1 00:00:11,265 --> 00:00:11,805 - Hey y'all. 2 00:00:12,155 --> 00:00:13,925 This is the part where I usually go. 3 00:00:13,945 --> 00:00:16,645 You're listening to Loving BDSM podcast episode, 4 00:00:17,115 --> 00:00:18,605 some number here. 5 00:00:19,385 --> 00:00:21,125 Uh, and I'm Kayla Lords. 6 00:00:21,125 --> 00:00:22,525 And then I say something like witty 7 00:00:22,525 --> 00:00:24,725 and funny about John Brownstone and yay. 8 00:00:24,725 --> 00:00:26,245 And then we start an episode and we're chaotic. 9 00:00:27,265 --> 00:00:29,685 Uh, if you can't tell, it's just me right now. 10 00:00:29,825 --> 00:00:31,685 And if you actually got a chance 11 00:00:31,745 --> 00:00:35,005 to look at your podcast app, you would've seen. 12 00:00:35,005 --> 00:00:36,725 This is not a typical episode 13 00:00:36,725 --> 00:00:39,525 because it's not like an hour and a half long. 14 00:00:40,185 --> 00:00:44,005 Um, we are not doing an episode this week, , 15 00:00:44,305 --> 00:00:45,885 if you haven't already figured it out. 16 00:00:46,385 --> 00:00:48,565 Uh, JB got sick this week 17 00:00:48,945 --> 00:00:50,685 and has not been able to do anything. 18 00:00:50,795 --> 00:00:53,325 He's basically just slept through the week as best he could 19 00:00:53,545 --> 00:00:55,165 and taken a lot of day quil 20 00:00:55,265 --> 00:00:57,045 and cough medicine and all kinds of stuff. 21 00:00:57,225 --> 00:01:01,165 He is absolutely, uh, recovering and getting better. 22 00:01:01,505 --> 00:01:04,845 Uh, at least as of recording this, uh, late Thursday night, 23 00:01:05,425 --> 00:01:06,965 um, there's a chance 24 00:01:07,505 --> 00:01:11,125 we may do our Friday night live stream. 25 00:01:11,705 --> 00:01:16,525 The day you get to hear this little short commercial, 26 00:01:16,835 --> 00:01:19,405 like, let's not call it an episode, 27 00:01:19,595 --> 00:01:21,885 this thing I'm doing here on my own. 28 00:01:22,545 --> 00:01:24,485 Um, but that is something 29 00:01:24,485 --> 00:01:26,645 that we won't really know if we can do 30 00:01:26,735 --> 00:01:28,685 until sometime on Friday. 31 00:01:29,785 --> 00:01:33,205 So, the reason I'm here, even though we are not here, 32 00:01:33,305 --> 00:01:35,005 and there's no episode this week, 33 00:01:35,345 --> 00:01:38,965 nor will there be an episode on Monday either, which sucks, 34 00:01:39,505 --> 00:01:43,005 um, is because we are doing a thing 35 00:01:43,155 --> 00:01:44,605 that we do every year. 36 00:01:44,905 --> 00:01:47,725 And normally we get to talk about it on the podcast 37 00:01:48,915 --> 00:01:50,085 when we start doing it. 38 00:01:50,225 --> 00:01:52,205 And with JB being sick, we couldn't do that, 39 00:01:52,465 --> 00:01:54,965 but I wanted to make sure that I got you the information. 40 00:01:55,585 --> 00:01:59,405 Um, and that is our annual Patreon membership drive. 41 00:01:59,945 --> 00:02:01,125 Uh, we do this every year 42 00:02:01,125 --> 00:02:02,965 because, you know, we like to encourage folks 43 00:02:02,985 --> 00:02:04,445 to join our kinky community 44 00:02:04,465 --> 00:02:06,805 or stay around in it if they're already there. 45 00:02:07,385 --> 00:02:09,325 Uh, and this year's no different. 46 00:02:09,945 --> 00:02:11,805 Um, it's one of those things. 47 00:02:12,035 --> 00:02:16,605 Patreon is a thing that, um, the support of 48 00:02:16,635 --> 00:02:19,525 that part of our community keeps our lights on, 49 00:02:19,535 --> 00:02:22,765 keeps the cameras rolling, allows us to put out a lot 50 00:02:23,185 --> 00:02:25,405 of content, um, and hopefully educate 51 00:02:25,405 --> 00:02:27,925 and inform at no charge to folks. 52 00:02:28,345 --> 00:02:32,045 Um, and it, yeah, Patreon is like, what makes that possible? 53 00:02:32,985 --> 00:02:35,165 So we like to do a membership drive every year, make it kind 54 00:02:35,165 --> 00:02:37,365 of special, entice some people 55 00:02:37,425 --> 00:02:39,925 who maybe have thought about it but weren't sure. 56 00:02:40,585 --> 00:02:44,725 Um, you can join for as little as $2 a month you can join 57 00:02:44,785 --> 00:02:48,845 for hire, but minimum to get in the door, $2 a month. 58 00:02:48,845 --> 00:02:51,805 What you get for that is you get, uh, access 59 00:02:51,805 --> 00:02:52,845 to our Discord server. 60 00:02:52,975 --> 00:02:54,645 Super cool, super nice sters. 61 00:02:55,505 --> 00:02:57,405 And the way we run our Discord server, 62 00:02:57,595 --> 00:03:01,125 it's not a meetup hookup like dating thing. 63 00:03:01,225 --> 00:03:03,325 We, we don't do that . 64 00:03:03,995 --> 00:03:07,285 It's a, Hey, come be kind of your full self. 65 00:03:07,505 --> 00:03:11,125 So we absolutely have channels that are devoted to kink. 66 00:03:11,545 --> 00:03:14,165 Um, but we also have channels that are for, 67 00:03:14,705 --> 00:03:16,645 if you're a crafter, you can share 68 00:03:16,645 --> 00:03:18,845 what you're working on if you have pets 69 00:03:18,845 --> 00:03:21,925 and wanna share pictures if you are a gamer, 70 00:03:21,945 --> 00:03:25,805 if you're a reader, if you are, oh, all kinds of stuff. 71 00:03:25,835 --> 00:03:28,445 Like we just, we have tons of channels that are 72 00:03:28,705 --> 00:03:30,485 for all the other parts of your life as well. 73 00:03:30,985 --> 00:03:33,365 And just for the record, when I say we don't do the dating 74 00:03:33,505 --> 00:03:35,285 hookup thing through our community, 75 00:03:35,515 --> 00:03:37,925 that doesn't mean people have not met there 76 00:03:38,065 --> 00:03:40,125 and then gotten into relationships, 77 00:03:40,225 --> 00:03:44,325 but they did it in the way that is kind of our preference 78 00:03:44,345 --> 00:03:47,005 and the, the way we recommend for, for most people, 79 00:03:47,435 --> 00:03:48,765 they became friends first 80 00:03:48,825 --> 00:03:50,325 and got to know one another as people 81 00:03:50,785 --> 00:03:53,405 and then a relationship formed. 82 00:03:53,665 --> 00:03:56,405 So, um, just wanted to let you know that's 83 00:03:56,405 --> 00:03:57,605 what the Discord server is like. 84 00:03:58,425 --> 00:04:01,125 The other thing you get for as little as $2 a month 85 00:04:01,825 --> 00:04:04,525 is access to an exclusive video. 86 00:04:05,065 --> 00:04:06,605 It is about kink, 87 00:04:06,665 --> 00:04:09,045 but it's not like educational how to, 88 00:04:09,545 --> 00:04:10,565 here's how these things work. 89 00:04:10,585 --> 00:04:13,165 We keep that free, but it's usually fun stuff. 90 00:04:13,305 --> 00:04:15,765 So last year we started doing these videos 91 00:04:16,065 --> 00:04:18,805 and a lot of them were us taking 92 00:04:19,345 --> 00:04:21,125 online BDSM quizzes 93 00:04:21,305 --> 00:04:24,365 and, uh, me ranting about how awful many 94 00:04:24,365 --> 00:04:25,445 of them were . 95 00:04:26,265 --> 00:04:30,645 Um, but we've also played smash or pass, uh, and, 96 00:04:30,785 --> 00:04:33,485 and indulged in our geeky side. 97 00:04:33,585 --> 00:04:36,245 So we did one on Dr. Who characters. 98 00:04:36,265 --> 00:04:39,445 We did one on Star Trek, the Next Generation Characters. 99 00:04:39,745 --> 00:04:42,245 We did a random one that was just a mashup of all kinds. 100 00:04:42,575 --> 00:04:43,845 We'll probably do more this year. 101 00:04:44,385 --> 00:04:48,925 Um, we have done a reaction video to a, 102 00:04:49,185 --> 00:04:51,605 um, BDSM show. 103 00:04:51,665 --> 00:04:54,245 We did that once. It was exhausting 104 00:04:54,245 --> 00:04:57,325 because I'd never edited a video like that before. 105 00:04:57,625 --> 00:04:58,965 We haven't done another one since, 106 00:04:58,965 --> 00:05:00,005 but that doesn't mean we won't. 107 00:05:00,385 --> 00:05:01,965 So those are what the videos are like. 108 00:05:02,225 --> 00:05:06,165 We do a monthly behind the scenes podcast episode, um, 109 00:05:06,175 --> 00:05:08,725 where we talk about what we're doing professionally, 110 00:05:08,725 --> 00:05:10,405 like what's going on with the kry, what's going on 111 00:05:10,405 --> 00:05:12,125 with living BDSM, but we also 112 00:05:12,125 --> 00:05:13,165 talk about what's going on with us. 113 00:05:13,375 --> 00:05:17,125 Stuff that we don't really talk about publicly. 114 00:05:17,155 --> 00:05:20,285 Like you might hear a little bit more about, um, 115 00:05:20,545 --> 00:05:23,285 our family life or you'll hear a little bit more about some 116 00:05:23,285 --> 00:05:24,805 of the stuff we're going through. 117 00:05:25,185 --> 00:05:27,365 But we do also talk about the business stuff. 118 00:05:28,185 --> 00:05:30,325 So you get to kind of know stuff before it happens 119 00:05:30,945 --> 00:05:33,285 or know what's been going on behind the scenes. 120 00:05:33,285 --> 00:05:35,845 That's why it's called the Behind the Scenes podcast, um, 121 00:05:35,995 --> 00:05:37,565 that we might not really think 122 00:05:37,565 --> 00:05:39,565 to talk about when we're focused on 123 00:05:39,565 --> 00:05:40,685 talking about power exchanges. 124 00:05:41,105 --> 00:05:43,765 And then the other thing you get for that $2 minimum a month 125 00:05:44,745 --> 00:05:48,005 is a monthly live q and a. 126 00:05:48,005 --> 00:05:49,645 We live stream, usually it's on the 127 00:05:49,645 --> 00:05:50,685 first Saturday of the month. 128 00:05:50,905 --> 00:05:53,005 We take an hour and we'll answer questions 129 00:05:53,005 --> 00:05:54,445 and we'll chitchat and we'll hang out. 130 00:05:54,945 --> 00:05:58,525 Um, it's a slightly less chaotic version 131 00:05:58,705 --> 00:06:00,885 of our Friday Night live streams 132 00:06:00,885 --> 00:06:02,805 and it is focused on answering questions. 133 00:06:03,305 --> 00:06:07,045 Um, so that's what we offer for everybody who joins, 134 00:06:07,105 --> 00:06:10,125 no matter what tier you choose, 135 00:06:10,155 --> 00:06:11,325 what dollar amount you choose, 136 00:06:12,025 --> 00:06:16,485 if you choose higher than $2 a month, um, 137 00:06:16,705 --> 00:06:20,885 at the $5 level, you get access to our monthly game nights. 138 00:06:21,065 --> 00:06:23,325 We use our Discord server to chat 139 00:06:23,545 --> 00:06:25,725 and then we'll play an online game together. 140 00:06:25,955 --> 00:06:28,925 Last year we played a lot of Cards Against Humanity. 141 00:06:29,465 --> 00:06:32,685 Uh, the site that we were using got so buggy 142 00:06:32,705 --> 00:06:35,165 and so, oh, I was even paying for that site. 143 00:06:35,165 --> 00:06:38,965 Y'all. Um, we're not going to use that, at least for now. 144 00:06:39,135 --> 00:06:40,805 We're gonna look for other games this year. 145 00:06:41,945 --> 00:06:43,925 I'm in the process of figuring out what, um, 146 00:06:43,925 --> 00:06:45,165 what we wanna do with that. 147 00:06:45,625 --> 00:06:47,005 Um, but that's, we do 148 00:06:47,005 --> 00:06:48,885 that once a month, usually on a Friday night. 149 00:06:50,385 --> 00:06:55,005 And then at the $10 level, which is our official top tier, 150 00:06:55,115 --> 00:06:56,685 it's two, five or 10 y'all. 151 00:06:56,985 --> 00:06:59,885 Um, at the $10 level, you get everything that two 152 00:06:59,905 --> 00:07:01,245 and $5 levels get, 153 00:07:01,585 --> 00:07:06,485 but also you get access to any digital product. 154 00:07:06,625 --> 00:07:08,565 The digital downloads we sell in our Etsy shop, 155 00:07:08,585 --> 00:07:10,885 you get access to those, uh, at no charge. 156 00:07:11,185 --> 00:07:14,845 So our planner sheets are habit trackers, workbooks, um, 157 00:07:14,875 --> 00:07:16,325 including new workbooks. 158 00:07:16,325 --> 00:07:18,925 And I do have a plan to do a new workbook this year. 159 00:07:19,565 --> 00:07:21,205 I don't know when, but I do have a plan. 160 00:07:22,185 --> 00:07:23,565 And so you get that for free. 161 00:07:23,945 --> 00:07:25,525 You don't have to pay for that on Etsy. 162 00:07:25,825 --> 00:07:27,845 The other thing everybody gets, I don't usually make it like 163 00:07:27,845 --> 00:07:30,805 a huge selling point 'cause I don't, it's a perk, 164 00:07:30,805 --> 00:07:32,645 but I don't know that that's gonna entice anybody. 165 00:07:32,945 --> 00:07:36,405 You do get discounts to both, uh, our Etsy shop and the kry. 166 00:07:37,025 --> 00:07:40,325 Um, and those discounts are better than any sale we ever do. 167 00:07:40,505 --> 00:07:43,005 So you can use 'em all year long, that kind of stuff. 168 00:07:43,465 --> 00:07:45,685 So that's, that's what you get . 169 00:07:46,465 --> 00:07:48,925 Um, but why an annual membership drive? 170 00:07:49,145 --> 00:07:53,605 Why, uh, sign up now, now through February 15th, our, uh, 171 00:07:53,615 --> 00:07:55,005 membership drive is going on. 172 00:07:55,235 --> 00:07:57,925 Well, we do extra stuff to, you know, convince you 173 00:07:57,945 --> 00:08:00,525 to come hang out with the cool kids, you know, uh, . 174 00:08:00,705 --> 00:08:04,605 So the one thing that will, um, benefit any member 175 00:08:05,125 --> 00:08:07,925 regardless is you're gonna get a goodie in the mail, 176 00:08:08,835 --> 00:08:10,525 usually in mid to late March. 177 00:08:10,665 --> 00:08:12,845 It could be early April. 178 00:08:13,235 --> 00:08:15,525 Like timing is a little weird 'cause we have to make stuff. 179 00:08:16,025 --> 00:08:20,605 Um, this year the goodies, um, there's two, two of them, uh, 180 00:08:20,605 --> 00:08:23,405 the two and $5 tiers will get a sticker sheet 181 00:08:23,515 --> 00:08:25,605 that have some loving BDSM stickers 182 00:08:25,625 --> 00:08:27,405 and then like some little kinky stickers. 183 00:08:27,785 --> 00:08:30,565 Um, the designs that we're doing 184 00:08:30,565 --> 00:08:33,205 for our sticker sheet were chosen by current members. 185 00:08:34,265 --> 00:08:35,725 And then at the $10 level 186 00:08:36,105 --> 00:08:38,805 and anybody who might be paying more than $10 187 00:08:39,125 --> 00:08:40,725 'cause of old levels or other stuff. 188 00:08:41,245 --> 00:08:44,765 'cause there are ways to pay more than the we've created. 189 00:08:45,385 --> 00:08:47,845 Um, we'll get an enamel pin pin. 190 00:08:47,845 --> 00:08:50,245 This is the, uh, annual time to tease me about 191 00:08:50,305 --> 00:08:53,805 how my southern self says pin 192 00:08:54,585 --> 00:08:56,025 pin, PIN pin. 193 00:08:56,035 --> 00:08:57,585 Y'all. I'm southern, I can't help it. 194 00:08:58,125 --> 00:09:01,185 Anyway, um, the final design on 195 00:09:01,185 --> 00:09:04,025 that is also being chosen by current members. 196 00:09:04,445 --> 00:09:05,785 Um, because I couldn't decide, 197 00:09:05,785 --> 00:09:06,985 and there are two I wanted to do. 198 00:09:07,205 --> 00:09:10,065 And so I said, Hey, uh, which of these two? 199 00:09:10,485 --> 00:09:12,145 And they're, they're voting in a poll right now. 200 00:09:13,005 --> 00:09:16,265 So if you are a paying member as 201 00:09:16,265 --> 00:09:20,465 of February 15th, 2024, uh, to our Patreon, 202 00:09:20,465 --> 00:09:22,665 you're gonna get a goodie in the mail as long 203 00:09:22,665 --> 00:09:24,305 as we have your mailing address. 204 00:09:25,685 --> 00:09:28,385 The other thing we offer during this membership drive is 205 00:09:28,385 --> 00:09:31,225 for people who want to pay one time 206 00:09:31,605 --> 00:09:33,185 to get access for the full year. 207 00:09:33,285 --> 00:09:35,625 So a lot of people come into Patreon in general 208 00:09:35,685 --> 00:09:37,225 and they pay per month, which is good 209 00:09:37,225 --> 00:09:38,465 because it means you can, 210 00:09:39,085 --> 00:09:40,745 you can bounce whenever you gotta go. 211 00:09:40,745 --> 00:09:42,425 You're like, oh, I have money for this, 212 00:09:42,485 --> 00:09:44,185 or, oh, I'm not using this anymore. 213 00:09:44,245 --> 00:09:46,625 Or, oh, I don't even listen to their podcast anymore. 214 00:09:46,685 --> 00:09:49,865 I'm outta here. If you're a month to month subscriber, 215 00:09:49,935 --> 00:09:51,985 then you can leave whenever you need to 216 00:09:52,205 --> 00:09:53,265 and you don't have to keep paying. 217 00:09:53,485 --> 00:09:55,985 But a lot of people do like to just pay the one time, 218 00:09:55,985 --> 00:09:57,785 maybe when they have a little bit of extra cash in their 219 00:09:57,785 --> 00:09:59,985 pocket, then they get access for the full year 220 00:10:00,525 --> 00:10:01,865 during our membership drive. 221 00:10:01,885 --> 00:10:03,985 So that's now through February 15th. 222 00:10:04,245 --> 00:10:05,905 If you sign up as an annual member, 223 00:10:06,205 --> 00:10:07,665 you get two months for free. 224 00:10:07,765 --> 00:10:11,345 So what that means is you pay upfront for 10 months 225 00:10:11,365 --> 00:10:15,185 of access, but you get a full year to be a part 226 00:10:15,185 --> 00:10:16,865 of our Patreon and do all the things and, 227 00:10:16,925 --> 00:10:18,105 and hopefully have a good time 228 00:10:19,175 --> 00:10:20,585 outside of our membership drive. 229 00:10:21,045 --> 00:10:22,665 Uh, if you sign up as an annual member, 230 00:10:22,665 --> 00:10:24,305 you get one month free. 231 00:10:24,765 --> 00:10:28,025 Um, the right now, during this time you get two months free. 232 00:10:28,045 --> 00:10:29,545 And then, you know, depending on your tier, 233 00:10:29,575 --> 00:10:31,265 that can be a decent savings. 234 00:10:31,325 --> 00:10:33,865 You know, if you're at the $10 a month tier, 235 00:10:34,405 --> 00:10:36,025 that's $20 off, right? 236 00:10:37,165 --> 00:10:41,305 Um, do we, can we offer anything special like that 237 00:10:41,365 --> 00:10:42,745 for month to month subscribers? 238 00:10:42,845 --> 00:10:44,425 No. Not because we don't want to, but 239 00:10:44,425 --> 00:10:46,865 because Patreon doesn't let us. 240 00:10:47,485 --> 00:10:49,465 Um, the one thing we do offer for five 241 00:10:49,465 --> 00:10:53,145 and $10 tiers, you can come join our community 242 00:10:53,175 --> 00:10:56,785 with a seven day free trial to take a look around, 243 00:10:57,085 --> 00:10:58,225 see if it's what you want. 244 00:10:58,765 --> 00:10:59,945 The thing for the membership drive 245 00:10:59,945 --> 00:11:03,425 to get your goodie is you have to be a paying member 246 00:11:04,085 --> 00:11:05,385 as a February 15th. 247 00:11:05,485 --> 00:11:08,985 So if you take advantage of the seven day trial, you need 248 00:11:08,985 --> 00:11:09,985 to have started paying 249 00:11:10,165 --> 00:11:11,825 by the time the membership drive is over. 250 00:11:12,205 --> 00:11:16,985 So you're on the list that Patreon gives me of members 251 00:11:17,085 --> 00:11:18,105 who get this goody. 252 00:11:18,165 --> 00:11:19,545 So that is something to keep in mind. 253 00:11:19,725 --> 00:11:23,385 But, um, if you're like me, maybe I'll do that. 254 00:11:23,505 --> 00:11:26,785 But I don't know. You can come in as a, a free member 255 00:11:26,845 --> 00:11:29,905 for seven days, take a look around, see if it's, you know, 256 00:11:29,905 --> 00:11:32,505 the right vibe for you before you spend any money. 257 00:11:32,605 --> 00:11:35,905 So that is also an option that we, uh, now offer. 258 00:11:36,185 --> 00:11:37,665 'cause Patreon lets us offer that option. 259 00:11:39,125 --> 00:11:40,545 Um, I am out of breath 260 00:11:40,545 --> 00:11:41,425 because I think I'm talking 261 00:11:41,455 --> 00:11:43,545 without actually stopping to breathe. 262 00:11:43,635 --> 00:11:46,185 Sorry, y'all , this would be normally 263 00:11:46,185 --> 00:11:49,185 where I'd throw it to JB and like calm myself. 264 00:11:49,245 --> 00:11:52,065 But he's not here 'cause he's recovering on the couch right 265 00:11:52,065 --> 00:11:54,965 now watching a lot of Netflix, by the way, if you, 266 00:11:55,025 --> 00:11:57,045 if you didn't, wondered what he was doing. 267 00:11:58,595 --> 00:12:02,245 Okay. So all of that is at patreon.com/kayla lords. 268 00:12:02,305 --> 00:12:06,365 Um, a link to our Patreon is in the show notes, a link to, 269 00:12:07,065 --> 00:12:08,405 um, a blog post we wrote 270 00:12:08,405 --> 00:12:11,005 where I outline everything I just said for people who need 271 00:12:11,365 --> 00:12:14,605 to read it and see it visually for, to like understand 272 00:12:14,605 --> 00:12:16,685 what the, what the hell I just fucking said. 273 00:12:17,025 --> 00:12:18,685 Uh, that will be in the show notes. 274 00:12:19,505 --> 00:12:21,765 The thing I also wanna make sure that we say is, 275 00:12:21,765 --> 00:12:22,805 while we appreciate, 276 00:12:22,805 --> 00:12:26,085 and God knows we do, y'all, I just can't even tell you 277 00:12:26,085 --> 00:12:27,765 how much we appreciate financial support. 278 00:12:28,625 --> 00:12:33,285 Um, if you don't have cash to be spending on our Patreon 279 00:12:33,285 --> 00:12:35,885 or to buy stuff from the Kry or to buy stuff from the Etsy 280 00:12:35,885 --> 00:12:38,165 and you're just like a broke bitch, like, like we are, 281 00:12:38,165 --> 00:12:41,685 quite frankly, you are no less valuable to us 282 00:12:41,825 --> 00:12:44,725 and no less a part of our overall community. 283 00:12:44,725 --> 00:12:48,845 Okay? Y'all, we cherish everybody who is willing to listen 284 00:12:48,865 --> 00:12:51,605 to the sound of this fucking voice right here, okay? 285 00:12:52,265 --> 00:12:56,285 Um, if you would like to support the work we do, 286 00:12:56,905 --> 00:12:58,525 but you don't have any money to spend 287 00:12:58,525 --> 00:12:59,885 or that's, this is not where, 288 00:13:00,255 --> 00:13:02,965 where you're gonna spend the money that you do have. 289 00:13:03,055 --> 00:13:05,325 There are things you can do that don't cost a time. 290 00:13:05,905 --> 00:13:08,965 You know, if you have an online kink community, whether 291 00:13:08,965 --> 00:13:10,165 that's in Discord 292 00:13:10,185 --> 00:13:12,485 or it's on social media, feel free 293 00:13:12,485 --> 00:13:15,125 to share like our episodes or our website 294 00:13:15,125 --> 00:13:18,565 or our, you know, that handle I fucking hate on Instagram, 295 00:13:18,885 --> 00:13:20,685 , you know, tell people about us, you know, 296 00:13:20,685 --> 00:13:21,765 tell other kink sters about us. 297 00:13:22,305 --> 00:13:24,925 Um, if you ever hear an episode that you're like, 298 00:13:25,075 --> 00:13:27,365 this shit is life changing, or you watch a video 299 00:13:27,365 --> 00:13:30,485 and you're like, this shit is life changing, share it where 300 00:13:31,105 --> 00:13:33,125 you feel safe and comfortable to do that. 301 00:13:33,125 --> 00:13:34,285 That can be on fat life. 302 00:13:34,825 --> 00:13:38,005 Um, that can be on social media, that can be in discord, 303 00:13:38,005 --> 00:13:40,205 that can be kick, that can be WhatsApp. 304 00:13:40,205 --> 00:13:42,645 Like wherever you're hanging out with other kinky people 305 00:13:42,645 --> 00:13:44,045 and it is safe for you to do. 306 00:13:44,045 --> 00:13:46,285 So. That is an easy 307 00:13:46,825 --> 00:13:51,445 and no-cost way to help us keep helping other Sters. 308 00:13:52,345 --> 00:13:55,325 The money is great and we, we need the money . 309 00:13:56,105 --> 00:13:58,805 But I also know that not everybody can do that. 310 00:13:58,825 --> 00:14:02,605 And I don't want anybody to think that we 311 00:14:03,515 --> 00:14:08,165 care more about people with money than people without money. 312 00:14:08,305 --> 00:14:10,365 We are also people without money. . 313 00:14:10,785 --> 00:14:12,725 Um, I say this is somebody who's telling 314 00:14:12,725 --> 00:14:13,885 you about her Patreon. 315 00:14:14,305 --> 00:14:16,565 It is what helps us pay the, uh, the mortgage. 316 00:14:16,795 --> 00:14:20,045 It's not like, it's not money that I go, Ooh, I'm gonna go 317 00:14:20,045 --> 00:14:21,525 to a fancy dinner on y'all. 318 00:14:22,265 --> 00:14:24,765 So I feel you. If you're like, uh, nope, I'm a broke bitch. 319 00:14:24,925 --> 00:14:26,045 I, I don't have it to give. 320 00:14:26,105 --> 00:14:29,285 It sounds great, but I I promise we still love you. 321 00:14:29,825 --> 00:14:33,205 You are a part of our wider total community. 322 00:14:33,225 --> 00:14:36,085 We consider everybody who pays us any fucking attention 323 00:14:36,085 --> 00:14:37,165 and is, is not an asshole. 324 00:14:37,485 --> 00:14:38,685 A member of our community. 325 00:14:39,185 --> 00:14:42,285 Our inner kink community is through Patreon. 326 00:14:42,585 --> 00:14:45,445 And that is where we just, we just offer more stuff 327 00:14:46,265 --> 00:14:48,525 to hopefully make it worth the, 328 00:14:48,745 --> 00:14:49,845 the, the spending you're doing. 329 00:14:49,845 --> 00:14:52,925 That's all I'm saying. So if you can 330 00:14:53,025 --> 00:14:55,205 and are interested in if we've ever helped you 331 00:14:55,465 --> 00:14:57,165 or your relationship or your kink life 332 00:14:57,165 --> 00:14:59,845 and you got a little, little money that you are willing 333 00:14:59,865 --> 00:15:04,045 to spend to help us do the thing, patreon.com/kayla lords. 334 00:15:04,375 --> 00:15:06,285 Again, if you're a month to month subscriber, 335 00:15:06,285 --> 00:15:08,165 you don't like, you don't have to hang out for forever. 336 00:15:08,265 --> 00:15:10,205 You could just come in for a couple months if you want, 337 00:15:10,265 --> 00:15:13,165 get the goodie and then, you know, bounce, that's fine. 338 00:15:13,665 --> 00:15:15,325 Um, but if you don't have any money 339 00:15:15,465 --> 00:15:17,365 and you just, just let people know we exist, 340 00:15:17,545 --> 00:15:18,885 you know, that's all. 341 00:15:18,915 --> 00:15:21,165 Tell other sters like, Hey, this, 342 00:15:21,195 --> 00:15:24,205 this podcast is not the worst thing I've ever listened to. 343 00:15:24,905 --> 00:15:26,925 Uh, yes, they're chaotic, 344 00:15:27,385 --> 00:15:29,285 but they're fun, you know, whatever. 345 00:15:29,675 --> 00:15:32,405 Just you can do that too. And that, that is appreciated. 346 00:15:33,145 --> 00:15:35,565 So that is my Ramly commercial. 347 00:15:35,655 --> 00:15:36,685 Y'all wanna know a little thing? 348 00:15:36,805 --> 00:15:38,805 I told JB I thought it would be under 10 minutes. 349 00:15:39,015 --> 00:15:40,765 Y'all know, y'all know I was wrong the 350 00:15:40,765 --> 00:15:41,805 moment I said the words right? 351 00:15:42,745 --> 00:15:45,725 That's it though. Um, there are probably details 352 00:15:45,725 --> 00:15:47,485 that I meant to tell you and I have forgotten. 353 00:15:47,635 --> 00:15:48,645 I'll think about that later. 354 00:15:48,975 --> 00:15:50,445 We'll talk about it again next week, 355 00:15:50,845 --> 00:15:52,085 assuming there is an episode. 356 00:15:52,085 --> 00:15:54,725 Again, I won't shut up about the membership drive 357 00:15:54,935 --> 00:15:56,445 until the membership drive is over. 358 00:15:56,615 --> 00:15:59,405 Y'all know me. So with that, I'm gonna go, 359 00:15:59,865 --> 00:16:02,125 I'm gonna go check on jb, make sure he's doing good. 360 00:16:02,255 --> 00:16:04,885 Check on the 14-year-old, make sure he's doing good. 361 00:16:05,545 --> 00:16:07,765 Um, maybe I'll sit and rest too at some point. 362 00:16:08,305 --> 00:16:11,365 Uh, and I will talk to y'all later. Okay?