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A friend, welcome to today's quick connect where

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we take a moment toward mass 3. Alright.

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Order to be a master

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communicator, we must be a brilliant listener. There

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are 3 levels of listening, level 1, level

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2 and level 3. Level 1 listening is

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listening pretty much just to ourselves, our own

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dialogue, our narrative, and our own thoughts. In

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a conversation, we are typically

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julie formulating

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our response, while the other person is talking,

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in other words, we're not listening for the

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sake of hearing and under standing, we're listening

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partially for the sake of formulating

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an even better response.

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So today, the invitation is out of the

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3 levels of listening,

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understand that level 1 listening is not optimal

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in that in a conversation, it is very,

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very self focused. So the invitation today is

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simply to notice in any given conversation where

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you're at, are you list to the person

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to understand or are you listening to the

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person to formulate the perfect comeback? You know,

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the z, So that's it. Let's just become

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mindful and aware of our own listening styles.

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Alright. I'm with you and it as always

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a much love to you. And here's to

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making every moment count.

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