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Welcome to faith led Healing with Tammy Tray,

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integrative health practitioner and certified breath worker. Tammy

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passion is to help people take their life

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and health into their own hands so they

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can live their best life ever, Imagine having

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the energy to fill your dreams and create

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the life you desire. Rebalance your body by

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removing the stresses and toxicity and start healing.

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Listen has hem guides you along the healthy

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path with the law, reading the way.

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Good morning, my friends. Welcome to Faith blood

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healing. I am your host Tammy Tri.

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And today's episode number 32,

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and we are going to talk

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about our emotional health

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and how it plays a role in toxicity

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and in our healing.

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And I think it's a really

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extremely

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important subject.

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As I visit with clients,

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I see so often

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how their mental

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and emotional

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health,

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how they're thinking.

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Is holding them back.

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And oftentimes I experienced this unwillingness

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to let go

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of that

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place that's and there's things that are holding

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them into a a

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into a cycle into a vicious cycle

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and keeping them stuck

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because

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that heads space

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in that emotional space

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is

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a comfortable place for them,

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meaning that they know it really well.

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A lot of people combat change

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and

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combating our emotional and our mental, and even

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our spiritual health

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requires a little work on our part,

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I can't express enough to you

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how vital

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our

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mental,

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emotional and spiritual health

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plays a role in our healing.

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How does it affect us toxin wise?

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Well, that mental place,

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if it's not a good space,

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stress in the body.

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A lot of times extreme stress.

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what we are

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experiencing mentally.

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It's oftentimes not a reality.

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Can sometimes be a result of toxic overload.

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constant

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place of negativity

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that creates

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in us,

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you know,

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an unsafe and and untrue

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environment to live out of.

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And let me explain on that.

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When we get stuck in fight and flight,

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because of

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our emotional state.

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We create this space.

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Negativity breeds negativity.

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So you wake up 1 morning, I don't

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feel well.

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Feel good again.

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this is just my normal. I don't feel

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good all the time.

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into that space.

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When we're and fight and flight,

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get stuck.

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The best thing for that to eliminate

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that cycle and that negative heads space and

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escalation

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from bad to worse.

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Used to focus on our gratitude.

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Focus on the good in our lives and

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look at this.

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You are watching the sunrise rise directly behind

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me. Is this not amazing?

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You hear the birds chirping this morning I

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hope.

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You know, it's a choice for me. To

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be out here. It's humid.

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It rains. So it's really... I feel like

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there's this thick layer of

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stuff sitting on me right now. But you

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know what? Look at this. I'm watching it

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too.

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And it's an amazing thing.

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The world around us

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can makes such an impact on our mental,

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emotional and physical,

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and spiritual health.

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Taking such time

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and doing something sometimes that are a little

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uncomfortable in you get used to

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that negative place. It's uncomfortable to think about

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the good things. It's uncomfortable to think that

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you could possibly be well after you've not

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been well for so long.

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And maybe you're just a pessimistic person and

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you are well, but you just live out

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of this negative head space all the time.

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I promise you it's not gonna serve you

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that negativity

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breeds negativity

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and that negativity in the body

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creates turmoil,

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and it does create its own toxicity.

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When you're in a stressed place, you cause

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great imbalance in the gut, and that imbalance

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in the gut creates its own toxicity

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and levels of toxic that that that,

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and bad gut health becomes

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you know, our gut health

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is a direct reflection of our mental space

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as well.

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as you are detox,

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it is absolutely

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imperative

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that your mental,

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from my experience

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and what I see, your spiritual

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Your spiritual health needs to be up there

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too. So what did I do before I

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just got on here with you? I was

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sucking this up. It's just a gorgeous morning.

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Humid or not. It's a gorgeous morning. I

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love hearing

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the birds and the animals coming alive. There's

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a mess up house benches right here on

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the porch with me.

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They hatch last week.

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Their eyes opened on Monday, and Tuesday, they

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took flight. It's amazing just to to watch

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the miraculous

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around us.

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I also did my devotion, and I spent

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time with God reading his word and pulling

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into him. They also did some expressive writing

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and journal,

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Is there a difference? Yes. There is a

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difference.

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Expressive writing is basically just a purge you

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brain down

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For some of you, it may just be

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all negative negativity,

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spewing out of you. It's okay.

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Set a timer and right whatever's in your

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head, whatever you're combating, whatever you're you're dealing

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with, whatever the demons are.

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Just right for 15 minutes. Doesn't have to

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be pretty. Doesn't have to be perfect.

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Write on some scrap paper and after 15

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minutes when you're done,

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rip it up, throw it away, burn it

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in your fire pit.

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And then get out your journal.

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Right. You're grad to

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Write your prayers to god.

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Right to yourself,

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how beautifully

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and a wonderfully made you are. How strong,

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how courageous,

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how you are not defined

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by your illness.

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by your sins,

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by your past.

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ability to see our worth.

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We're not defined by our performance.

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We're not defined by our size

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You're defined by god.

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And when we can get rid of all

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of that negative chatter. And all of those

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from our past, and all those hurtful things

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that are hanging on and in there

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and that surface periodically

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as the enemies

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know, running through your head,

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you're not worthy. You're not good enough. You'll

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never amount to anything, you know, I've verbally

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heard those things

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growing up.

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You're fat.

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I heard those things.

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The enemy replaces these things because he knows

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as are weak spots for many of us.

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Meaning to combat those things by

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expressive writing

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every morning.

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And then journal, our gratitude and our prayers

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to God pulling into God.

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It is 1 of the most amazing ways

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along with taking in stuff like this. I

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wanted to share it with you this morning.

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Normally my time with God is much longer.

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I will probably maybe go back and read

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But I saw the need to share this

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with you this morning.

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Because so often things like this because we're

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stuck in our heads,

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we miss.

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and mental battle,

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and we stay in that negative place too

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long.

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Anxiety sets in.

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Worry sets in,

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and we stay under the covers a little

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longer.

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We hide in the corner a little longer

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and we miss stuff like this.

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I don't want you to miss it.

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Go horse go.

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I don't want you to miss this.

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So if you didn't have the courage and

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the strength to do it on your own

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today, I hope you're enjoying watching the sunrise

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with me here.

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We have great power

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over our minds,

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our bodies

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and our spirits.

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Some of the other topics we've talked about

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in this detox series

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is self care.

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When you bring together self care

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nurturing your emotional

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and mental and spiritual side.

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It's a beautiful

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combination. To me, this is self care.

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This is amazing self care.

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My dog is laying in front of me

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here on the floor.

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She's probably gonna jump up when I say

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this because every morning, we walk out in

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that stuff. Yes, her head just lifted it

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up. It's like she said the w would.

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We walk. We go out here and we

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enjoy this.

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morning because of the rain, there's a mist

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It's is beautiful. To hear the birds.

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Being out in nature is 1 of the

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most nurturing things.

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Some people have allergies. Some people have a

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an aversion of bugs.

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Maybe you don't have a beautiful space like

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this near you.

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I will be sharing this with you every

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week.

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I make it a point and try really

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hard

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to share

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my backdrop with you guys as much as

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I possibly can

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because

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this is the environment

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I reside in all the time.

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And this is where I keep myself and

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place myself. Even when I have to be

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in the city, I will find a space

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something like this park

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that nurture me that nurture my soul.

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Find a place

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that nurture you

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make a space

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that nurture you maybe, you're totally not an

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outdoor person.

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But maybe you like to sit in a

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space with, you know, some some little lights,

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a candle,

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some music,

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himalayan salt lamp.

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A diffuse,

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make a space for yourself

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that you can go to and find

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joy and happiness,

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renewal.

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And

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gather to that place,

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you know, we rushed through life so much.

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Things are really busy for me right now.

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I'm in an unusual season.

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And I'm all over the place.

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But sometimes we have to hone it in,

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and sometimes we need this cast that fishing

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rod out there and reel ourselves back in.

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I've been doing that.

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I've been taking, you know, having to just

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drastically

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pause and walk away from the things I'm

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doing, and I've been using a red light.

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I'm doing some red light therapy.

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I've been, like I said, walking. I've been

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doing some exercising. I've been working on my

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feet, our feet.

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Stretching our feet and and working with our

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feet is a very powerful

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powerful,

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little exercise.

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I've got so much ahead for you guys.

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There's so many things that nurture our body

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in such a tremendous way, and they don't

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take a lot of time in a lot

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of

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but they're extremely powerful. These are all things

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I'll be sharing with you. But I'm pausing

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to do self care.

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If I had a bathtub, I would be

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soaking.

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You know, if you have a bathtub taking

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a 15

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20 30, I minute, 60 minutes soak,

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eps and salt soak and essential oils.

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Put on some nice relaxing music

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and just soak. Listen to a a positive

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audiobook

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or a podcast

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and just soak, just relax.

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Getting in the quiet so quietly, you know,

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some people can't handle

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the quiet.

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I like the quiet. I go

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I go back and forth between different things.

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I love listening to praise music. That's very

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nurturing for me.

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Sometimes when I'm in the car, I'll have

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the music playing.

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I'll listen to something positive. Other tons, I'll

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just drive in total silence.

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It's just renewing to me.

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We've gotta find what works for us

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but staying in a negative and pessimistic place

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in a place of deep self

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where you're just constantly

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analyzing

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and

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analyzing that you're not well.

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It's gonna keep you there.

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I promise you.

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I watch

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many, many clients

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sit in that space and in that head

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space,

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and they don't progress.

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While everyone around them is doing the same

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thing to nurture

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that

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ai,

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and they're just

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catapult holding forward,

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and that person stuck in their head just

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sits there, and that's where they stay.

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Because

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just constantly in that space and not willing

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to

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to try new things.

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If you are struggling in that way, and

401
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you need help,

402
00:16:02,953 --> 00:16:05,288
please get on my calendar for a free

403
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consultation, or a 1 on 1 private

404
00:16:08,711 --> 00:16:11,663
consultation. If you just... You're comfortable with me

405
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and you wanna

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get out of that space.

407
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On my calendar.

408
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Faithful healing dot com slash calendar.

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You do not need to stay stuck there.

410
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And let me tell you that there is

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a beautiful

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brilliant world on the other side of anxiety,

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depression,

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and negativity.

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Ptsd as well.

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These are all things that you can combat.

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All things that you can nurture.

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All things that you can grow from and

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expand from.

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And

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Healing is not for the for Wimp.

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I'll say that all the time.

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Healing is a process.

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Healing is not fast. There is no magic

425
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pill. There is no quick fix.

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But I'll tell you this.

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It's a journey.

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And it's a journey that can either be

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mundane,

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and terrible

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and draining,

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and life ending,

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or it can be a journey that is

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brilliant

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an amazing,

436
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and powerful

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that you learn that you grow that you

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mature

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that you come out of that place,

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bounding

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into new territory.

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And it's all a matter of how we

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handle it with this.

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There's so much truth in that. I know

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that from myself.

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You know, as I said, I was flat

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on my back for a year. And the

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first weekend I was in a miserable place.

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I didn't wanna be there.

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Had things to do. I'm a go get

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her.

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I was strong and suddenly I was weak.

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I heard God say to me I have

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you right where I need you to be,

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and I'm gonna use you out of that

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space.

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You don't hear his still small voice,

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keep reading the word,

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keeps seeking him, keep pulling into him. If

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and you will. That's a secret. I sought

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that in my thirties something fears.

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Nobody knew how to hear that still small

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voice. The feel his present

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to see his hand.

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And then he showed me how to get

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there, and I'll be darned if I'm gonna

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keep it to myself.

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It's a powerful place,

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and my healing journey was the most amazing

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journey of my life thus far.

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Because I was grown, and I was shaped,

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and I was molded. I was broken down

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too,

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but out of that place came so much

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good. So if you're afraid to change in

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you're and you're in that negative space, I'll

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never get better. I'll never gonna change. This

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is how it is. This is where this

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You know, God didn't heal me yet. I'm

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just stuck in this space, get out of

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it.

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Those are lies.

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00:19:08,702 --> 00:19:11,174
Those are those are those are lies from

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the enemy

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and you're lying to yourself,

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and you need to be willing to change

487
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those thoughts.

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You need to be willing to write down

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all that miserable junk that's in there that

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you keep spewing and thinking onto to paper

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and rip it up every morning because you

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know what's gonna happen.

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It's gonna hit a point where you have

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any more of that to write down.

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You're not thinking about that anymore.

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Suddenly, you're thinking about the good things.

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And you're telling yourself how beautifully and wonderfully

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made you are and that you're strong and

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you're gonna heal and and you're powerful,

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and you're not defined by other people and

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you're you're you're

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you're not defined by your past.

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And you're not defined by by certain by

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your illness.

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The world wants us to feel that way.

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Society wants us to stay sick

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because it's sick care, not health care,

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Let's let's give you a pill for that

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and keep you in that space.

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It's not how I will.

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I'm gonna teach you what I know, and

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I'm gonna help you grow and I'm gonna

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help you combat the feeling that you can't

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change.

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Stay with me.

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Keep joining me

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because I'm gonna speak life and truth into

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you.

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Because you deserve to know those things

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and you deserve to live a good life.

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None of us need to stay stuck.

522
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Some of us have gone through some really

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rough stuff in our lives. I was mentally

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and emotionally and physically

525
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abused

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as a child.

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I'm praising the lord that I had an

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inner strength.

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My spirit was strong

530
00:21:09,554 --> 00:21:10,613
despite what I was

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encountering because

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instead of that breaking me, though it left

533
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scars,

534
00:21:16,588 --> 00:21:18,264
and stuck stuff, let me tell you.

535
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I was determined to not stay in that

536
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space. I was determined to not be defined

537
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by it. I was determined to prove the

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people telling me that I was too fat

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or are not good enough or never going

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to amount to anything. I was determined to

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prove them wrong. And I'm very thankful to

542
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God that that was instilled in me.

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And I know that some of you don't

544
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have that inner strength, and you don't maybe

545
00:21:45,983 --> 00:21:48,774
have that connection with God were people in

546
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your life that are speaking life into you,

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00:21:53,175 --> 00:21:53,971
come here, I will.

548
00:21:56,919 --> 00:21:58,295
Because you are beautifully

549
00:21:58,672 --> 00:22:00,663
and wonderfully and powerfully made.

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You just need to be renewed and find

551
00:22:04,027 --> 00:22:04,926
that renewal

552
00:22:05,383 --> 00:22:06,202
in life

553
00:22:06,659 --> 00:22:07,638
in your yourself

554
00:22:08,254 --> 00:22:09,291
and your spirit.

555
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I truly believe that we can overcome anything.

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Absolutely anything.

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We just need to want it that in

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enough.

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00:22:21,844 --> 00:22:24,230
So if you are in this pessimistic place,

560
00:22:25,264 --> 00:22:26,400
and you are struggling,

561
00:22:27,888 --> 00:22:29,335
emotionally and mentally.

562
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Spiritually.

563
00:22:34,111 --> 00:22:36,817
Keep joining here. Join me in my community.

564
00:22:37,295 --> 00:22:40,674
Faith led healing com slash community. There's multiple

565
00:22:40,810 --> 00:22:42,878
options there for you to join. It's free

566
00:22:42,878 --> 00:22:43,435
to everyone.

567
00:22:46,635 --> 00:22:48,310
If you need help because you can't grab

568
00:22:48,310 --> 00:22:50,304
your bootstrap. I was there.

569
00:22:51,421 --> 00:22:51,979
I was there.

570
00:22:53,256 --> 00:22:55,170
I get there sometimes now, but, you know

571
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what? I have a community of people

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that I know

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that when I'm in that place, and my

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arms aren't long enough. I just need to

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ask them to help me pray.

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And

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suddenly,

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my posture changes,

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and my arms are long enough to reach

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my bootstrap. And I have those people in

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my community and surrounding me

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that if that's not the case, and I

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can't reach my bootstrap.

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To put my boots on for me

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and help me through that season.

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We all need those people, and I keep

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sharing with you the importance of that. I'm

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gonna continue.

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God

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nudge me to create this community with great

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intention. I get to see it flourishing and

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unraveling every day and see the purpose behind

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it.

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It's there for you too.

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Everyone is welcome.

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Everyone.

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So

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know that when you're in a a really

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rough emotional,

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and mental and spiritually lacking state. You don't

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need to do it alone and there is

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00:23:59,036 --> 00:24:01,746
help for you and that it's really important

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00:24:01,746 --> 00:24:02,862
to get out of that place.

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Really important to get out of that place.

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So you pair

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your expressive writing and you're journal with some

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breath work, and you're gonna go to some

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very deep and powerful places

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of healing.

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So

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that's a message for you today.

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I'm really grateful that you join me. I'm

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really grateful for you,

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and I will be praying for you.

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I pray over our Youtube channel. And anyone

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that's

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finding it over our community over my clients,

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power prayers is huge and having god in

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our lives

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is the most important thing we can do

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for ourselves.

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And then taking care of ourselves is next,

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not selfish.

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Not pride putting ourselves ahead of everybody else

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because our health matters.

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We need to be be so that we

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can serve others.

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So God

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and then you

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and then others.

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Nurture true yourself so that you can be

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well and don't be afraid to change.

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That's my message for you this morning.

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I love you all. Very thankful for you

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all.

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Continue to join me,

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join the community. I'm live on Youtube every

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Wednesday morning.

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At 9AM Pacific Standard Time.

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Gather,

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join us.

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Put these little tips and tricks into place.

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Have a wonderful rest of your day.

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God bless.

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Thank you for joining us on face led

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healing where everyday once a closer to your

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00:25:47,622 --> 00:25:49,857
best life ever. We hope you enjoyed the

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00:25:49,857 --> 00:25:51,613
show here encourage you to join us at

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faith led healing dot com. Connect with us

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leave us a review. Remember your best life

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00:25:58,886 --> 00:26:01,277
is just down the path. The faith led

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