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And this month in the month july we're
going in the book of proverbs,
and we're using this month and we're in
the book of proverbs and we're calling it
the wisdom
of proverbs.
Because God's word is wisdom it's knowledge. It's
understanding. It gives us the right path to
go down.
Keeps us from making mistakes and keeping us
from making something that we might regret. We
don't want no regrets. We want to live
the best life possible
God has offered us. And so in order
to make sure that we're living our best
like, we need to be in the word
of God. So while you being here,
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Alright. So we are the book book of
proverbs, and we are now kinda of moving
ahead
This is going to be...
This is this is this is gonna make
demand in the mirror, look at demand in
the mirror. This is what it's gonna do
because we're in proverbs 6.
And this particular section in bravo 6
starts at verse 20,
and then it ends at adverse
35.
And this whole section is talking about is
a warning against adultery.
So warning against adultery.
Brothers
When we live by the flesh and not
by the word of god,
this will trip you up every time.
Look,
I know sometimes things happen,
and you don't go looking for stuff where
it'll come find you. And if you're not
grounded
in the word of god,
you're gonna fall into this trap.
There are women out there that
their sole purpose
is to seek
married men
to seduce some.
I mean, just being honest. Not all women.
I'm just saying there's some women out there.
That that's what they do.
You got some women that they do it
for revenge.
If something was done to them.
By another woman,
and then they'll take revenge out and try
to seduce the husband. It's hap... It has
happened.
There's the that... I mean, there's documented proof
that this has happened.
And so
you have to be grounded in the word
of god.
Let me just say this.
When
you make your commitment to your wife,
and I'm a tell you this, and A
dad. And I'm a gonna tell you. I'm
gonna tell you how No. When you make
your commitment to your wife.
Your wife has a trust in you. There's
a trust there. Your your wife has a
trust in you
that you probably don't never really realize just
how how bonding that trust is. Your wife
trust you with our life.
But when you step out on her out
of the marriage, and you sleep with another
woman,
you have broken that trust. And even though
we are to forgive,
and we are supposed to do just like
God has done with us. He forgive us.
He has forgotten about our past.
You're talking about people that still living in
the flesh
and it's hard to do sometimes.
Your wife will never look at you the
same.
If you break that trust. She may forgive
you, and she may be able to put
all that pass behind you, but she will
never look at you the same.
As when she first looked at you when
y'all first got married.
So I'm telling you
you might wanna think about this
before you step out on your wife for
whatever reason.
What you need to do, you need to
get in the work, you need to start
praying, You need to start meditating
and you need to start seeking
wise counsel
in order to fix whatever problems you got
going on in your marriage before you step
out.
And you definitely do not step out
on another man's wife.
I don't care what's going on.
And I don't wanna hear about this that
no we separated whatever. That woman is legally
married a man
and you sleep with her.
That's a adultery.
God does not like that. That's that's that's
not in his repertoire. That's not what we're
about.
And so
this whole section from verse 20 to 35
is dealing with that warning against the doctor.
So I'm just gonna be a little portion
of that found 1 little portion, I think
it just brings it all home. So I'm
reading that starting at 26 to 29.
And the reasons follows
For a prostitute
can be
had for a loaf bread,
but another man's wife pray,
praise
on your very life.
Can a man far into his lap without
his clothes being burnt.
Can a man walk on hot coals without
his feet feet being scorched?
So
is he
who sleeps with another man's wife?
No 1 who touches her
will go on punish.
So
we just don't do that ben. Kingdom them
in in action. We don't do that.
We don't we don't cover another the man's
covering in another man's why wife.
We have a wife. And if you're single,
you're definitely not on a pro
because you're waiting to meet your wife.
And you don't wanna have any
blemishes or bad reflections on you.
Look, the flesh
The flesh... If you're following the flesh, the
flesh is very, very tempting. And if you're
not grounding in the word of god, the
flesh will lead you to do things. That
you will regret and will damage your relationship
with your wife,
Fiance,
or whoever.
And so
we just don't do that.
Ask me how I know, because I was
out there, and I've done some things that
I wish I had never done
when I was not in the word of
god,
damaging things,
selfish things,
just
satisfy my own need
to to get a piece of tail. That's
all.
That's all my thought process was, and that's
all Ever thought about.
And I just wish that I
in the word of god then. Again, I
tell anybody. That's why I'm here now. I'm
trying to prevent people from going anywhere down
the road. That I was on. I believe
that's why god still has me here because
I should not be here.
So since I am here, I'm I'm doing
what I do,
until he calls me home. And if I
can keep anybody that's in their twenties and
thirties
from going astra and doing what they shouldn't
be doing,
then we need to have a conversation because
I'm a tell you keeping in your pants,
it's between you and your wife, If y'all
having issues, You need to seek Wires counsel
and get it worked out, and you need
to work on that relationship, and you need
to make sure that you're loving her and
she's loving you. And that's how that works.
It's not gonna be all roses roses all
the time. But if you married her and
made that commitment to her, you made a
covenant with her, under god, then you need
to honor that covenant just like you honor
your covenant with God, and you need to
make sure that you're loving your wife. And
not another man's wife, and that's just the
end of that plain is simple.
You love your wife,
not another man's wife.
Is just that simple.
Don't fall for the flesh.
Don't fall for the little whisper in the
ear.
You know,
as we go through our relationship, and we're
gonna be talking about this
in future episodes on what we need to
do. Need to keep your
relationship with your wife
fresh.
Because it's time go on and routine going,
things gone and and things get kinda old,
you know, just being honest
But you have to make sure if you
say you love your wife,
keep things fresh.
Make sure that you are telling her you
love. I kissed my wife every morning
I kiss my wife. Every time I see
her. When she come home from work, I
kiss her. If I come home for work,
I kiss her and I hug her.
She gets little noise time, but I love
her, and I want her to know that
each and every day, and so that's what
we do.
If we're in the bed, we we're hugging
each other.
We're together. I don't really like being
anywhere without her if she can be with
me
because I love her, and I assure that
when I'm with her.
She loves me.
She tries to make sure that I'm happy
and taken care of, and I try to
make sure the things that make her happy
and taken care of I do for her.
And that's what you're do in your relationship.
You don't get all it's dry and, oh,
she don't do this. And you we get
older. We don't look the same. When we
first met.
And so either we gonna work together to,
you know, make sure we're looking good or
whatever. But, you know, that's your wife.
For better or for worse,
for richer, or for poor
in sickness
and in health.
And so we're gonna have conversations about this
because actually,
a lot of conversations need to start at
the beginning because you don't realize what you
get into
because you meet these people and you meet
them and then you meet them. If the
the first thing you see is how they
look, and you their flesh takes over, and
you're not thinking about the long term because
you need to learn... You need to learn
these people. The man needs to learn the
woman and the woman needs to learn the
man, their value and what they stand for
and what they're looking for and how they
go to wanna be in the marriage. You...
Y'all I gotta have a conversation. Y'all just
jump out and get married And then when
all the the newness in the in the
in the in the lust and all that
wears off. And now you're just looking at
each other, like, what did I do?
Because
I'm telling you, and you're gonna be married
till death do you part? And so are
you really ready to make that commitment because
if that man or woman gets sick and
you have to wipe their butt, are you
gonna be able to do that? They get
incapacitated and you have to clean them and
feed them and moved them around.
It happens.
That's life,
but you made a commitment.
Are you ready to see that commitment all
way through?
Something to think about. But anyway, that's my
little talk. We got a whole lot more
to talk about. I would way past what
I wanted. But anyway, that's all proverbs.
The wisdom of proverbs for the today, and
that section from 20 we're
proper 6,
scriptures 20 to 35
is a warning against a dose true. And
then I just read a little part. Just
the to let me into that ramp that
I just went. But anyway, well, y'all know
what the deal is, and y'all know what
to do. We do it the right way.
We do it god's way. Not man's way.
We're not gonna fall for the O dog
anymore. So Alright. I appreciate y'all. Love you
brothers.
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