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Is it possible to achieve 100 percent happiness

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in your life? I mean, waking up practically

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every single day

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being exactly where you want being content and

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just feeling like, I am at a 10

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out of 10, and I feel great.

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Is it possible?

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We're gonna talk about that today on Micro

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dose u, I am doctor Dave, so glad

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you're here with me.

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Mushrooms

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Hey. There welcome. I am Doctor. Dave. Thanks

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much beer with me today. I really appreciate

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you. And

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This is a question, you know, we talk

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about all the time. And so many people

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are here. Maybe you

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because you just don't feel like you're exactly

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where you wanna be in your life. You're

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just not... You're not feeling 100 percent happy.

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And I know many people are also here

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because of some type of mental health issues

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such as depression or anxiety or even other

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things.

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But a lot of that has to do

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with happiness

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When you're not happy,

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it can lead to stresses on your body,

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which then

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lead to

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you know, depression and anxiety and and a

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lot more also. Now not a hundred percent,

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but very often that is the case, If

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things are going really, really well in your

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life and your happiness factor is a 10

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out of 10.

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Then there's generally a very good chance you're

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not going to be experiencing mental health issues

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as well. It's a lot of times this,

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you know, they go hand in hand. But

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let's talk about this. Let's talk about... First

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of all, do I think it's possible

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to get to a 10 out of 10

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on the happiness scale and and live that

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life almost every single day. Now, of course,

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they're gonna be things that get in the

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way. I mean, it for a loved 1

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dies,

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then you're you're not gonna be happy about

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that, but that doesn't really mean

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that your general letting in your general life

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you're not happy. Let's make make that very

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clear. There are things as human beings go

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through things you know, all the time

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that you know, can can make us upset,

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make a sad, but that doesn't mean we're

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not happy inherently.

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And what I wanna do is talk about

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is it, possible to really live a 100

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percent happy lifestyle. At 100 percent happy life.

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My answer is going to be an emphatic

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yes.

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I really believe that. How do I know

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that?

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Because I've gotten there. And it's taking me

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a long time and I've probably shared some

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of this stuff with you in the past,

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but I was...

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You, in the past, I was not happy.

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I was living a life that was... I

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I couldn't say I was 100 percent happy.

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Had a lot of different things going on

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that were... Not only causing me unhappiness

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and stress, but

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also depression and anxiety,

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but when I started

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studying this and trying to, you know,

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every day into this... It's it's to working

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on my life and and get achieving

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100 percent happiness.

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I am there,

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I I just wanna share with you

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what it took and how you can do

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this.

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So 1 of the first things that comes

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to people's minds is

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if I just had more money. If I

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just had a lot of money, if I

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were wealthy.

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Of course, I'd be happy.

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Yeah. You throw 10000000 dollars of me and

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I'd be happy. Well,

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that's...

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Not me talking and that's other people talking

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because I've learned that that's

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absolutely

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the farthest thing from the truth that you

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could possibly believe.

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Now, of course, money is important in some

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regards. It really is I'm not gonna minimize

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money because you need money to put food

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on the table that, you know, to eat

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to pay your bills to heat your house

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to use the air conditioning to pay your

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car insurance,

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maybe send your kids to school. Whatever whatever

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it might be, you need money for that

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but above and beyond,

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the amount of money that you use on

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a regular basis, you know, keep yourself alive

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and keep yourself fed and keep yourself warm

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and clothes and everything like that. And entertain,

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of course, you need inter... When you all

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need some entertainment, but But above and beyond

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that,

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the more money you have

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the happier you are not. It doesn't make

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you happier.

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And I'll share just a real little quick

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example with you on money because again, when

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people talk about happiness, 1 of the first

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things that comes to their mind is money.

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It give me more money. I'll be happy.

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Well, I've got this person that I know,

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and he is... Let's just say he's very,

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very wealthy.

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you you would believe that he's really, really

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happy he drives really

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beautiful cars,

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his... The clothes he wears or or, like,

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the absolute finest.

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He's always in looks like he's in good

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shape. He goes through the gym he works

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out. He's tan.

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His hair is perfect. His glasses are beautiful,

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you know, designer glasses and and know, anybody

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who would look at this person say, wow,

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he's... He's achieved total happiness. He's there.

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person pretty intimately,

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He's actually very far from there. And if

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I had to if I had to give

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him a score. If I just had to

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guess from knowing this person very well how

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happy he is and remember he's He's very

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wealthy.

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I would probably give him a score of

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he's probably in the 2 or 3 range.

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He's got money. He's got he's got everything

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he wants.

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How... Why what do you mean? Why would

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you give him 2 or 3 in in

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the happiness scale?

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struggling

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with his life and nothing's working well and

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you could have all the money in the

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world that you want, but, you know, he's...

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And without going in any more details, you're

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gonna have to trust me this.

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The more money you have does not equate

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to.

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More happiness, and you might be saying, okay.

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Well doctor Dave, that might not be true,

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but you throw a few million dollars of

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me, and I promise you all be happy.

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Well, you might be saying that We might

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be joking about this right now, but trust

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me. It's really not true.

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Where I was working as a dentist.

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I I was making a really good income,

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schools and we had beautiful cars and nice

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big house and

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deep down inside,

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was not living a happy life. I was

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not hanging around the people that I wanted

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to be hanging around with, my relationship in

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my marriage. I knew in my heart was

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not what it should have been.

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And I was struggling.

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lot of my problems that would happen in

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the future such as the depression and the

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anxiety and it wasn't until I change that

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entire lifestyle.

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That and and and really work on my

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life every single day. And, yeah, with micro

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dosing with micro dosing magic mushrooms, you don't

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I know this podcast is all about micro

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dosing magic mushrooms, but you can still be

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100 percent happy

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without ever touching a magic mushroom.

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Boom magic mushrooms get you there

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faster and easier. Yep. Very possibly. Yes. Yes.

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Very possibly. I... I'm a firm believer.

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here's what I'm gonna say is that you

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can be

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a great micro.

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You can micro dose.

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Exactly on schedule with the right amount,

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but unless you do other things in your

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life.

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I promise you

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you will not achieve

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the 100 percent happiness.

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You won't.

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Now what are some of these things I'm

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talking about? What are some of the things

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that you need to

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fix or adjust?

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Before you can really truly reach 100 percent

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happiness.

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And by the way, what is 100 percent

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happiness even feel like

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What does it feel like to wake up

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every single day and be 100 percent happy.

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it's hard to put into words?

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your gut.

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ready for this day.

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I'm gonna divide through.

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Everything's beautiful in my life,

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and let's do it. And and it's and

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again, it's very hard to explain.

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feeling the 100 percent happiness, you will know

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it. And and I just I just took

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an informal survey on in my Facebook group.

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where are they in their happiness? And, you

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know, it ranged anywhere from close to 0

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or 0 to to some people said,

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9. Very very few it's interesting. Very few

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said 10. And I find that interesting

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is it that they're

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really not 10 or is it they're afraid

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to admit that there a 10?

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most people seem to average around

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but do you wanna live your life?

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happiness goes.

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When you can be a 10, do you

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want do you want do you want to

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live your life like that?

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that you need to do to

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get yourself to 100 percent happiness every day?

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things are gonna happen in your life that

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you're gonna feel some days that you're not

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you're not happy because, you know, your a

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parent has died or a spouse just died.

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But again, that doesn't mean you're not happy.

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That means you're dealing with a life Christ,

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and everybody does. And there's no way to

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avoid that nor what I ever even suggest

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trying to

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not deal because you have to... We have

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all have to deal with life to life

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crises,

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But that that has nothing to do with

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happiness. It it really doesn't.

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But

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What what do you have to do

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besides the micro dosing or in addition to

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the micro dosing to to achieve

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100 percent. What do you have to do?

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Well, you have to examine your life very

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very deeply and honestly,

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and totally transparent, you have to be really

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honest with yourself and this is

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this is an area where a lot of

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people had a struggle and have a problem

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because a lot of people,

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and you'll see it on social media.

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They're mas rating as being happy.

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You know exactly what I'm talking about. You

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see people some of your friends on Facebook.

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Or Instagram or whatever it might be every

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day,

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and they're pretending to be happy, but you

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know

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and I know

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that these people aren't are not happy, but

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they they pretend,

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but we're not here you're here with me.

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We're not pretending anymore.

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We're not pretend. We are... We're the real

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deal we wanna be truly happy.

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So you have to examine your life honestly.

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You have to take some time, take some

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time off. I've always talked about just being

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by yourself,

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And I'd love

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going away by myself, and just being somewhere

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totally.

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By myself and thinking, and I I like

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to go out to eat by myself. I

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like to take a hike by myself. I

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like to, you know, travel by myself. That

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doesn't mean I don't like to be with

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my wife. I love to be with my

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wife. But sometimes we need that alone time.

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Just to think

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think about our lives.

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So I want you to do that, and

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I want you to really think deeply. And

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it... What is it?

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What is it in your life that is

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just not

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helping with 100 percent happiness.

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Is it is it a relationship?

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You again, you have to be honest about

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this?

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Because in many instances, it is.

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And people are living in relationships and saying,

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well, you know, nothing's perfect,

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When when somebody's in a marriage,

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and they say to me, well, you know,

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my marriage is pretty good, but you know,

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nothing's perfect, then it's like that's a tremendous

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red flag to me.

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You know, I would I would never say

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that about my marriage.

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If if if you're saying well, not nothing's

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perfect. That means things are going on in

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your marriage or or whatever you're talking about

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whatever you're referring to, maybe you're saying no

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job is perfect.

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No work is perfect.

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But that's

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telling me that you've got you've got some

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struggles there.

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So if you're saying well, no nothing's perfect,

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in my marriage or in my worth and,

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you gotta look deeply and tell me what

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is it? What is it?

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What is it in your marriage or in

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your work that you're doing?

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Or in your friendships, your relationships.

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When you say, oh, nothing's perfect,

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what is it? That's not perfect. What is

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it? That's not working up because there's something

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there

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that's blocking your happiness. I guarantee that. And

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I want you to identify that.

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I want you to come clean. I, I

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want you to be honest.

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If you can't be honest about this right

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now,

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then you may never find the path to

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100 percent happiness.

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But if you can

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feel it

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and

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identify it

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and then work with it. What is it?

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What's going on there?

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Again, most commonly,

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relationships,

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jobs,

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family,

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friends,

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Money, it's only money if

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you're truly struggling and don't have enough for

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the basics.

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But if you're struggling because you can't

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buy the same cars as your friends have

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or or the same things or or the

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same

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mansions,

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then that's that's a big problem.

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Because keeping up what the Jones is trying

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to do everything your friends do,

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That's gonna lead to a tremendous amount of

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stress, destruction and unhappiness.

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It'll catch up to you somewhere. I I

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prom if it hasn't yet, I promise you.

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I see this again, I see this every

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day.

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People trying to live lives,

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that are way beyond

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their,

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you know,

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their their their financial ability

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They're trying to live a life, like, you

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you make, let's say you're you're at a

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5 financially, but you're trying to live an

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8.

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It's not gonna work because

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you're gonna have debt.

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And and then once you have debt, you're

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gonna have to pay it from somewhere and

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where you gonna get that.

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So you've gotta live within your means,

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and you might not be able to keep

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up with your friends and you shouldn't try.

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Because that's, again, that's a recipe for for

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unhappiness for sure.

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Maybe either...

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Stop trying to emulate everybody you're with or

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or stop hang around those people if they're

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if they're putting pressure on you some way.

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Yeah. We've all all gotta go out on

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this. We're all going out onto to this

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500 dollar dinner, if you don't come your

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a loser.

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Well, that... That's horrible.

429
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Look, I don't even I don't go out

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to 500 dollar dinners. I don't even do

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because it sounds ridiculous to me. I I

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don't I I don't wanna live like that.

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I wanna live a simple life.

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I don't have to show off to anybody

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but, you know, what I can do fancy

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what I I don't I don't need to

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do that. And if you're... In that situation,

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that's as again, a recipe for disaster.

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You're trying to keep up with your friends

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do what they do.

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It's... You're you're not gonna be happy. I

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promise you. It's not going to work. So

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I want you to

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really

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analyze your life very deeply and what are

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the roadblocks to your happiness? And and you

447
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know what they are. You can figure it

448
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out.

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Up to now, you may not have been

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able to admit it.

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But you can figure it out.

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Even where you live?

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Look, look, 5 years ago, my wife and

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I moved away from the East Coast, we

455
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just weren't happy there anymore. It was not

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bring us pleasure.

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So we packed up everything I've told you

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this story before we packed up everything and

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moved to Salt Lake City,

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Utah and

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Now

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everyday feels like a

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like a blessing.

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Because we're exactly in the location we want

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to be.

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You might be saying, well, I can't do

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that.

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Well,

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maybe maybe not.

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I I disagree with people that say quickly.

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I can I can't do that?

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I I... You know, I I've also worked

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with other people that whenever I pointed something

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out that is gonna help their life and

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help their happiness and decrease

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anxiety and depression.

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It's it's very easy for them to say,

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yeah, that sounds good, but

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There's always a butt.

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And that's why they're still where they are.

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Use them not willing to listen and listen

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deeply and change.

483
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Yeah. Sometimes it's frightening.

484
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But so many people...

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Yeah, but I can't do that.

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I'm calling bullshit that. You can do that.

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I think I think people these day, I

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think you can do anything you want in

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your life almost,

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almost.

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I'm not saying do anything super expensive.

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I'm saying make a change and do something

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different.

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Look,

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if you want to achieve 100

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percent happiness and you're not there.

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You would agree with me that you have

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to make changes.

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Because if you're not at 100 percent happiness

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right now, you're not at 10 out of

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10,

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then then you're not there. That there's nothing

503
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to be ashamed about. But it would be

504
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hard to disagree with me that in order

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to get there, you've gotta change something.

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That's hard to disagree with.

507
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Please you've been doing it this way for

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a long time and you're not there.

509
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So what are you gonna change?

510
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It might be something that you're uncomfortable changing.

511
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But I'd like to know why.

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I'd like to know what it is that

513
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you've identified that you just say, I... I'm

514
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not gonna... I can't change that. I'd I'd

515
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love to know. Send me an email. By

516
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the way, my email is always in my,

517
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the show notes. And the website, By the

518
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way, my website is is is blasting off

519
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guys,

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And gals, na come,

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na, as I call you all, na come,

522
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you're part of my family, my tribe, colleague,

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na come.

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The website, micro u dot com blast off.

525
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Wow,

526
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because I've got things on there that are

527
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gonna help you, and I'm adding more and

528
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more

529
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micro with a letter u on the end

530
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of it, micro u dot com. It's that

531
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easy.

532
00:19:20,292 --> 00:19:22,130
And every episode I do hear,

533
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whether you're watching me on Youtube or

534
00:19:26,443 --> 00:19:29,068
listening on Apple podcasts. I've got show notes.

535
00:19:29,958 --> 00:19:30,831
And I've got links.

536
00:19:32,576 --> 00:19:34,401
And also, in, you know, I could... We

537
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can help you 1 on 1

538
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if you you could... Don't have to do

539
00:19:37,834 --> 00:19:39,512
that part, but if you if you're really

540
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struggling, you can't get to where you wanna

541
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be,

542
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then you invest in yourself and you get

543
00:19:44,226 --> 00:19:45,685
some 1 on 1 help, which

544
00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,240
again, I can help. And and also, doctor

545
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I'd work with doctor Denise Mar, who's is

546
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a doctor of psychology with this stuff. And...

547
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Oh, we do 1 on 1, 1 on

548
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1 with you. No. You're not. It's not

549
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a group. It's 1 on 1... It'll be...

550
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Listen to you only

551
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and help you.

552
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And we used to only have

553
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a, a 10 week program. And, yeah. It's

554
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it's expensive, but it's it's still I still

555
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believe it's the best thing out there.

556
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It's an... It's a it's a 10 week

557
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program that you will

558
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get to where you wanna beat your goals.

559
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But we listen to you also.

560
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And now we have... We we offer a,

561
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you know, 1 session at a time if

562
00:20:21,998 --> 00:20:23,434
you like as well. 1 session. You could

563
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do 1 session with Doctor Denise.

564
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Talk about anything you want.

565
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Micro dosing,

566
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your your

567
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anxiety, your depression. It's not it's not medical.

568
00:20:34,461 --> 00:20:37,096
It's not medical device. It's not medical treatment.

569
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It's just it's just... We're helping you coaches.

570
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And and we... So we do offer 1

571
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session a time now. 290 dollars for a

572
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single session. If you if you book 2

573
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sessions, you got you get a really good

574
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discount on that 1 that as well.

575
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We're listening to you because we wanna help

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you.

577
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And and that's that's where we are.

578
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So

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again, can you achieve 100 percent happiness?

580
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I honestly believe the answer is yes,

581
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but the only roadblock right now is you.

582
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You've gotta make some changes if you're not

583
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there.

584
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And, yes,

585
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some of the changes

586
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might be uncomfortable.

587
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I had to do that.

588
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From my first marriage, it was terribly uncomfortable.

589
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And I think that's why maybe some people

590
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decide to stick with something that's that sucks

591
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because they're afraid of making big changes.

592
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And I understand, but it's not good.

593
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So, yeah, III got out of a marriage

594
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that wasn't working for me, and it was

595
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extremely difficult and very costly by the way.

596
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Cost me a ton of money.

597
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But here I am many years later

598
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with a soul mate, my soul mate and

599
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Yeah. She's appeared from the universe. The universe

600
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provided, we we got us together somehow. And

601
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where we live now, and and, again, I'm

602
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not just saying this

603
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because it's me. I'm I'm no different than

604
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you. I just... I've I've made some choices

605
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and I I identified some things and I've

606
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changed some things, and you can do the

607
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same thing.

608
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And along with the micro dosing,

609
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it's like you've got like a grand slam,

610
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you could you can do this faster than

611
00:22:20,106 --> 00:22:21,460
I ever did because when I did it,

612
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I didn't have the micro dosing. Available to

613
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me.

614
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So you you can you can do this.

615
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It's like, you know, W,

616
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you can get it done for sure, but

617
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It's gonna take some work for sure.

618
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But again, circling back to the original question,

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can you achieve 100 percent happiness in your

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life?

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My answer is an emphatic.

622
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Yes.

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Absolutely.

624
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You have to do it. You have to

625
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put the work in.

626
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I hope this really helped you.

627
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I'm doctor Dave, Micro dose u, new episode

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drops every

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what every Wednesday and every Friday.

630
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And I wanna say I do love you,

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and I feel your presence and I feel

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your love.