00:00:00:01 - 00:00:07:13 Unknown Welcome to fuel your dry. 00:00:07:15 - 00:00:23:13 Unknown Guys, what's going on? Welcome to Feel Your Drive. I am your host, Josh York. We have another amazing episode in store for you today. Before we get started, as you know, like share, subscribe, tell a friend I need and I want the numbers to keep climbing. They keep climbing and I want them climbing more. And I cannot do it without each and every one of you. 00:00:23:13 - 00:00:41:20 Unknown And I want to thank you all for tuning in and listening means the absolute world for me. Today I want to get into something that I talk about all the time, but I'm really going to dive deep on this and it's quite simple. Okay? Success and comfort do not live in the same room. It will never, ever happen. 00:00:41:22 - 00:01:14:14 Unknown And I really want to talk about this because if you really want to be successful, you're not going to be comfortable, okay? It's just never going to happen. Comfort. Once safety, predictability and validation. Success demands risk exposure and the most painful of all, uncertainty. And a lot of people can't handle that okay. You cannot demise for both. It just doesn't work. 00:01:14:16 - 00:01:41:09 Unknown All right. So look one day it gets easier. You know, once once I get there, I'll relax. I'll grind now so I can be comfortable later. But the truth is responsibility scales, pressure follows progress and comfort doesn't arrive. It gets traded. Okay. And this is where it really gets real. Like comfort cost you. There's a price, right? For comfort. 00:01:41:11 - 00:02:03:22 Unknown Your edge, your honesty, your will, your willingness to be seen failing and your growth rate. Look, comfort doesn't ruin your life. It slowly convinces you not to build the one you wanted. And I really want to touch on this because everyone out there wants greatness. Everyone out there wants to do big things, and you know you can do it on your own. 00:02:03:22 - 00:02:22:16 Unknown You can do it within an amazing organization, but you're never, ever going to do it. If you're looking to to to just be on the calm, easy. Everything's predictable. All right. This is what I'm going to do tomorrow. I'm going to come in and I'm going to start exactly 9:00. I'm going to stop at 12. I'm going to go for lunch for one hour. 00:02:22:22 - 00:02:44:13 Unknown I'm going to come back and I'm going to work to for 59, turn everything off, and then I'm going to leave for the day. It doesn't work like that. If you want that, there's nothing wrong with that. You could also work inside an organization, a great company and just be a great team member. But if you want to be at the top, if you want to be at the top, you have to understand success and comfort. 00:02:44:13 - 00:03:06:10 Unknown Do not live in the same room. It will never, ever happen. So here's the price of real success. If you want real success, look, this is what comes with it, especially in the beginning. Loneliness, self-doubt, decision fatigue, identity, instability, outgrowing people and versions of you. I can't tell you. Like, I touched on this such a long time ago. 00:03:06:12 - 00:03:27:14 Unknown How? You know, I grew up, with with this guy, but, like, best friends with him. And years later, I bumped into him. I we lost kind of lost contact, and I was almost turned off by just speaking to him like I've outgrown him so much that it just wasn't, you know, for me anymore. And that's okay, right? 00:03:27:14 - 00:03:51:01 Unknown You can still be friends with people like that, but, you know, you want to minimize, you know, you know, you want to minimize the contacts. But look at the at the end of the day, you got to understand that, you know, success. It doesn't break people. It really reveals who they never prepared to be. That's it. If you want to be great, you have to choose and decide and say, I'm going to be great. 00:03:51:03 - 00:04:09:05 Unknown You know, I'll give you a good example. Everyone wants to be successful, but a lead comes in. They don't want to call the lead back right away. That, that that, you know, you say you want it. No, you really don't want it. If you really want it, you're going to be obsessed. You're going to be an animal. You're going to be nonstop. 00:04:09:08 - 00:04:30:11 Unknown You will not stop until you get every single, you know. Yeah, I dotted key, crossed every single part of the process dialed in. It's got to be dialed in so strongly that, you know, you just power everybody else. If someone else you know is trying to get that lead, you got to literally do whatever you can to get to get in before that person. 00:04:30:11 - 00:04:45:02 Unknown Right? If you need to get a seat at the table, there's only four seats. You better make sure you find that seat at the table and get that seat at the table. If someone tells you it can't be done, well, that's a lie. It can be done. Get it done. If someone tells you your goals are unrealistic, that's a bunch of nonsense. 00:04:45:02 - 00:05:06:13 Unknown There's no such thing. Have bigger goals. Dream bigger, think bigger. You have to set the level so high that people just don't even understand you. That's really what it takes. And you know, most people are not willing to really pay that price. And also you got to choose a room you want to be in right? You know, yeah, you got to have that clarity. 00:05:06:13 - 00:05:28:19 Unknown And it's very, very important. And you know, if if you are trying to do something now and you feel very uncomfortable, great, you are doing something right, okay. That is how you know you're on the right road and you're headed in the right direction. Okay? People talk about, you know, how bad it is to do drugs. I don't do drugs. 00:05:28:19 - 00:05:54:01 Unknown I don't drink alcohol. You know, I don't. Just not for me. And, I just would never do it, you know, that's that's almost like, you know, resorting to, like, comfort. Right? People, people use, you know, those, you know, those methods, whether it's drinking, taking drugs to kind of calm themselves, take them away because they might be going through pain or going through something in their life. 00:05:54:03 - 00:06:09:04 Unknown You don't need to be doing things like that. You need to be figuring out how to build your mental, you know, strength to push through that, because the drugs are like the comfort, right? You know, and that's why you're not going to be successful. But here is one thing that I want to flip on here, and I want to try this. 00:06:09:04 - 00:06:26:01 Unknown I don't want to sidetrack, but it's very important to hear some of the most addictive people in the world already have the qualities of what it takes to be successful. They just have to shift those qualities from you know, getting comfort in an area that you know that that should not be allowed, like taking drugs or drinking or whatever. 00:06:26:07 - 00:06:44:02 Unknown And, you know, use that, flip it and use that towards something else. Because at the end of the day, don't try to, you know, when you're going through a tough time and you are uncomfortable or you're trying to like, get away from something and it doesn't have to just be in business. It could be in your personal life. 00:06:44:04 - 00:07:18:09 Unknown This could be, you know, with a relationship, with a spouse, partner, friend doesn't matter. But you have to be able to handle that pain. And, you know, I always relate to situations throughout my life that I've gone through where, you know, some of them are very, very painful. Like, you know, where I suffer from anxiety and and I look back and I'm just like, man, all these things set me up for what I was going to do with my life, because the amount of pain I've gone through and still go through on a daily basis is just unbelievable, but it doesn't affect me anymore. 00:07:18:09 - 00:07:42:03 Unknown I become numb to those feelings because I've trained myself on such a high level. And just like you train yourself to do a marathon or you train yourself, you know, to, you know, study to take a test and pass, you got to train yourself the same way to enjoy the pain, laugh at the pain, you know, use that as your tool to know you are on the right road if you're suffering. 00:07:42:03 - 00:08:02:21 Unknown Okay. So I'm going to finish off here. If you're suffering and you're uncomfortable and you're uncertain and you're not sure what to do, take a second to stop and say, wow, I'm actually on the right road because that is what is involved. In order to get to the level of success you want to achieve. And I'm not just talking about money, right? 00:08:02:21 - 00:08:26:24 Unknown I'm talking about in life, relationships, family. I'm talking about everything. If it was so easy, everything would be fantastic for everyone. But most people are not willing to pay the price. So be the person that's willing to pay the price because trust me, it's worth it 700,000 times over. Guys. Until next time, fuel your drive. See? 00:08:27:01 - 00:08:40:15 Unknown Login. You know my name? My name is legit.