
01:12:52,789 --> 01:12:53,829
So fast. Yep.

1953
01:12:54,483 --> 01:12:55,121
Yep yep.

1954
01:12:56,238 --> 01:12:59,826
I've avoided getting a prescription filled because in

1955
01:12:59,826 --> 01:13:01,181
order to make sure I'm not over paying,

1956
01:13:01,421 --> 01:13:02,776
I have to call some form.

1957
01:13:03,509 --> 01:13:05,742
Season. I really don't want to.

1958
01:13:06,619 --> 01:13:08,294
If I need to do that. Well, I

1959
01:13:08,294 --> 01:13:10,447
know. I'd rather actually, I think I've decided

1960
01:13:10,447 --> 01:13:11,404
where I just wanna go,

1961
01:13:12,202 --> 01:13:13,973
and be like bucket, the price is the

1962
01:13:13,973 --> 01:13:16,311
price. I had a pharmacy I was using

1963
01:13:16,610 --> 01:13:17,909
for a compounded

1964
01:13:18,448 --> 01:13:20,146
medication. Right? Like, not a typical

1965
01:13:20,525 --> 01:13:22,134
prescription. Bucket billable prescription.

1966
01:13:23,882 --> 01:13:27,220
And they changed owners and in the crop

1967
01:13:27,220 --> 01:13:29,703
handover from the old owner to the new

1968
01:13:29,703 --> 01:13:32,340
owner, they fucked up my prescription so bad.

1969
01:13:32,579 --> 01:13:34,198
I had to go back to my doctor

1970
01:13:34,337 --> 01:13:36,710
beg for them to rewrite the purse to

1971
01:13:36,989 --> 01:13:40,185
prescription, even though normally they would not, and

1972
01:13:40,265 --> 01:13:41,324
I only have

1973
01:13:42,903 --> 01:13:43,802
enough for

1974
01:13:44,181 --> 01:13:46,274
2 months is what the just where normally

1975
01:13:46,433 --> 01:13:47,632
I it for 6 months at a time.

1976
01:13:48,350 --> 01:13:50,189
And I was, like, I'm like, okay, I'm

1977
01:13:50,189 --> 01:13:52,286
not gonna go to this pharmacy because

1978
01:13:52,665 --> 01:13:53,873
it's... It got all I'll fucked up at

1979
01:13:53,873 --> 01:13:56,012
this pharmacy as things were changing over. I

1980
01:13:56,012 --> 01:13:57,122
don't know who fucked it up. I'm not

1981
01:13:57,122 --> 01:13:58,786
going there. Then I found out 1 of

1982
01:13:58,786 --> 01:14:00,370
my other options in town, but

1983
01:14:01,257 --> 01:14:03,716
Is the same owner as the new owner

1984
01:14:03,716 --> 01:14:05,777
of my old pharmacy owner. Well, that crosses

1985
01:14:05,777 --> 01:14:07,443
that 1 off. And so I have 2

1986
01:14:07,443 --> 01:14:08,260
other pharmacies

1987
01:14:08,568 --> 01:14:09,362
choose from.

1988
01:14:10,551 --> 01:14:14,280
1 is way to slick and polished. I'm

1989
01:14:14,280 --> 01:14:16,422
like, no. That polished costs money.

1990
01:14:17,389 --> 01:14:20,244
Your website's way too nice and you don't...

1991
01:14:20,561 --> 01:14:23,020
For your medical services do not accept insurance.

1992
01:14:23,734 --> 01:14:26,214
You are out of my tax bracket. So

1993
01:14:26,293 --> 01:14:28,684
I... My... I only have 1 other option

1994
01:14:28,684 --> 01:14:30,835
and it's 1 of those, it kinda doesn't

1995
01:14:30,835 --> 01:14:32,769
fucking matter what they charge because

1996
01:14:33,623 --> 01:14:34,181
they're it.

1997
01:14:35,072 --> 01:14:36,502
So I don't really need to make the

1998
01:14:36,502 --> 01:14:38,328
phone call. What I need to do is

1999
01:14:38,328 --> 01:14:40,950
make the drive there. K. You know what?

2000
01:14:41,030 --> 01:14:41,109
Girl?

2001
01:14:42,396 --> 01:14:44,148
And I... I really do. I made this

2002
01:14:44,148 --> 01:14:45,183
prescription. Yes. You do.

2003
01:14:46,298 --> 01:14:47,753
So now I'm knowing that

2004
01:14:48,607 --> 01:14:48,926
tomorrow.

2005
01:14:51,010 --> 01:14:52,837
Yes. You do. Tomorrow, you're gonna get that

2006
01:14:52,837 --> 01:14:53,393
taken care of.

2007
01:14:54,983 --> 01:14:55,220
Understood.

2008
01:14:57,207 --> 01:14:57,446
Yeah.

2009
01:14:58,819 --> 01:14:59,857
Yep. Tomorrow's day.

2010
01:15:02,654 --> 01:15:03,474
Okay. Fine.

2011
01:15:09,453 --> 01:15:09,853
So, yeah.

2012
01:15:10,570 --> 01:15:11,765
Those are my 2 complaints this week.

2013
01:15:13,679 --> 01:15:15,114
And I'm avoiding phone calls.

2014
01:15:15,687 --> 01:15:16,426
For everything

2015
01:15:17,440 --> 01:15:19,113
for all of it. If I can do

2016
01:15:19,113 --> 01:15:21,423
it. Do I have to take 10 extra

2017
01:15:21,423 --> 01:15:24,291
steps to avoid the phone call? Yes. Will

2018
01:15:24,370 --> 01:15:27,019
I those 10 extra steps without complaint to

2019
01:15:27,019 --> 01:15:28,854
avoid a fuck on. Also yeah.

2020
01:15:30,051 --> 01:15:30,690
Also, yes.

2021
01:15:32,206 --> 01:15:32,685
Also, yes.

2022
01:15:34,845 --> 01:15:36,194
So all that being said,

2023
01:15:37,702 --> 01:15:38,972
do you have anything else you would like

2024
01:15:38,972 --> 01:15:39,869
to talk about on.

2025
01:15:40,322 --> 01:15:41,195
So... Okay.

2026
01:15:42,084 --> 01:15:43,042
I'm running out of steam.

2027
01:15:45,676 --> 01:15:48,571
You just popped out so much whatever.

2028
01:15:49,348 --> 01:15:50,626
Podcast was like, no, you can't see it,

2029
01:15:50,706 --> 01:15:52,000
but I know you fucking hear it.

2030
01:15:58,815 --> 01:15:59,315
So

2031
01:15:59,855 --> 01:16:01,475
on, we have 1

2032
01:16:02,095 --> 01:16:05,215
episode of season 2 of Bridge left to

2033
01:16:05,215 --> 01:16:05,534
watch.

2034
01:16:06,506 --> 01:16:08,885
We're on the last episode. I had to

2035
01:16:08,885 --> 01:16:10,710
be the Kill Joy last night that went,

2036
01:16:10,789 --> 01:16:11,027
hey.

2037
01:16:12,137 --> 01:16:14,060
This episode over an hour long, and it's

2038
01:16:14,060 --> 01:16:16,210
09:45. I and I said we have to

2039
01:16:16,210 --> 01:16:18,439
go to bed early. I had no concept

2040
01:16:18,439 --> 01:16:20,510
to time last night. And it was very

2041
01:16:20,510 --> 01:16:22,359
sad that I was a good girl who...

2042
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:24,680
You were, who did... Because here's what had

2043
01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:26,520
happened. What would have happened if he... If

2044
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:27,640
I hadn't said anything,

2045
01:16:28,119 --> 01:16:30,372
and he figured out, I knew what time

2046
01:16:30,372 --> 01:16:31,649
it was to because I'm a shit liar,

2047
01:16:31,808 --> 01:16:33,404
so I just don't bother. I do what

2048
01:16:33,483 --> 01:16:35,398
I just don't. I would have gotten. You

2049
01:16:35,398 --> 01:16:36,456
wanna talk about consequences.

2050
01:16:37,152 --> 01:16:38,667
That's where they're would have been consequences. So

2051
01:16:38,827 --> 01:16:39,487
I just

2052
01:16:40,359 --> 01:16:40,998
duck it up.

2053
01:16:41,717 --> 01:16:42,996
It would have been bad.

2054
01:16:43,795 --> 01:16:45,073
Because we had to get him a 05:30

2055
01:16:45,073 --> 01:16:47,310
to go, go do... Take a grumpy walk.

2056
01:16:49,805 --> 01:16:51,565
That fucking works, and it pisses me off

2057
01:16:51,565 --> 01:16:52,925
so bad that it works. Anyway, we need

2058
01:16:52,925 --> 01:16:54,204
to go because I wanna watch a Bridge.

2059
01:16:54,765 --> 01:16:56,604
Anyway, I love y'all. I wasn't grumpy when

2060
01:16:56,765 --> 01:16:57,579
I go. Oh,

2061
01:16:58,858 --> 01:17:02,054
great mood. Be especially making you go the

2062
01:17:02,054 --> 01:17:02,293
extra.

2063
01:17:05,664 --> 01:17:07,342
I am that person who will tell you

2064
01:17:07,342 --> 01:17:09,100
to goodbye and keep talking. I know. I

2065
01:17:09,100 --> 01:17:09,580
know who I am.

2066
01:17:11,178 --> 01:17:13,197
I did think today was a great

2067
01:17:13,576 --> 01:17:14,076
illustration

2068
01:17:14,535 --> 01:17:15,035
of

2069
01:17:15,349 --> 01:17:17,821
our power exchange working the way we intend

2070
01:17:17,821 --> 01:17:19,814
for it to because the last fucking thing

2071
01:17:19,894 --> 01:17:21,489
I wanted to do is was get out

2072
01:17:21,489 --> 01:17:22,685
of it this morning. This is a morning

2073
01:17:22,685 --> 01:17:24,360
that if it had been me deciding when

2074
01:17:24,440 --> 01:17:25,889
I need to walk out of out of

2075
01:17:25,889 --> 01:17:28,439
gun not today. She was really hoping for

2076
01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:30,270
rain. I was hoping for rain.

2077
01:17:30,908 --> 01:17:32,979
I did not get rain. But I knew

2078
01:17:33,138 --> 01:17:35,623
I knew need once I started, I would

2079
01:17:35,623 --> 01:17:36,978
eventually be happy that we had done it,

2080
01:17:37,136 --> 01:17:39,287
and I did get there until the block

2081
01:17:39,287 --> 01:17:40,483
not fucking extended whatever.

2082
01:17:41,359 --> 01:17:43,032
But I was really grateful that all I

2083
01:17:43,032 --> 01:17:43,430
had to do,

2084
01:17:44,404 --> 01:17:47,680
no thoughts, just vibes, follow jab down. And

2085
01:17:47,680 --> 01:17:49,677
as long as I just stay behind him

2086
01:17:49,677 --> 01:17:50,957
and do what he's doing.

2087
01:17:51,515 --> 01:17:53,126
We'll get through it. It was it was

2088
01:17:53,126 --> 01:17:54,953
delightful of the The brain was... It wasn't

2089
01:17:54,953 --> 01:17:56,145
that I shut off my brain. It was

2090
01:17:56,145 --> 01:17:57,814
that it was not capable of booting up

2091
01:17:57,814 --> 01:17:59,881
yet, and it was okay. I didn't have

2092
01:17:59,881 --> 01:18:00,039
to.

2093
01:18:01,390 --> 01:18:02,595
Yes. You know, it...

2094
01:18:05,688 --> 01:18:07,431
I I have to even for myself,

2095
01:18:08,145 --> 01:18:08,621
the walks.

2096
01:18:09,429 --> 01:18:10,936
You know, we're we're doing them 3 days

2097
01:18:10,936 --> 01:18:12,047
a week. Monday, Wednesday,

2098
01:18:12,523 --> 01:18:13,395
Friday right now,

2099
01:18:14,347 --> 01:18:14,665
and

2100
01:18:15,855 --> 01:18:17,442
they help. They do help. They do help.

2101
01:18:18,333 --> 01:18:19,929
Out so much. You know? Yeah. I was

2102
01:18:20,009 --> 01:18:21,764
I was kinda gru out in shop today.

2103
01:18:21,924 --> 01:18:24,478
It's, like, looking at me being so fucking

2104
01:18:24,478 --> 01:18:26,725
productive. Fuck you. Focus. The hell is this

2105
01:18:26,725 --> 01:18:29,193
shit. You brought me a literally box.

2106
01:18:29,751 --> 01:18:31,343
Like, I I aren't I had to use

2107
01:18:31,343 --> 01:18:33,493
a cardboard box because I made so non.

2108
01:18:35,257 --> 01:18:36,550
I couldn't use our

2109
01:18:36,922 --> 01:18:38,746
usual little Literally couldn't hold them in his

2110
01:18:38,746 --> 01:18:39,381
hand. No.

2111
01:18:40,490 --> 01:18:40,990
So

2112
01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:42,260
locks

2113
01:18:43,043 --> 01:18:44,154
fucking work apparently.

2114
01:18:45,185 --> 01:18:45,685
Fucking.

2115
01:18:46,852 --> 01:18:48,994
Anyway, we should go. Yes. Richardson calls. Mh.

2116
01:18:49,312 --> 01:18:51,158
Okay. Okay. Thank you y'all all for thanksgiving

2117
01:18:51,158 --> 01:18:52,989
for. Joining us. Thanks for being here with

2118
01:18:52,989 --> 01:18:55,937
us. Better end especially through the chaos. Each

2119
01:18:55,937 --> 01:18:58,008
and every 1 of him. We appreciate you

2120
01:18:58,008 --> 01:19:00,255
whether you've been listening. From the very fucking

2121
01:19:00,255 --> 01:19:02,807
beginning or you just showed up yesterday. Mh.

2122
01:19:02,967 --> 01:19:05,280
Just glad you're. Yeah. Glad you're hear. Took

2123
01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:05,439
you.

2124
01:19:06,476 --> 01:19:08,231
And we think we'll be here next week.

2125
01:19:08,884 --> 01:19:10,469
And and you know what? We we see

2126
01:19:10,469 --> 01:19:13,403
the numbers for the people watching live. Mh.

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And, you know, the people that that comment.

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And

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we love our workers.

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We do. Yeah. You know, even if you

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never say a a word and chat, you

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know, the numbers don't lie. We know you

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there and we love you. Yep. Mh. So

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we're gonna go now. We are. Richard. Okay.

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Hi.